Girls, Girl says she likes me but doesn't want to lead me on and that she isn't ready for something serious? How should I handle this?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well, I'm a few months out of a 5 year relationship. I was not looking for anything serious-I fully understand the emotions.

However, when the guy I just started dating and I started talking I got over it. I really like this guy and he treats me better than anyone ever has, so rather than risk losing a guy I TRULY want to be with, I got over my baggage.

I think that is generally how most women are. There is a chance that she MAY truly not be ready for a relationship with anyone at all, but chances are if someone she truly wants to be with comes along, she will suddenly be ready.

[baoailin]

I think that she's being honest by telling you she doesn't want something serious. I've been in a situation like that right after a breakup: the guy was great but I wasn't emotionally ready. I would give her time without trying to force her into something.

[Anonymous]

Something similar happened to me with a guy I like. I am sure he likes me too. But we talked he didn't sayed it directly to me but he said he wasn't intrested in relationship. I kinda felt like down.😔 Anyways at least she is being honest with you and not giving you mixed signals. Maybd try being friends and if she is ready it could turn to something more! Or maybe she is scared of a relationship of getting hurt or something. Goodluck!☺

[Shushube]

Best thing to do is respect her decision and if you are serious about her, you will wait.

Life goes on for a long time and when you are young it feels like it's very short, but it's not. Have patience and show you really care about her. Be a real man instead of a horn dog.

[cinderelli]

If she really likes you then she will change her mind.. if not then move on.

[Anonymous]

Respect what she had told you and a peace of advise.. move on