Girls, my girlfriend is very mean and snappy at me when she's tired or stressed. Also, talks about the future and plans early on. Help?

Patrick917
I'm 30 years old, I've been hurt badly in the past, and I never intended to get involved with someone closely again. However, I met my girlfriend a couple of months ago, she's 21, and we just clicked. We spent a lot of time together and still do, and she's very sweet and acknowledges things I do for her in away other girls never have. I feel appreciated.

But there are a couple of things that are on my mind. Firstly, she gets very mean when she's tired or hungry, and often says some mean things to me or seems to resent me about things that I otherwise can't control or didn't do on purpose. She stays at my place most nights, things are great, we go to bed, but then in the morning she sometimes acts like a spoiled child and snaps at me about even looking at her. She told me before that when she's tired she says things she doesn't mean, but it can get really venomous sometimes. She has her own place, and rarely stays there because she wants to stay with me, but blames me for not having the conveniences at her place a lot. She says "you just don't get it." I'm not forcing her to stay over, but she wants to most night, yet seems to resent me for it.

Secondly, she's had a bad past with guys. They treated her badly and she seems the type to have always wanted someone to take care of her and love her, which I fit the bill nicely for. I'm very thoughtful and treat her well, and she acknowledges that too. She mentions the future a lot, talks about us moving in together, getting married, etc.. Basically turns when "I" into when "we". It doesn't bother like it normally would, because I care about her and feel genuinely like we click, but I also don't understand why she wants something like that with me after only being together for a couple of months.

I'm trying my best to be compassionate, understanding, and caring. I'm incredibly patient, but I have my own fears too. I just feel kind of lost. Any thoughts or stories would be appreciated. Thank you, ladies.
Girls, my girlfriend is very mean and snappy at me when she's tired or stressed. Also, talks about the future and plans early on. Help?
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