Girls, she avoids walking past me, please help?

[Anonymous]

im guessing she finds me creepy or similar? A girl seems to deliberatly avoid walking past me. she's done it in the past by which i mean she speeds up to avoid us passing. she also reaches out when passing something almost like a nervous thing so she can turn away quickly. Another time she walked past and looked down and fiddled with the zip on her jacket then she deliberatly avoided walking past me by going the long way around. Iam attracted to her maybe she dont feel the same obviously lol

[dandysandy]

As a shy and quiet girl here, I'd say there are a lot of possibilities on why she acts this way. In my experience, I might act like this if I'm interested in a guy. I might act like this out of nervousness and just not knowing what to do with myself. Like me, a lot of shy girls can lack self confidence and try to mask their feelings so that they won't feel rejection. If you lack self confidence, having someone know that you like them can be the most terrifying thing ever. For a person with low self esteem, It's difficult to feel like you're ever good enough for someone you like and you may fear that they'll laugh at you for thinking they'd ever have a mutual interest. Another possibility is that she really may feel uncomfortable around you. If you're really open with your attraction towards her and she doesn't feel the same, it might freak her out. Also, she may not enjoy any male attention, therefore, she tries the best she can to repel it. She could be like this for a number of reasons. Past sexual abuse, harassment, etc. can spark this kind of behavior in people. Being abused in my childhood, I can relate to this. This doesn't mean she is undateable or hates you (and men in general), it just means that if you're interested, you need to hold it back a notch and be clear with her on what your intentions are.

[Asker]

somedays she avoids eye contsct like looks the other way when i look at her but then today she was totally different talking with full eye contact but she still looks at this other guy much more and avoids me. anyway later that i did stare at her a few times which she saw after this she changed like avoiding walking past me but on going she was around but she was facing the opposite way then she moved again i could see her looking at waiting for the other guy to wave goodbye then carried on the direction i was going waved to me but didn't even look at me. i find her rude sometimes