I attract a lot of attention wherever I go?

[Anonymous]

I dont know why this is, but it gets annoying at times. If you think about a scenario of a guy walking into a supermarket and having everyone turn their heads to look at you, I would be that guy. Just earlier today, a lady her husband and her baby child were walking towards me. I was on my phone but as we approached I looked up and the wife did the usual "look away and looking at the floor" With her eyes moving all sorts of places. This happens constantly. The thing is, I have always been chubby, so I dont see myself as too attractive but these signs I get from people tell me otherwise. I've read articles saying that if you do get looked at a lot (more often then not, 80% of people will look at me and check me out, guys and girls) then you are considered attractive. But as stated above I've been chubby my whole life so I dont see that being the case with me. Am i Delusional?

[TimTim56]

They may not be checking you out. You could dress weird or something. I'm not saying they aren't checking you out, but people more often will look at someone because they look odd or bad than if they just have nice features. I am by no means making any sort of judgments. It could be kind of like how goth and emo kids get looked at all the time (not that they don't want the attention) and people looks at them because they stand out.

[Anonymous]

Just don't attract too much negative attention... you'll be fine (hopefully)

[Isamara]

Mmmm... this is difficult to answer without knowing how you really look like. I mean, you could be a little chubby and have a cute face or perhaps be hideous. I don't know. But I find it really strange tbh. Why would everyone look away if you are attractive? If I saw you on the street and thought ("Wow, he is gorgeous/cute) I wouldn't look at the floor, believe me.

[Asker]

I dont know, maybe you're not shy? But I've been told I have a nice face (not to sound cocky but prob a 9/10). Although I do get people who dont look away either

[Isamara]

Actually I'm very introvert and don't talk to guys that easily...
If you are a 9/10 then I don't see why people avoid eye contact. Something is definitely wrong.

[Asker]

Well I could say I dress pretty well. I have style, I know how to carry myself, Have a 9/10 face like I stated... But even then I am still abit chubby, so why all the attention?

[Isamara]

There are still people that like chubby men, ya know? If you feel confident about your looks and body then that's great!

[Asker]

MHO goes tooooooooo... YOU lol

[Isamara]

Early to say that xD
Wait a little more.

[ColdHeartCries]

They find you good looking.
If you don't like it, grow a beard.