"Its just so cruel to judge a guy based off of who he is as a person."
Really? Is it that bad?
I mean I know I am no supermodel, but I would hope that someone could see all of my good qualities vs. me not looking like a supermodel and say "yes, she is good! I want her!"
To me, wanting someone for who they actually are is very important. I don't want someone who says "attractive enough to have sex with". Attraction is important, but if that's the only thing a person is looking for the relationship gets old fast.
Also, guys are not simple!
I am about as accommodating, understanding and relaxed as it gets. I have a good job, a car, I have goals for the future which include a family and owning my own home. I went to school, graduated and am now working at my career.
If it was just as simple as being a good person, then I would have been snapped up years ago. But it's not. I'm told I'm attractive, but I'm still single. So I don't find guys to be simple either.
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Looks don't matter to everyone, sometimes someone has that something that attracts you to him or her and if someone has a great personality and is just nice to be around then that can be more appealing than physical good looks. I find humour in a man attractive as does a man that shows kindness and compassion and who is comfortable in who he is. I'm not good looking in the slightest, in fact I'm downright ugly (a bull dog licking piss off a nettle is a good description of me ) but I have no problem with the opposite sex as I am easy to talk to and have a sense of humour. The best description of attraction I heard is " when someone sings a song that only you can hear" . Sometimes people connect on different levels and physical attraction doesn't always factor.
You can just ask the girl why she doesn't like you.
Looks are just a minor thing, compatability is most important. Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship because we are very much alike in what we do and love and our sense of humor and everything... I fell in love with who he is not what he looks like.
Long term relationships are about personalities, not looks. Looks go down with time anyway, and if you spend all your time together, you will want to have fun together and be able to talk easily with each other and be like best friends. Just having someone that looks good... how boring is that
This is really really really reallyx15 stupid dude if women did that u would never have sex again 😕
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"Its just so cruel to judge a guy based off of who he is as a person"
You can't be for real... seriously... this is ridiculous. You can't dictate what we are attracted to, that's just idiotic. Why would I want to fuck someone who I think is a stupid prick? Because he's pretty? That's so fucking shallow..
You aren't very bright are you?I think that anyone wants the perfect person in their mind, not to say we settle but people change with time and yes due to their personality it can definitely make someone more attractive or less. A good personality to me is someone who is a good person, everything that makes them the funny person they are they caring person that they are etc. Having a guy who is devilishly hot and abusive or rude doesn't go hand in hand, it automatically makes him less attractive or should I say appealing.
Umm. That's the most shallow thing I've ever read.
No wonder girls don't like you.Looks fade.
Personality takes a bit longer.Agree totally
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