Why are girls so obsessed with boys?

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I don't undersand why girls just swoon over "hot" guys. Why do girls just almost, fall in love and become obsessed with a guy just because he's "hot" or says "Hi" to them. It's never clicked with my brain.

redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

What do you focus on instead? There's gotta be *something*

Music, video games, sports, writing, poetry, nature, science... ? There's gotta be something.

You might have a biased sample. It's easy for girls to talk to other girls about boys, because they see the same boys all the time. Most other interests are more solitary. I mean, I spent all this time in my daddy's garage learning to fix hot rods in high school, and I was pretty obsessed with 1950's cars, but it's not like there were tons and tons of people (of either sex) that I could talk to about that.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I guess we are looking for futures with people. When a guy does something that catches my interest I think "wow. I want my future boyfriend or husband to do that! Who exactly is this guy?" happens every time. Im not saying we want to marry every nice guy, but we or at least I subconsciously look around.

SensualScribe · Accepted Answer

I don't know. It takes a hell of a lot more than that for me to fall for a guy. I have to be attracted to his mind as well. Sure, some guys are really nice to look at, but if they don't have brains he is getting no where with me.

tony72722 · Accepted Answer

Lol I don't know they just get their hands off me..

GuyAdviceFromGuy · Accepted Answer

You're under 18, wait till you're over 30, then you'll see all the unmarried women falling for the men that make the most money, despite how ugly they look

1GuyOpinion · Answer

I don't understand why guy just swoon over "hot" girls. Why do guy just almost, fall in love and become obsessed with a girl just because she's "hot" or says "Hi" to them. It's never clicked with my brain.

Can you answer my question first? then I answer your :)

Aud_Queen · Answer

I fall in love with intelligence. That's sexy. YES tell me about things I don't know! <3

lolfineoneinamillion · Answer

Lol honestly not eveyone is like that, I'm not like that so...

bente2 · Answer

It's because I don't see a lot of hot guys😂 I don't care if it's just online though.

ZionOrtov · Answer

The trivial and primitive nature of these girls control them more them objective and subjective logical thinking.

dotydot · Answer

I sense special snowflake syndrome. Or you're just not attracted to guys in general.

MJas16 · Answer

Guilty... literally if a guy opens the door for me, Ill probably think about him for a week😂😂 im lame I. know

Tomsta · Answer

Biology and most likely sexual attraction and fantasies over said guys

RandomPerson1324 · Answer

I don't know... I have girls stalking me every day on here... It's a little ridiculous...

LittleAnnabelle · Answer

This is actually a good question

NJ_Casanova · Answer

If you ever figure it out let us know?

Mesonfielde · Answer

Because they find them sexually attractive.

Bandit74 · Answer

Because looks >personality

skeptic007 · Answer

cause women are sluts

Polocrew · Answer

You gotta get laid for that

Anonymous · Answer

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James19 · Answer

Just biology...

Why are girls so obsessed with boys?

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