Why do guys get obsessed with a girl for no good reason?

[Happyjg]

I know a guy like this he has at times these weird looks in his eyes like he’s either trying to read me deeper or study me. Some guys need to get a life tbh like why do I attract men who can’t take a hint to leave me alone?

I need to try harder to be boring

[MrOracle]

There's reasons. You might not like or agree with the reasons, but that doesn't mean the reasons don't exist. And, here's a little hint: those guys who are obsessed with you won't care one tiny bit if you are "boring."

It's some combination of your looks, your attitude, and your behavior that these guys are finding attractive.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

There are ALWAYS reasons, but they can be hard to trace back an obsession. Obsession is everywhere anyway, people get obsessed all the time about anything, be it playing piano, spreading religion or working at the office.

[Happyjg]

I’m a boring ass woman. One of the guys has a girlfriend. Can’t he go obsess over that girl

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Even a pebble can be subject to obsession from someone, so it may have nothing to do with you. Or if it does, only you can evaluate that I'm afraid

[Happyjg]

Thanks.

[Fl2pa]

Sometimes you fall for a girl for no particular reason.

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't think a guy looking at you makes him obsessed

[Zenpanda]

Have you rejected him or told him you're not interested?
Because if you didn't do anything and expect him to lose interest you're in for a long annoying time.

[Happyjg]

He has a girlfriend so me coming out saying stop paying attention to me would be kinda weird

[Zenpanda]

Then I'd just ignore him unless he starts doing more than just looking.

[Happyjg]

The thing is he stares at my face like he’s studying or just too interested. He also seemed hurt or affected when I distanced from him. He wants me to be open or engaged with him emotionally. Usually if I distance, people might notice or make a comment but he seemed affected. He wants to know about my life but he hides stuff from me about his. It’s one sided

[Zenpanda]

If you're not interested in talking to him, tell him.

[Happyjg]

I’m asking why he’s interested in the first place.

[Zenpanda]

Only he can answer that, there is no universal answer

[Avicenna]

They think they have good reason to

[Happyjg]

I need to be even more lame and boring than I already am. Maybe I have to act half dead.