I'm madly jealous of this beautiful, stunning girl that goes to my school?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl in some of my classes at school who is unbelievably pretty. She always applies her makeup nicely and does her hair nicely... omg she is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen in my life. I can tell that some teachers think she is too. When her hair is curled it looks simply perfect, so pretty. Her face is breathtaking and she has a very slim body with a flat stomach.

If I ever sit next to her in class, I always feel ugly next to her. I just can't help feeling this way. When I see her, it makes me feel bad about myself because she's so stunning. I saw my other female friend staring at her longingly the other day, all the whole I was thinking, 'I wish people stared at me like that'

I've tried being friends with her but she doesn't seem interested in being my friend and to be honest I think she thinks I'm abit weird. She is a kind person though, and has a pleasant personality.

I can't help but have a burning jealousy of her. But I dont want to be jealous of anyone, I want to have good feelings towards everyone.

My self esteem can get quite low, and if at any time I feel confident and happy, I am easy to be bought down and feel useless.

I just wish I could ignore looks, but I can't stand hanging around with pretty girls and I even get jealous of pretty female relatives- my family. I honestly get so jealous of pretty girls. Not that I have a load of friends. Has anyone got any advice for me?

Sorry about the ramble

Thanks for reading:)

[MissPanda]

There's always going to be someone "hotter" than you, and I use that term loosely because beauty is subjective. Try not to compare yourself and appreciate your nice features and things that make you uniquely beautiful. You're also under 18, you're so young. In high school I was ugly and awkward. I had acne, I didn't know how to do my hair, I was so skinny everyone thought I was anorexic. I looked at all the pretty girls in high school and wished I looked like them, it sucked, but I came into my own eventually and found people who appreciate my type of beauty.

[ZellRocx666]

I can kinda relate.. -sighs-
U think she's so pretty right? What's stopping u from being pretty?

[Memora]

You should remember it's all just makeup she is wearing, you should love your natural beauty.

[Mybeachlife88]

Nah the other girl probably has better natural beauty too

[Mybeachlife88]

You need to fuck her... with your fingers or strap on. It's probably a little outrageous, but you will have owned her and no longer be jealous of her haha

[SomeOtherGuy]

Fact.
This is how I have dominated many of the male gaggers on this very site.
Brb, got one more to handle here.

[Mybeachlife88]

@SomeOtherGuy ummmm ewww

[SomeOtherGuy]

Oh wow it's ew when I say it but it's cool when you say it.
Double standards much?

[Mybeachlife88]

@SomeOtherGuy pretty much

[SomeOtherGuy]

Is it still ew if I shout no-homo before I do it?

[Mybeachlife88]

@SomeOtherGuy just weird that you even thought to say that. Eww

[SomeOtherGuy]

rofl So you were serious about all this and not making any jokes?
Wow. Okay then.
I'm pretty comfortable in my own sexuality, and comfortable with other people's sexuality. I also have a overarching sense of humor.
It comes off more suspect to me that you are uncomfortable with other people bringing up male homosexuality, but you're comfortable bringing up female homosexuality.

[Mybeachlife88]

@SomeOtherGuy you're correct... I brought up the whole dominating her because I thought it was funny how jealous she was of this girl. It was a funny joke in my mind... but then for you to take it to the male on male situation with all of the male gagers on here... it weirded me out. This girl is infatuated with the other girl as if she's in love with her... so I basically said to conquer her to get over it already. You came out of left field with conquering every male on this site, then turned it into a homophobe contest when I said eww.

[SomeOtherGuy]

Hey, if you're uncomfortable with your own sexuality that's on you. Maybe you got some things to work out.
I find the whole idea of animals dominating the same gender through sex acts as a hilariously odd thing. Like when dogs do it. It doesn't exist in ourmainstream culture.
So I found it hilarious when you suggested she do it. I ran with the joke. You became homophobic and got weirded out.
Not my fault if you think straight women sexually dominating each other as a joke is funny, but somehow think straight men sexually dominating each other is icky. I just don't see the difference.
Is it because one is your gender and it makes you uncomfortable to think about because you think you might do it and enjoy it? But then don't you think straight women would be uncomfortable with YOU bringing it up?
Do you completely lack consideration for others?
Or do you fall along the bisexual scale but are afraid of a social stigma?
I really can't tell. Help me out here.

[Mybeachlife88]

@SomeOtherGuy ummmm I think you're missing the point. I made a joke about her being madly in love with the girl... so I basically said hit it and quit it. You on the other hand came in and made a joke about wanting to do the same with every guy on gag. So there's a big difference. Not a homophobe. But 100% straight here so sorry to burst your bubble.

[SomeOtherGuy]

"... strap on. It's probably a little outrageous, but you will have owned her and no longer be jealous of her" = love
Okay, got it.
Definitely not in line with animal based domination behavior, especially those exhibited by canines.
Definitely love based.

[Mybeachlife88]

@SomeOtherGuy over it

[SomeOtherGuy]

I just think it's funny you're trying to defend yourself by pretending like you said X when you really said Y as though no one else saw it.

[blondfrog]

Get over it filler.