Why are girls picky about who they have sex with if they want rough sex?

[Anonymous]

why are girls picky about who they have sex with if they want rough sex?

if girls want to be roughed and slapped. with hair pulling, ass slapping, choking, spitting, and dink suking,

why do they want a good looking guy to sweet talk them into sex. if they want rough sex?

like could they not have at least softcore sex with a awkward average looking guy, if they give rough sex to good looking guys?

because girls want to be dominated

because girls are just picky for no reason, but want to dominated as-well

because they are want good looking guys to get all the sex, including rough sex

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[Anonymous]

Trust me, there is so secret agenda where women are purposely ignoring regular guys for sex. Women have sex with who they want to have sex with. Whether that be a model looking guy or just a regular guy. Plenty of regular dudes get sex and have kids and the world goes round.

Plus not everyone enjoys rough sex. And that type of sex requires trust. I wouldn't have rough sex with just anyone. I need a boyfriend who is going to respect me enough to not treat me like crap afterwards bc we had rough sex.

Rough sex is supposed to be a fun activity, not something that defines another person's worth.

The problem is, some people have a hard time separating the two. They think if a woman likes to get roughed up in bed, that she doesn't deserve respect.

Finding a guy you are both attracted to and kind of know, will definitely help prevent that from happening.

[kaylaS91]

Because we don't want to be choked/slapped, or fucked roughly in any other manner by a hobo or sex offender off the streets.

A major part of the appeal behind practices like mixing pain with pleasure is the trust that it requires and enforces when practiced with someone whom we're actually invested in, versus just wanting a good dicking.

[apple24]

um... Say what now? lol Beside the obivious reason I don't go fucking any guy... like disease? And looking like a hoe? Yeah why don't random girls fuck random guys? Hell lets all act like animals n fuck everyone? Geez!

[Anonymous]

I voted C. It was the most accurate.

That said i'll say some women who are in to that sort of sex are more forgiving of the guys looks then some others (though they might not be).

But they want to feel attracted, a lot, to the guy. For them, a guy who seems powerful is likely to trigger their arousal. Some of them need other factors too. So if you're just some random guy who they dont' feel that way about, they do NOT want rough sex with you.

[blondfrog]

They are shallow just like men and if anything more shallow than men.

[Bandit74]

Rough sex is more likely to happen during one night stands/flings and girls have higher standards on sexual attraction for the guys they hookup with.

They are more likely to lower their standards and date guys they aren't super attracted to for long-term relationships.

[aliceinwonderland69]

I find sex gets rougher over time. You get bored of missionary so you try other things. Also you want to have rough sex with someone who you trust.

[lonelyoldboy]

Even if they want rough sex, they want someone who they can trust and someone who they're ATTRACTED TO. Women aren't obligated to give out sex to anyone who wants it. Sex isn't a charity effort for men. Women have sex with who they want. If a woman has sex with a man just because he wants it, even if she doesn't, that might as well be rape.
You're not entitled to sex. You earn it.

[FrostyFlame]

This pretty much says it all lol.

[Asker]

I mean guys with good social skills. not attractive guys.

[lonelyoldboy]

It's the same thing. Girls are attracted to guys with good social skills.

[WhaChaChaKing]

Call us crazy if you want but we want to sleep with people we're attracted to.

[Asker]

I am a attractive guy.

but why do you want to be dominated by (not even a attractive guy) a guy with good social skills

[WhaChaChaKing]

I don't want to be dominated by anyone.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Because they get more pleasure from having rough sex with attractive guys than unattractive guys.

[Sara413]

Doesn't matter what kind of sex we want... everyone wants to fuck people they're attracted to... how is this a question?

[bluenose1872]

Girls want fucked and you can't politely fuck somebody. It's an oxymoron. They're tougher than you you won't break them. They're made for rough handling.

[aliceinwonderland69]

Why would wanting it rough mean I want it with anyone? Don't see the correlation.
Why would having rough sex with a good looking guy mean I have to find an ugly guy to do missionary with?

[Remonster]

Because being dominated by an attractive, manly looking man completes the fantasy. Also what @Bandit74 said is absolutely true.

[MyUsernameRules]

Why would they have sex with guys who they don't find attractive?

[Volleyballkels]

When having sex, girls have so much more to lose if something goes wrong, like getting pregnant!

[Louisetiger1]

It's our choice to be picky.

[Anonymous]

Because we want hot guys, logically.