The alpha fucks/beta bucks is a strategy where women give themselves only to attractive, high status males in their youth and basically any other guy who doesn't fall within the top 20% of male's gets regulated to being a friend, or a backup boyfriend at the girls own discretion when she gets tired being used for sex.
These women generally believe they could of snag these high status males for BF/Husbands because women overestimate their worth (blame ass kissing on social media) and end up getting used for sex, bootycall status or for short term flings. They then go on social media to bitch about how love isn't real and "all men are assholes" either because they actual believe that or because they just want attention
The funny thing is they probably have a decent guy in their friendzone who would make her happy if she just gave him a chance but he isn't tall enough for her, chiseled enough for her or, rich enough.
Now around the 25 year old mark many of them give these guys who they have regulated as backup men. "The nice guy some women treat as a the boyfriend substitute. The genuinely, terrifically nice guy who’s always surrounded by women: women complaining to him about their boyfriends, women who call him on Valentine’s Day when other options vanish, women who want to date someone just like him — except they won’t date him"
Example: " I overheard this college girl talking to her friend. She was talking about how this PhD student has a huge crush on her, is such a nice guy. She said that she will never in her life have sex with him, because he is a nice guy. She said that maybe when she is 25, she will go for guys like him... but for now she likes having sex with men "who aren't shit". " So they can start preparing themselves and priming them to commit to them before they turn 30 and be their husband. Others overplay the field and end up into their 30's and can't even get the guys they though they were too good for and have to settle for less.
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Not all women are like this but it's very common strategy in the West.
Hence, women shaming older men for dating younger because it cuts down their pool of eligible men.
Women shaming men for being masculine and expressing their sexuality while giving other men a pass.
Women constantly telling men to not be assholes and be a nice guy (they need that safety net).
What do you think about the alpha fucks/beta bucks strategy most women are doing in Wesstern/Feminist countries?
I think it's an over generalization when you say "most women" and sounds almost just as ignorant as they do when they have that attitude. I agree that it's totally dumb, but people will like who they like, and that will change throughout life whether it's because they grow up, they start to look for something more serious in their life, they experience something negative and never want to again, what have you. If she doesn't like him or isn't sexually attracted to him, she's not obligated to give him a chance if she doesn't want to. Yea it's probably dumb on her part because she's losing out on a good guy, but neither you nor I know the other reasons why she might not be interested in him. And if it's purely physical, then so what? She likes what she likes.
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And you think it's fine for to use him later down or string him along so she can have a safe guard just in case she gets lonely in her late 20's rather than being honest and going. Hey, i don't like you like that find a girl who find you sexual attractive and cut your loses.
No, not at all, I think they should totally do that. I'm against both men and women who can't be upfront about their intentions. Though what you overheard doesn't seem like she's saying she's gonna put the nice guy in the friend zone until she decides differently. She said maybe in the future she'll go for someone like that, not him specifically.
hey asker, with the marital rape cases going on as well, even the betas aren't really getting anything out of marriage, except a constant reminder that they're substitutes and atm machines. nothing more. can't even get sex from them.
Women and men are suppossed to be partners not enemies! I disagree with this bros agains hos nonsense! this frat boy stupidity and this feminist bullcrap thats how society fails! when we see each other as competition and not partners
I think if some guys spent half the time working on themselves and their lives as they did obsessing over this so-called strategy and how feminism is bringing about the end of the world, they'd have a lot more success with women.
@AleDeEurope We have plenty of young men working on themselves, hitting the gym, getting an education but women still tell them they are not good enough due to things out of their control.
@AleDeEurope Guys don't really care about height. In fact many men like to go after tall girls because they like to dominate them. They call them amazons. Of course everyone cares about face. The difference is while the average man will objectively find most women's face attractive (prove in okcupid study guide). Women by in large are very more narrow minded and find very specific facial features attractive.
It's why in studies it's been found women only find a small percentage of men physically attractive while it was broaden out that men find most women desirable. And because of this we have a very high imbalance when it comes to sex/relationship among the male sex while things tend to be even out better for women.
With me I am a nice guy and a pushover, and I am not afraid to admit that. Now as I am getting older, I am starting to realize that if you don't put your foot down sometime, some will use you and you won't even know it. Gotta be careful with that. Know from experience.
Yeah but I am sure there are high value beta males or nice guys. I can't imagine a guy who makes 180k a year being the same as 60k a year. Or what about a nice guy that is wealthy. If he shows simp behavior and has high value in terms of resources I can't imagine the girl not being interested. I have also noticed beta males do the worst in america. Outside of western countries nice guys actually don't have the same stigma.
that's why you work hard to become desirable to women. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't then it is what it is. That's what I'm doing, working on my body & I'm also saving up to fix certain features in order to be good enough for a girlfriend
That's why you gotta be Alpha in your youth, and turn Beta as you grow up. That way you get all the bitches when you're young, and when you're older you get to marry the girl that fucked 250 Alpha guys when she was young. Win-win.
It's natural evolution women are the smaller of the two. it is more likely for a woman to go after the more aggressive bad boy. its instinct he's more likely to be able to provide and protect her than someone who is meak and agreeable all the time.
That's a lot of crap. The evolution lie haven't any profe at all. No u will call myself an ALPHA FEMALE I'm pretty good looking would say 9/10 or even 9,5/10 and I'm well educated woman I'm an real estate woman, and I do slot of sport , my dating life were difficult , perhaps because I'm very attractive , and most of my friends expected me to find an very tall ( because I'm a giant over 2 meter myself) guy and get into a relationship with him. But no way , I tried to seek out men I'd love to be with , rather than follow leaders opinion. It just turned out to be a long and winding road, most of all because of the society exspections, most men seems to be intimidated by an AMAZON like me, first ofcause of me being super tall 205 cm , but also very much because Imy looks and body shape and the fact I'm having a great education and a well pairs job. Most BETA males are afraid that they can't coupe up with me, well that's not what I needed. finaly I found my love , he's not an ALPHA male at all, and a head shorter too.
What about wealthy beta males? Like a beta guy that is overly sweet, simped, etc but made half a million a year theoretically? I would such a guy would be "high value beta male". Not like all alphas and betas are on equal value.
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