Why are hot girls so desperate for attention?

[Anonymous]

I noticed it a lot with hot girls. They're so desperate for attention. Will dress very sexually suggestive every single day. Their Instagram is filled with slutty pics and poses and you have all these guys thirsting after them. They love all the attention and can't get enough. Hell they get mad when a guy doesn't give her attention like "why isn't this guy checking me out"

Are they insecure? Maybe they were an ugly duckling and now they're trying to catch up? What is it?

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+1 y

I know a girl like that and she was not very attractive in HS... but now she's hot as hell.

[lightbulb27]

My thought is they are insecure. All women want to be desired by men, it makes them feel like a woman. These women project much more "sexuality" to attract attention. But it is a facade in so many cases... underneath they harbor a variety of emotional issues... at least that is my experience for many. They more they try to bait a guy, the less I trust their motive.

But I come from a "traditional" old fashioned angle... and I like modestly dressed woman, that may bias me.

[Asker]

YES I've noticed a lot of emotional issues underneath with these type of girls

[Applefan1]

All girls are desperate for attention and love it when they get it. All men are desperate for attention and love it when they get it. It is natural and normal and very healthy as long as it does not go so far you can't focus on anything else in your life as well.

[crimsonqueen]

I'm not saying I'm super hot but I'm decently hot.. and you know what when you're used to being told you are and treated like a sexual object you start to internalize that. You even start to need that kind of attention.

I mean it's whatever. But I think it's funny guys wanna complain about girls being what they made them.

[Deepblue11]

They very well could be Insecure yes! Just because you or anyone else finds them attractive or "perfect" doesn't mean they think so themselves.
Usually the dress and pictures and all that crap is for attention, an ego boost; and they get it so it makes them feel good.
Possibly less respected though!

[Anonymous]

Girls who want attention go to great extremes to get it. The attention wanting is the cause of the attention seeking, not the hotness.

Hot girls who don't want attention don't do as much. Less hot girls who are attention seeking just don't get as much.

[RexCatholicissimus]

Validation can be pretty addictive once you start getting it.

And imagine being a hot girl and getting it from since you were, I dunno, 14. Coupled with social media, it's basically a validation paradise. At least until those looks disappear.

[Anonymous]

most of them feel ok about themselvs when passer bys and random guys approve of them or give them attention
its easier to do it this way than to actually build confidence

its funny when they walk around showing off their bodies and tell people this is confidence and a "strong woman"

sad really lol
but oh well a big number of hot girls ARE on the other hand confident and amazing... not all hot girls are shallow and insecure

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

When girls are hot they usually know, so the attention makes them feel wanted and better about themselves, if they like how they look or not.
I don't think I'm particularly hot but I enjoy attention like that.

[Crazyinlove2003]

I'm going with insecure... Or full of themselves..
I would NEVER dress like half these girls these days (talking like I'm 100 lol) I like being modest. Not bashing them love to see their goodies without even trying ;)

[Cmasterson]

Thats just it they like the attention because it makes them feel good about themselves so they're use to it. A lot of the times people get obsessed with social media only to later on realize that the internet really isn't really life.

[mooky06]

-it strokes their ego
-it makes them feel wanted
-they like receiving attention based on there appearance
-maybe they are insecure

[Ashleym000]

Because deep down they don't feel attractive so they're always in need of constant attention and reminder that they're hot

[nojokecarmichael]

I think part of it might be insecurity. But dressing a certain doesn't make it slutty, it's just the way people like to dress even if it is done for attention by some.

[00Lelouchxx]

Because they are hot for a reason.

They put a lot of effort in their body's so they want the fruits of their labor.

That like if u grind all day in cod (call of duty) to get a new skin met all the requirements and they don't give u the new skin

[Hal2002]

Lack of self esteem, and have nothing else going for themselves besides their looks.

[teawrecks]

Was definitely an ugly duckling 😭 Lemme make up for it 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

[Anonymous]

actually i find it the other way around, that hot girls hate attention, they just obsess over themselves, or they just dont get it that they are supposed to approach and choose the guy they want

[Naughtygirlishere]

😱😑.. Who knows...😏.. why don't u ask them? and see what happens next...😒😒 lol

[Becky01]

its not just the hot girls who are desperate for attention

[blondfrog]

They just usually happen to be narcassists that's why.

[Keepcalm89]

That's it. They don't get enough attention at home so they look for it in other ways

[Anonymous]

Because they are bitches whores who need 3 dicks to fuck her pussy and ass and mouth the same time

[chintita]

all of us love attention, welcome to earth

[kittykatbrat]

Some are.
Some aren't.

[This_is_my_username]

I've never seen this.