Becouse each attantion relases good feel in the brain, and like sugar this things normally have been limited and over the years the body detect them as postive
But with the world cahngimg too fast and eveltion evoltion too slow
We got to a point that its easy go get attantion like its easy to get sugar, and it feels good, making us kind of addicts to it, with social media and the like encraging it, becouse its good for the buttom line and pockets
This is really not limited to girls, girls just stick out more, man are very attracted visually over outher stuff woman tend to mesure more then that
Most are stright
As of that woman will tend to get more attantion simply as most of it is visual and will pull more man to give it
I do think there is also a real confidance issue, with man feeling "not deserving" that push them away from trying to get attantion publicly, and in place try more perosnal attachments in hope, or just get fustrated at it, and lash out
But I yet to really reseach that too deep, so may be completely off, as can still have many more things effecting this20 Reply
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+1 yThere could be various reasons why girls crave attention. Society constantly places a high value on attractiveness and appearance, particularly for women and girls, which can make some feel the need for validation. Social media and the constant pressure to be "liked" and "wanted" can also contribute to this desire for attention. Additionally, people with low self-esteem or insecure personalities may seek out attention as a way to feel worthy and accepted. Ultimately, it's important to recognize that girls are not defined by seeking attention and to focus on building their self-confidence and self-worth.
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+1 yBecause a woman’s feminine wiles could afford her a man to provide and protect her throughout history. There was a time this was necessary for her very survival. Also the more attractive she was the more likely she could catch the eye of a high value male. Do you think Khal Drogo from game of thrones would want to take an obese blue haired feminist for his wife?
Anyway back to attention. Despite women no longer needing men to protect and provide for them in the modern world many just have not evolved out of the subconscious need for attention and validation.
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Women have only a short windows of around a decade to capitalize on their looks and beauty (fertility), so the worse thing you can do evolutionarily to a woman is ignore her resulting in her not being able to exercise her sexual strategy to the fullest.
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+1 yI read people who are habitually sleep deprived have sleep debt where they need months or years of additional sleep to make up for the seasons where they were sleep deprived.
People not given attention in their early years might have attention debt, where they have a bottomless desire for validation from others. I know a woman who was mistreated by her parents and her first two husbands and she always dominates group conversations. The zoom groups are one hour, and she usually talks at least 15 or 30 minutes in each group, when there are 8-20 members in the group who don’t get a chance to talk because of her.
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+1 ybecause they can... it's like the 1st times i wore a miniskirt in public i got a lot of looks catcalls etc and it was both sexes that checked me out not implying anything that the women were gay because i don't believe that... men of all ages would look... plus i just love wearing a miniskirt... it may be about attention... like why do we wear make up... why do we have long hair so impractical in some ways but we do.
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+1 yBecause we are all descended from one Biological Eve who lived hundred pf thousands of years ago and that lady myst have been an attention seeker too, as she obviously attracted so much attention from the surrounding males that here we are, all women alive coming from her.
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+1 yBecause they had fathers not being an active part of their growing up - maybe he was a workaholic - so they seek attention from men. These are the ones who usually wind up pregnant. Kind of like "man entrapment". They think they will always have a man's attention this way. WRONG!
00 ReplyIt's natural, animals attracts mates for sexual reproduction by singing, dancing or making sounds. Humans too attract opposite sex with their talents, skills, money, assets, physical features, etc. The easiest way for females to attract males is by showing their beauty, body, boobs, curves, bump and nice outfits.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 ySome women, too many today if you ask me define thier self worth by how many and what " quality" men are attracted to them. As though that were thier sole value. It's really pathetic.
Why? That's a little harder to say. It could be anywhere from she was raised with little respect for herself to she has deep psychological/emotional issues.
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+1 yAround your age. Many want to understand the world. Are confused while growing between being a young girl to a young woman…so they seek out others to feel better.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI see these types of girls all the time at school. Always causing some kind of drama. They need to grow up
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+1 yAttention is like a female thing to get. Men might do it if it makes money, but we tend to be more goal-oriented.
00 ReplyI wish I could tell you. I'm not an attention seeker.. I couldn't care less, and it annoys me men I see women lime that. I'm not jealous of them at all, I just feel like it's unnecessary
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yInsecurity, pure and simple.
People are saying it's because people want to feel good about themselves. That's true, but only insecure people feel badly enough about themselves to resort to attention seeking.
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+1 yThat's how the human female biology works... they are subconsciously searching for a mate... even when they aren't openly looking for a mate.
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+1 ySociety has driven them to focus on the superficial, rather than what is "inside"- their heart, their initiative, honesty, friendship, etc.
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+1 yCould be because they have bad relationships with their parents or have this urge to be the center of attention all the times.
00 Replybecause everyone does because it’s part of the human condition
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+1 yThey never got much affection and attention from their families.
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Definitely rooted within their childhood
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@Boomchakalaca Yes and very sad.
+1 yi can only speak for myself. i know i’m pretty and cute looking and we girls like hearing it and feeling validated i guess… it’s a good feeling to get attention when we know we can
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+1 ythey relate their self worth with the attention they get and their appearance
00 Reply506 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Because they base their self-worth on how much people like them, want them around, etc
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@Biancam13 that's right haha
I think its natural behaviour in order to attract men
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+1 yTo feel good about themselves.
Most people like attention because it feeds their broken egos.10 Reply It's to gain what one lack from other human beings. For example affection, love, care or support.
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+1 yWe’ll it’s natural that we want attention. We wanna feel good about ourselves.
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+1 yGirls bore easily. So, if they're not being entertained, they start getting into trouble
00 ReplySame reason everyone else does. They wanna feel seen and heard.
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+1 yEven female dogs like more attention than male dogs.
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+1 yWorse now than ever with social media influencers celebs
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+1 yBecause of less attention?
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🤣 bingo. Okay... So there was this crazy post that I saw about someone wanting to travel abroad on their own. I think it was a glitch.. because I tried to go back to it and because we weren't following each other.. the program denied access.. I gotta know.. because.. why lol
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I just wanna see someone, anyway I think after 18 is the best decision
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Ohhhhh to see someone.. I didn't get to see the entire post. That makes since. I mean.. buuuut. You have video called them right? Seen their face.. don't wanna see you on the next episode of Catfished. What country?
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Hahahha I don't know maybe, who knows. I feel like I’m determined enough? I don’t even have fear going to another country
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You have never video called them? Selena 😱 they could be some crazy old man in the basement searching for hot women for all you know. Be safe.. at least wear protection if you go.. pepper spray, taser, maybe a Glock if you are feeling badass. I don't know... I'm sure you are a confident woman. You seem like you have spunk. Have some insurance. Maybe take someone with you. If you get into trouble good to have someone that has your back. Don't make me pull a Liam neeson. Taken.. good movie
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Omg thank you so much for the advice!!! So many helpful suggestions. I’ve seen his pics tho also know his voice. But sure after some time we’ll make video calls
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Good good.. don't get into any sticky situations unless you choose to be in them. Good to have that face to face. You can tell a lot by their facial expressions and how they move.. sometimes people make images in their head of how people are. Ya know.. but maybe you got something real. ✌️
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Thank you so much for worrying, appreciate it a lot! I hope everything will be okay
+1 yto fill a void.
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+1 yThey don’t feel like their pretty enough
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+1 yBecause they love attention
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+1 yBecause they are broken and empty inside.
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Attention is a woman dopamine00 Reply
+1 ythey're just attention whores
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+1 ybecause of men. they are like a horny dogs.
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competition becomes unreal
O It has to be
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+1 yYou're a girl right?
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