Why do so many girls crave attention so much?

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Red-Blaze · Accepted Answer

Becouse each attantion relases good feel in the brain, and like sugar this things normally have been limited and over the years the body detect them as postive
But with the world cahngimg too fast and eveltion evoltion too slow
We got to a point that its easy go get attantion like its easy to get sugar, and it feels good, making us kind of addicts to it, with social media and the like encraging it, becouse its good for the buttom line and pockets

This is really not limited to girls, girls just stick out more, man are very attracted visually over outher stuff woman tend to mesure more then that
Most are stright
As of that woman will tend to get more attantion simply as most of it is visual and will pull more man to give it

I do think there is also a real confidance issue, with man feeling "not deserving" that push them away from trying to get attantion publicly, and in place try more perosnal attachments in hope, or just get fustrated at it, and lash out
But I yet to really reseach that too deep, so may be completely off, as can still have many more things effecting this

BasedBaeBecca · Accepted Answer

There could be various reasons why girls crave attention. Society constantly places a high value on attractiveness and appearance, particularly for women and girls, which can make some feel the need for validation. Social media and the constant pressure to be "liked" and "wanted" can also contribute to this desire for attention. Additionally, people with low self-esteem or insecure personalities may seek out attention as a way to feel worthy and accepted. Ultimately, it's important to recognize that girls are not defined by seeking attention and to focus on building their self-confidence and self-worth.

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

Because a woman’s feminine wiles could afford her a man to provide and protect her throughout history. There was a time this was necessary for her very survival. Also the more attractive she was the more likely she could catch the eye of a high value male. Do you think Khal Drogo from game of thrones would want to take an obese blue haired feminist for his wife?

Anyway back to attention. Despite women no longer needing men to protect and provide for them in the modern world many just have not evolved out of the subconscious need for attention and validation.

Kaamraj · Accepted Answer

Women have only a short windows of around a decade to capitalize on their looks and beauty (fertility), so the worse thing you can do evolutionarily to a woman is ignore her resulting in her not being able to exercise her sexual strategy to the fullest.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I read people who are habitually sleep deprived have sleep debt where they need months or years of additional sleep to make up for the seasons where they were sleep deprived.

People not given attention in their early years might have attention debt, where they have a bottomless desire for validation from others. I know a woman who was mistreated by her parents and her first two husbands and she always dominates group conversations. The zoom groups are one hour, and she usually talks at least 15 or 30 minutes in each group, when there are 8-20 members in the group who don’t get a chance to talk because of her.

chrissykerdock · Answer

because they can... it's like the 1st times i wore a miniskirt in public i got a lot of looks catcalls etc and it was both sexes that checked me out not implying anything that the women were gay because i don't believe that... men of all ages would look... plus i just love wearing a miniskirt... it may be about attention... like why do we wear make up... why do we have long hair so impractical in some ways but we do.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Because we are all descended from one Biological Eve who lived hundred pf thousands of years ago and that lady myst have been an attention seeker too, as she obviously attracted so much attention from the surrounding males that here we are, all women alive coming from her.

YesterdaysChild · Answer

Because they had fathers not being an active part of their growing up - maybe he was a workaholic - so they seek attention from men. These are the ones who usually wind up pregnant. Kind of like "man entrapment". They think they will always have a man's attention this way. WRONG!

Raaj4you · Answer

It's natural, animals attracts mates for sexual reproduction by singing, dancing or making sounds. Humans too attract opposite sex with their talents, skills, money, assets, physical features, etc. The easiest way for females to attract males is by showing their beauty, body, boobs, curves, bump and nice outfits.

Anonymous · Answer

Some women, too many today if you ask me define thier self worth by how many and what " quality" men are attracted to them. As though that were thier sole value. It's really pathetic.

Why? That's a little harder to say. It could be anywhere from she was raised with little respect for herself to she has deep psychological/emotional issues.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Around your age. Many want to understand the world. Are confused while growing between being a young girl to a young woman…so they seek out others to feel better.

Anonymous · Answer

I see these types of girls all the time at school. Always causing some kind of drama. They need to grow up

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Attention is like a female thing to get. Men might do it if it makes money, but we tend to be more goal-oriented.

ariadneR · Answer

I wish I could tell you. I'm not an attention seeker.. I couldn't care less, and it annoys me men I see women lime that. I'm not jealous of them at all, I just feel like it's unnecessary

Anonymous · Answer

Insecurity, pure and simple.

People are saying it's because people want to feel good about themselves. That's true, but only insecure people feel badly enough about themselves to resort to attention seeking.

AviatorTom · Answer

That's how the human female biology works... they are subconsciously searching for a mate... even when they aren't openly looking for a mate.

Massageman · Answer

Society has driven them to focus on the superficial, rather than what is "inside"- their heart, their initiative, honesty, friendship, etc.

sheikalana · Answer

Could be because they have bad relationships with their parents or have this urge to be the center of attention all the times.

gothbxtch · Answer

because everyone does because it’s part of the human condition

Wise4myage · Answer

They never got much affection and attention from their families.

mstoxicprincess · Answer

i can only speak for myself. i know i’m pretty and cute looking and we girls like hearing it and feeling validated i guess… it’s a good feeling to get attention when we know we can

Reem12345reem · Answer

they relate their self worth with the attention they get and their appearance

Staximus · Answer

Because they base their self-worth on how much people like them, want them around, etc

glennos89 · Answer

I think its natural behaviour in order to attract men

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

To feel good about themselves.  Most people like attention because it feeds their broken egos.

Ciel7889 · Answer

It's to gain what one lack from other human beings. For example affection, love, care or support.

AutisticLonelyWoman · Answer

We’ll it’s natural that we want attention. We wanna feel good about ourselves.

ButthurtGAGpeople1 · Answer

Girls bore easily. So, if they're not being entertained, they start getting into trouble

ryancg · Answer

Same reason everyone else does. They wanna feel seen and heard.

Provingdatruth · Answer

Even female dogs like more attention than male dogs.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Worse now than ever with social media influencers celebs

bota_selena · Answer

Because of less attention?

chicosuave · Answer

to fill a void.

WhitneySnow · Answer

They don’t feel like their pretty enough

skyla_is_learning · Answer

Because they love attention

DextroShade · Answer

Because they are broken and empty inside.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Attention is a woman dopamine

barn_stormer · Answer

they're just attention whores

whistlingwh0res · Answer

because of men. they are like a horny dogs.

Byuser · Answer

O It has to be

DreamLife7 · Answer

You're a girl right?

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