Anonymous(30-35)+1 yTo female GAGers saying both genders need attention. Human beings want to be loved and appreciated. Problem is, we aren't perfect, we curse, we sin, we behave poorly, and Im not perfect either. But the difference between a guy who works a strenuous job for 9 to 12 hours, comes home, he wants peace usually. Women will want to go out with other women they despise. That's why women and girls can't take accountability. It's stupid how often I hear females on social media or platforms like YouTube give dating advice and that a guy can't take hints she likes him. Females don't communicate well, they mess around, they get bored, they move on. It's human nature if a guy gets angry that he invested so much time into her and she will turn around and not care and say ohhh you're being a fake nice guy eh, typical. Women have a lack of appreciation and they don't think to themselves, hmm, Im talking to a guy who's straight, single, he asked for my number, im meeting up with him on dates and kinda flirting with him. If a woman goes cold, her hard becomes hardened and she won't care its just that simple. Women don't want old school love, they don't care about marriage because it's all about fake independence and money.
A woman will care more about a dog that will pass away in less than 10 years or a company that will fire her in a heart beat, that's the cold hard of reality. When guys go through enough rejections, they just say forget it, move on, go to the gym to work out and focus on his career. Women aren't worth the trouble anymore. I'm in my 30s now. Over 20 years ago in early 2000s when I was a younger guy in high school, I overheard guys gloating about sleeping with that girl or this girl and having no remorse for her emotions. I thought to myself, there will come a day where females will not a give crap about the value of a relationship and always want more more more and not be satisfied. 20 years later that is the case, women feel the need to act this way because of what feminism and the past has taught themselves. Therefore, are we improving ourselves or merely trying to show off attaching a pompous IDGAF persona, because that's not healthy either. It seems to me women want to be after a 6ft6 make with 6 figures, hmm 666, devilish. Below are videos why women lie to themselves. Every speaks facts, but you know majority of girls or women on GAG will hate my comment and the videos I provided as proof.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Et1YsY7y4e8https://www.youtube.com/embed/7sczr5ZcY0Ahttps://www.youtube.com/embed/j9Oqj8Je5n4https://www.youtube.com/embed/QQluWbDdqKkhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/edu5Nl8Kpeghttps://www.youtube.com/embed/I_P7FHcISXA21 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yI will also add women and girls can lean on each other for support, guys usually have to fight this up hill battle to become a man, while she's acting like a little girl still trapped in a woman's body. Females get instant success, men/guys have to wait longer and be more patient but its more rewarding for the guy in the end I believe. I am a believer of God and I believe if a woman purposely rejects guys for fun and games, karma is going to come around for hurting guys in the past and not giving two shits. I don't sit here thinking how should I ruin a girls life. I go to school and work two jobs. Just the other day I blocked a girl online because she thought I wasn't a man because I'm not going into a country filled with war, this is nonsense I have to deal with.
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+1 ySo many of these questions can be answered by nature. Women are programmed by nature to attract mens' attention and stimulate them to reproduce. They are designed to attract men. So women are much more prone to valuing themselves based on how much attention they can attract. It also explains why women use makeup, jewelry, colorful clothes, cosmetic surgery, etc. to attract attention much more than men do. It's all about getting attention. It's in there DNA.
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Not all of us do. I definitely want more attention from the person I'm with than other people, but it's far from "needing" attention. And since you didn't elaborate your question, it's also far from needing attention online (I don't need any and don't have a personal instagram for example). But anybody in a relationship/dating needs a certain amount of attention from the person they're with because that shows us you care (goes both ways) and it's part of building a connection. You cannot have a healthy relationship without giving attention to each other
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You're so right lady. 👍🏻 Just like "not all guys" etc. each go their own way 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👋🏻
+1 yMajority, i think its more about lack of constitency from men, most men when they approach a girl they give her a lot of attention then after he gets her that attention is reduced, or changed dramatically. In this time she needs a lot of reassurance because she will either want that attention again n constantly bother u with it or just feel distant that u changed.
The rest, just some women and men are like that.12 Reply- +1 y
@Lady_Heart. But why do women need attention from THOUSANDS of men on Instagram for example?
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Funny u said that because just recently i saw this guy on insta who does cooking content but he sexualize himself n the food which is so disgusting to be honest. Unless u don't follow men on social media because wanting attention is high on both genders.
Now if u mean she still hv a boyfriend n look for attention elsewhere FROM MEN thn thats slutty. but if she just post herself maybe for her content thn whoever give attention to her whether a boy or girl is part of social life, u can't control it because they made themselves public.
In the end its just how some people are, both men or women. A man or woman if wants attention even without social media they can! N sometimes they get attention without even trying. You can see the difference
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It’s the way the system and men work. Men value a woman’s youthful looks, loyalty, fertility, and nurturing sides. It’s a simple calculus: what do women value in men? Strength, leadership, dependability, etc. That’s why it’s an insult to most men if you tell them “be a man.”
This is never going to change no matter how many Feminists or SIMPS/Beta men want to whine about it.
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+1 yA guess: such a compulsion would have been less detrimental to gathering than to hunting, back in prehistory. When hunting, it's best to only talk when absolutely necessary for getting the creature. When gathering, you can talk all day, about nonsense, being nonsensical, even throwing fits about it, and nuts, berries and seeds won't run away.
May we all work free of our compulsions to be as we choose to be.
00 ReplyMost recently some little attention hoe decided that my mere presence in her non-personal space was unacceptable, so she along with her freak of nature boyfriend and other friends in high places decided to harass me until I left. I too am a believer in God, but I find it hard to believe they’ll ever be brought to justice in this lifetime, or feel any remorse, so I figure the only thing left is for them to burn in hell.
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+1 yIt's just a perversion of natural tendency.. Women get more attention for their appearance.. Simps online made it a million times easier for even an average woman to get all the attention she wants.. So now many get dopamine hits from getting constant attention.. Building up the narcissistic tendencies..
00 ReplyBecause females are fuckable.
"When all you got is a fuckable body, everything looks to you like a cock". Or.. voyeur to admire you, at least. @Billlewis?
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I was just going to say they can't self-validate. It leads them on a path to always seeking validation from others.
+1 yReceiving the attention from a loved one would be totally enough,
When you don’t have it, you feel love deprived sometimes.
10 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I don't understand why men are so jealous of the attention that women get. It's for real just weird
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How are men jealous of the attention they mostly give? 😂..
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@Joshydavid25 no idea but they are always complaining about women getting attention even tho they are the ones giving the attention
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You know there's two types of narcissism.. Grandiose narcissism (which is what people mostly think of when they talk about narcissism) and vulnerable narcissism.. Women primarily display vulnerable narcissism.. Posting things for likes and attention on social media, want to be admired, hates criticism.. Guys (and women) complain about the need to constantly get attention even if you have a boyfriend or husband because it's narcissistic..
1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I am scratching my head thinking about it.
They seem to crave attention like they crave oxygen. I can't even guess why.
What do you think why they want to get married and throw a wedding party? And overshare things on social media?
00 Reply598 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. They don't. Of the people who do need constant attention, you only notice the girls for some reason. That might mean you are straight.
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+1 yThey don't.
Some of them for sure, some like to be by themselves, and some are a mix of both worlds.
Stop generalisation...00 Reply377 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. The insecure girls need constant attention. But she could be one of those attention seekers who will literally suck your energy out of you.
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+1 yWhy do boys need constant attention? Why do boys think they van be break yet get a girlfriend? Why do boys spend all day on video games instead of an education? Why are boys so needy? Why do boys beg for sex?
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*Can be broke
1.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. It is baked into their DNA. They want attention mostly from guys so they propagate the species
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Exactly right. So many of these questions can be answered by nature. Women are programmed by nature to attract mens' attention and stimulate them to reproduce. They are designed to attract men. So women are much more prone to valuing themselves based on how much attention they can attract. It also explains why women use makeup, jewelry, colorful clothes, cosmetic surgery, etc. to attract attention much more than men do. It's all about getting attention. As you said, it's in there DNA.
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yThey rank their status via social opinion and so perception matters. Social attention matters.
It's their substitute for actual achievement.
00 Reply9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Judging by this post, they are not the only ones.
00 Reply414 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I don't think it's true, all people need some attention
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@Inbox there are plenty of guys on OF, both solo and couples. Gay community is quite strong there. You don't hear a much about them because the platform is more female dominated and the guys don't advertise as much.
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@Sirenboobzilla Thanks for proving my point lol
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So, you saying that guys aren't the ones doing it, and me saying that they exist, is proving your point. Exactly how?
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@Sirenboobzilla you said they're not advertising it as much. Isn't that his point?
+1 yI dont know thats a red flag. Something to stay away from..
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+1 yI like a woman who receives attention without the need to ask neither to demand it. Such women I'd call dreamily. Mmm 🤤
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And yes, other women are just downright ego's that I have no time for, even non-romantic.
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+1 yNot only constant attention, but constant attention from many, many, different men, both online and in person.
We really are in an epidemic of attention whoring/narcissism.
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+1 yMost modern women are either narcissists or have narcissistic tendencies because of the toxic effects of feminism and social media.
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+1 ySocietal influence communicates to women that their "worth" is contingent upon attention.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI feel both generations need a lot of reassurance I guess our parents didn't do enough
10 ReplyBecause it is in the nature of women to seek attention. Women who receive attention are always happy. Therefore, happy women also make their men happy.
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+1 yMost of them love to get attention but specially from their partners if they love them
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yBecause they are insecure. if they text you and you go to take a dookie you’ll come back and she’s freaking out about why you didn’t respond and wondering if the relationship is going to work out. 🙄
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yGirls like that are very desperate and lack self esteem.
00 Reply309 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Histrionic personality disorder
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+1 yto attract guys
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+1 yThey need validation.
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+1 yI don't think it's true
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYou’re one to talk 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
00 ReplyBoth men and woman want attention
10 ReplyIt depends on the person in general
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+1 yThey're chicks;it's part of their DNA.
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+1 yThat all depends on who it is
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+1 yeasy. they don’t.
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+1 yInsecurity.
00 Reply 311 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Ego…
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI don't
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