Why do girls need to get constant attention?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

To female GAGers saying both genders need attention. Human beings want to be loved and appreciated. Problem is, we aren't perfect, we curse, we sin, we behave poorly, and Im not perfect either. But the difference between a guy who works a strenuous job for 9 to 12 hours, comes home, he wants peace usually. Women will want to go out with other women they despise. That's why women and girls can't take accountability. It's stupid how often I hear females on social media or platforms like YouTube give dating advice and that a guy can't take hints she likes him. Females don't communicate well, they mess around, they get bored, they move on. It's human nature if a guy gets angry that he invested so much time into her and she will turn around and not care and say ohhh you're being a fake nice guy eh, typical. Women have a lack of appreciation and they don't think to themselves, hmm, Im talking to a guy who's straight, single, he asked for my number, im meeting up with him on dates and kinda flirting with him. If a woman goes cold, her hard becomes hardened and she won't care its just that simple. Women don't want old school love, they don't care about marriage because it's all about fake independence and money.

A woman will care more about a dog that will pass away in less than 10 years or a company that will fire her in a heart beat, that's the cold hard of reality. When guys go through enough rejections, they just say forget it, move on, go to the gym to work out and focus on his career. Women aren't worth the trouble anymore. I'm in my 30s now. Over 20 years ago in early 2000s when I was a younger guy in high school, I overheard guys gloating about sleeping with that girl or this girl and having no remorse for her emotions. I thought to myself, there will come a day where females will not a give crap about the value of a relationship and always want more more more and not be satisfied. 20 years later that is the case, women feel the need to act this way because of what feminism and the past has taught themselves. Therefore, are we improving ourselves or merely trying to show off attaching a pompous IDGAF persona, because that's not healthy either. It seems to me women want to be after a 6ft6 make with 6 figures, hmm 666, devilish. Below are videos why women lie to themselves. Every speaks facts, but you know majority of girls or women on GAG will hate my comment and the videos I provided as proof.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Et1YsY7y4e8 https://www.youtube.com/embed/7sczr5ZcY0A https://www.youtube.com/embed/j9Oqj8Je5n4 https://www.youtube.com/embed/QQluWbDdqKk https://www.youtube.com/embed/edu5Nl8Kpeg https://www.youtube.com/embed/I_P7FHcISXA

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

So many of these questions can be answered by nature. Women are programmed by nature to attract mens' attention and stimulate them to reproduce. They are designed to attract men. So women are much more prone to valuing themselves based on how much attention they can attract. It also explains why women use makeup, jewelry, colorful clothes, cosmetic surgery, etc. to attract attention much more than men do. It's all about getting attention. It's in there DNA.

Asimiv · Accepted Answer

Not all of us do. I definitely want more attention from the person I'm with than other people, but it's far from "needing" attention. And since you didn't elaborate your question, it's also far from needing attention online (I don't need any and don't have a personal instagram for example). But anybody in a relationship/dating needs a certain amount of attention from the person they're with because that shows us you care (goes both ways) and it's part of building a connection. You cannot have a healthy relationship without giving attention to each other

Lady_Heart · Accepted Answer

Majority, i think its more about lack of constitency from men, most men when they approach a girl they give her a lot of attention then after he gets her that attention is reduced, or changed dramatically. In this time she needs a lot of reassurance because she will either want that attention again n constantly bother u with it or just feel distant that u changed.

The rest, just some women and men are like that.

Inbox · Answer

It’s the way the system and men work. Men value a woman’s youthful looks, loyalty, fertility, and nurturing sides. It’s a simple calculus: what do women value in men? Strength, leadership, dependability, etc. That’s why it’s an insult to most men if you tell them “be a man.”

This is never going to change no matter how many Feminists or SIMPS/Beta men want to whine about it.

robhazelnut · Answer

A guess: such a compulsion would have been less detrimental to gathering than to hunting, back in prehistory. When hunting, it's best to only talk when absolutely necessary for getting the creature. When gathering, you can talk all day, about nonsense, being nonsensical, even throwing fits about it, and nuts, berries and seeds won't run away.

May we all work free of our compulsions to be as we choose to be.

82lynx · Answer

Most recently some little attention hoe decided that my mere presence in her non-personal space was unacceptable, so she along with her freak of nature boyfriend and other friends in high places decided to harass me until I left. I too am a believer in God, but I find it hard to believe they’ll ever be brought to justice in this lifetime, or feel any remorse, so I figure the only thing left is for them to burn in hell.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

It's just a perversion of natural tendency.. Women get more attention for their appearance.. Simps online made it a million times easier for even an average woman to get all the attention she wants.. So now many get dopamine hits from getting constant attention.. Building up the narcissistic tendencies..

Tapeworm · Answer

Because females are fuckable. "When all you got is a fuckable body, everything looks to you like a cock". Or.. voyeur to admire you, at least. @billlewis?

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Receiving the attention from a loved one would be totally enough,  When you don’t have it, you feel love deprived sometimes.

Apple1996 · Answer

I don't understand why men are so jealous of the attention that women get. It's for real just weird

Unit1 · Answer

I am scratching my head thinking about it.

They seem to crave attention like they crave oxygen. I can't even guess why.

What do you think why they want to get married and throw a wedding party? And overshare things on social media?

normalice · Answer

They don't. Of the people who do need constant attention, you only notice the girls for some reason. That might mean you are straight.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

They don't. Some of them for sure, some like to be by themselves, and some are a mix of both worlds. Stop generalisation...

sage2021 · Answer

The insecure girls need constant attention. But she could be one of those attention seekers who will literally suck your energy out of you.

DreamLife7 · Answer

Why do boys need constant attention? Why do boys think they van be break yet get a girlfriend? Why do boys spend all day on video games instead of an education? Why are boys so needy? Why do boys beg for sex?

exitseven · Answer

It is baked into their DNA. They want attention mostly from guys so they propagate the species

Anonymous · Answer

They rank their status via social opinion and so perception matters. Social attention matters. It's their substitute for actual achievement.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Judging by this post, they are not the only ones.

laraWM · Answer

I don't think it's true, all people need some attention

Thestupidusername · Answer

I dont know thats a red flag. Something to stay away from..

systemsareyo · Answer

I like a woman who receives attention without the need to ask neither to demand it. Such women I'd call dreamily. Mmm 🤤

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Not only constant attention, but constant attention from many, many, different men, both online and in person.  We really are in an epidemic of attention whoring/narcissism.

DextroShade · Answer

Most modern women are either narcissists or have narcissistic tendencies because of the toxic effects of feminism and social media.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Societal influence communicates to women that their "worth" is contingent upon attention.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel both generations need a lot of reassurance I guess our parents didn't do enough

HappyGir1 · Answer

Because it is in the nature of women to seek attention. Women who receive attention are always happy. Therefore, happy women also make their men happy.

Energetic_Dad_35 · Answer

Most of them love to get attention but specially from their partners if they love them

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are insecure. if they text you and you go to take a dookie you’ll come back and she’s freaking out about why you didn’t respond and wondering if the relationship is going to work out. 🙄

Anonymous · Answer

Girls like that are very desperate and lack self esteem.

FreyaRed · Answer

Histrionic personality disorder

rachel776b · Answer

to attract guys

sheikalana · Answer

They need validation.

cherriibly · Answer

I don't think it's true

Anonymous · Answer

You’re one to talk 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

PinkSmoke · Answer

Both men and woman want attention

Teabaggin · Answer

It depends on the person in general

blackcowboystudbrady · Answer

They're chicks;it's part of their DNA.

Dragonsblood03 · Answer

That all depends on who it is

bededazzle · Answer

easy. they don’t.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Insecurity.

nawtee_me · Answer

Ego…

Anonymous · Answer

I don't

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