I am WAY over on the end of this spectrum -- I'm brash, forward, confident, opinionated, and challenging, and I *need* a man who can beat me at my own games -- and more -- pretty much every time. So, yeah, I need a dominant man.
BUT...
You gotta admit, the way you wrote this question... you're definitely trying to skew the answers in that direction.
I mean... "[submissive guy] can't take control because of his passive personality and lack of confidence"?
Lmfao.
Why couldn't you have written something like "He loves being overwhelmed by his woman, because that makes him feel more committed to her and her alone, and he's comfortable opening up and 'losing himself' in her presence"?
*I* still wouldn't pick that option, but, at least it wouldn't sound so goddamn toxic hahhaah
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Submissive.
Though I'm sure other women would prefer dominant men. It's pretty much the norm.
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Your not screwed. I like a submissive boyfriend because we all know who the boss is. I like nice, sweet guys who don't let there manliness prevent the world seeing their heart. So don't worry. There are plenty of sweet-heart girls who would love you
between the two submissive for sure, but in reality i prefer a better balance. maybe
70 submissive : 30 dominant.I think it's okay to be shy when you first meet a woman at some point later in the relationship you have to show her that you can make the tough decisions, you can protect her, that you have a voice. A man should know how to let the woman lead to an extent then he steps in and lets her know he's in control again. If you can learn how to mix the different characteristics of a bad boy and a good guy then you'll be sure to find a woman who won't take an advantage of you.
I prefer dominant because I'm a natural sub.
That's only regarding my boyfriend, though. He knows the boundaries so it's more of a rp-type thing versus actually going without consent. A random guy sleeping with me without asking for permission is bordering on rape.I want a man who is confident, kind, and respectful to me in our relationship but dominant and takes control in the bedroom.
I like a dominant guy, but I also like to dominate on occasion. Because... sometimes ya don't feel like taking orders ya know
I prefer a dominant boyfriend, who takes control and basically does everything above that you listed if not more, this is for me personally, I am a submissive and like things rough.
Dominant in bed but submissive when it comes to other things.
Dominant. I don't know why you think that needs to equate to bad boy though...
bad boy =/= dominant
and
respectful =/= submissive
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