Is a little pudge ok?

[i_wish_i_loved_you]

I don't have the perfect body and I know this. I am however, a little self-conscious about this tummy of mine. I just wanna know from a guy's POV if a girl w/some tummy is a turn off or you don't care. =) I figure the rest of me is decent lol

[sa230e]

A "perfect body" is a subjective thing and there is no absolute definition. It may be imperfect by YOUR standards but that doesn't mean it won't be considered 100% idea by some random guy.

To assume that "some tummy" might be a turn off is to assume your stomach should be perfectly flat which it shouldn't. A little fat is normal and healthy. Fat is ONLY a problem when it affects the shape of your body. A woman's beauty is NOT in being skinny: It's in her shapeliness. It's in the curvature and symmetry of her body. Only when fat starts to obscure that does it become a problem.

Women should have a bit of fat on them. They should be soft and sensual. I personally don't like bony women. I don't want her to feel hard or bony when I put my arms around her. I want her to feel soft and sensuous.

Believe me when I say you have nothing to worry about in the looks department.

[Curious-Plumber]

A little pudge as you call it is awesome. I don't care if a girl isn't a bag of bones...I prefer her to be natural. Trust me guys don't care :)

[Anonymous]

It shouldn't matter what guys think about your body. Just what you think is what matters.

If you think your stomach has a little bit of fat on it and YOU don't like, do something about it. You could try doing cardio or crunches, then the weight will be gone from that area in no time.

It's all subjective when it comes to guys, some - most won't mind, but I'm sure there are guys out there who will be deterred. Every guy has their own preferences.

Good luck.

[Inquisitor]

There's this phrase I used to say all the time, "Beauty only takes you so far". That means at least for me, I'll take intelligence over beauty any day of the week. If one gets both, BONUS! But smashing good looks and a smokin' body takes a backseat to intellect imo. A little pudge never hurt anyone, nor does a lot. You're a pretty woman, but don't get stuck on such trivial things, unless you're trying to be on a cover girl commercial. Then again, Queen Latifah's on those and hell, I think she's smokin'!

[SmoothBlue17]

nope, no where a turn off. .

to some guys including myself its a turn on and I wouldn't care less. I actually like girls with meat on their bones and have some tummy

[amaleuser]

You are ok (I think I told you, you are beautiful before ) , I like some fat on girls (they are softer)

[goodyz06]

yeah this is what we guys call being thick. which turns a lot of guys on

[SmoothBlue17]

Exactly, that's what guys like these days

[i_wish_i_loved_you]

Good to kno, because I nvr was and probably will nvr b a stick =P

[sa230e]

And you should never be a stick. In fact IMO calling you "thick" is a HUGE stretch. You're in between and you body is beautiful as it is.

[i_wish_i_loved_you]

Awww thank you =)

[mike5150]

Its kind of a turn on

[Anonymous]

yea its totally fine