What do think about tummy pudge?

[HobisSunshineXD]

A tale as old as time: NO ONES PERFECT. And that includes our body types. I don't mind it if a guys has tummy pudge or a bit of a belly. Just more for me to squeeze and cuddle. It also feels nice when you hug. Like a stuffed animal. It also shows me they're not afraid to eat and I know I'm gonna want to cook them food cause that's how I show love.

But it feel like with girls, there's this double standard. Yes, guys have the standard of being fit, but girls are looked at as perfectly flat tummies, skinny arms, skinny legs, and beautiful because of their weight. But that's not reality. Of course there is the different of weight, height, if you exercise, or if you choose not to eat. It just seems really unhealthy if your not eating the correct foods and staying with a correct calorie intake. I believe having some type of meat on your bones makes you look healthy and if someone has a little tummy pudge, it should be ok. But this is just my opinion.

I was just wondering what everyone thought about this issue. Cause I wore a tight sweater dress with thigh high boots and I got a little pudge in the tummy. Not a lot, but I was a little self conscious. But also pretty flattered because I still pulled it off and I didn't get any nasty glares. Maybe more stares than I asked for since it was low cut.

My body type is similar to the 3rd girl in this picture. Just a bit more tummy pudge. The dress is similar too.

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What d you think about tummy pudge is the question. I left off the "you"XD

[Anonymous]

What’s your height and weight? I like a girl with a good amount of softness to feel anyways, and it’s even better if she’s good with her looks even if she weighs more :)

[HobisSunshineXD]

I'm 5'2. 164 lbs. I'm trying to lose weight, but I'm not fat. I just have some chub. Like in my profile pic.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you don’t carry that much of the extra weight in your belly area and it’s mostly in the areas that would make you look curvy so that’s fine. And so what if a girl has a belly, that doesn’t look so bad either, and if she’s only losing weight to fix physical problems besides body image issues I can understand that. But if it’s just body image issues that are the only problem then it should be known that bigger girls can still look good even at their weight, like you :)

[Matthew2222]

I prefer girls to have pudgy bellies, so I am a fan. As for the health objections, these are invalid since the same people making them encourage drinking and smoking.

[HobisSunshineXD]

good point

[Duckysback]

Sure, nobody is perfect, but I’m pretty gods damn close, and you should always strive for self-improvement.

[HobisSunshineXD]

That's what I've been trying to do for years. I'm 5 "2 and constantly stuck at 165. I'm not fat, and I'm not slim. I'm in the middle. And I'm trying so hard to get to my comfy place when I was in high school. It just takes time.

[Duckysback]

It absolutely takes time, and hard work. Anything worth having always does.

[HobisSunshineXD]

agreed

[Anonymous]

It just goes to show you are not eating healthily and not burning enough of it off.

[HobisSunshineXD]

That can be a factor, but I've been trying to lose weight, but its hard because of my body type. So there's different factors that play in. Just depends on the person I guess

[SmasherJosh5000]

I love me some belly pudge I see nothing wrong with it, if it's not affecting your health, why care what other people think of you? Plus it's nice to touch, it's very soft and I can imagine me wanting to rest my head on it

[Billlewis]

You say no one's perfect, but if you have a chubby tummy, you are perfect, in my opinion:)

[Gedaria]

No I don't like it. I look at mine and I hate the sight of it. I have tried everything to get rid of it , short of lypo or tummy tuck. Which I am considering...

[DaMack999]

I don't like obese fact it isn't healthy but curvy women not too chubby is perfect. too skinny to grab anything is not for me. I like my women to have some meat.

[devil_8888]

I too don’t mind if girls don’t have perfect body. I too like girls who got a bit of belly pudge. I love it coz it’s cute and sexy 😘😘

[one1wild00]

Given all the hints as to what the real you looks like, I'd say you still loo great.

[Nahid1707]

Very detailed question, yes having tummy on a lady is perfectly okay

[sara3333]

I think the look depends on the body type - personally, I think the girl in the red dress with the soft tummy looks great!

[Anonymous]

tummy pudge is gross but most people have it so its become normal

[Anonymous]

Love it on a guy. Made for cuddles.

[HobisSunshineXD]

YES!!<3

[SuccessfulHornDog]

girl in red dress is hot

[fett253]

Just fine with me, curvy please!

[Anonymous]

I love a little pooch

[bklynbadboy1]

I think its sexy