Do women like romantic men?

[SwolDishWasher]

Do you ladies like a sweet talker?

[Jennnyfer11]

Every woman likes the man who can estimate her, the man who will tell her the things she keep telling to herself secretly. Every person needs support and some sweet caring... plus women love attention (most of them)
So as a girl, yes, i'd like a sweet talker but not the one who take it way too seriously. I prefer the person i can laugh and joke with over the person i have nothing else then some romantic words to do with.

[YaBaba]

Not a sweet talker; not into that but I like when they show it in action like this

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[SwolDishWasher]

Thats hot

[SwolDishWasher]

I do this at the bar and women melt. I swear.

[YaBaba]

lol are you being sarcastic?

[SwolDishWasher]

Well the first one gif I've done several times with random girls. They love it

[Turquoise46]

It sounds fake if there's no history behind it. I hate guys who schmooze. What's worse is that I feel pressured to return the favor. "Oh, you're so strong and handsome and clever. I'll bet you get hit on all the time. Oh my, did you just flex your pecs? That makes me soooo hot. I want to feel those hard muscles. Come over here and be my man."

Not.

[SwolDishWasher]

You sound bitter

[Turquoise46]

I'm not bitter. I'm trying to be humorous.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Loool. That was pretty weird to read

[Turquoise46]

My point is that if some girl walked up to you with a bunch of superficial comments about your body, your smile or whatever, wouldn't that put you on your guard? It's obvious that she knows nothing about you as a person but is looking for something - free drinks, sex, an ego boost, a ride home. See what I mean?

[Browneye57]

yes, but not a weak man. Being kind is not being weak. Being strong is not being an asshole. Being a real man is taking the lead.

[SwolDishWasher]

Words from an old wiseman. This is true

[John_Doesnt]

They say that, but in reality they want a bad boy who will smack their ass in public.

[SwolDishWasher]

A smack in the ass can be romantic

[smoots]

I wish my guy was a bit more romantic. it's the little things, ya know? like surprises, or buying flowers, leaving me a love note on the fridge, stuff like that.

[SwolDishWasher]

I agree. The genuine kind

[AriadneSky]

i dont like cliche i do like genuinely caring affectionate guys. i dont like contrived speech.

[puSSSyfuker]

wow, I had to use dictionary to get what you meant.

[jemjem2017]

yeah i do ;) im a romantic person so i like when a guy is romantic

[btbc92]

Romantic men, yes! Sweet talkers who does flattery? No.

[SwolDishWasher]

Whats the difference? You can't be romantic without having some charisma.

[btbc92]

See there is a fine line between romance, charisma and being a sweet talker.

Romance is pure love.
Charisma is having a sense of magnetism that draws other people in because you have natural social skills with no doubt a great and extensive vocabulary.
A sweet talker however, is giving flattery. And what is the exact definition of flattery?

"excessive and insincere praise, especially that given to further one's own interests."

To further one's one interest? No thank you. I need a person who is real and to the point, not being fake. You being a true romancer is pure unadulterated feelings for another person without hidden motives or intentions. I can see right through people who play mind games. A kiss on the hand, fine. Chivery, fine. Having real interest in one's everyday lives is brilliant. But being a sweet talker is being manipulative. I detest it when guys try doing that to me and mock me afterward after being caught. Women don't need flattery. They need your heart.

[btbc92]

Also, charisma is natural charm without misusing it for deception.

[SwolDishWasher]

A sweet talker is someone who says sweet things. Things you want to hear. Its not a bad thing at all. Sweet talking is like your guy telling you nice things to make you feel better. It doesn't necessarily mean he only wants one thing out of you.

[btbc92]

It is bad. I don't want or need to hear something so fake. I don't have so low of a self-esteem that I need somebody to tell me things like that. I am a kind person, gentle at heart and takes loyalty seriously. If I don't do that to other people, why would I want somebody who does something I hate? As I said. A sweet talker is being a flatterer. It is a bad thing, because once we women pick up on it, some will either confront you or dump you. These days they do ghosting. And it's often misinterpreted as a woman going for 'bad boys'. What I had to find out has 0 to do with looks, or how they talk or even just how they carry themselves. The so-called 'bad boy' mantra is blunt and to the point.

As I said, I love romance. Probably a sucker with that. But you don't have to be a sweet talker to get the girl. You don't have to tug those heart strings. It's by choice. This is real life, not fiction where one has to swoon over the guy trying to woo her. You don't just chase any girl who...

[btbc92]

doesn't want to be chased not caught. This even applies to men.

Personality preferences say's a lot about the person. How you choose to approach a person is a make or break. So unless you know what kind of person you need in your life, your just picking at sticks randomly.

[SwolDishWasher]

What you say is true. But its the way i am. And im not going to change it for anyone. I am a bad boy and a romantic. I have no problem with a girl whos not interested in that.

[SwolDishWasher]

Real life is boring. You can live there if you want. I dont even like to entertain the thought of being average.

[btbc92]

Not a problem. Just remember that a girl can equally do the same to you and you won't know if she's sincere or not. Every girl has different needs and expectations in a suitable partner. I know by years of speaking to different girls who felt otherwise. As long as you understand that, then okay.

[btbc92]

Relationships are how you decide to make it but it's real work and takes a team effort.

[Turquoise46]

Everything she said ^^^

[SwolDishWasher]

Im not interested in most girls. Im interested in the few that are worth my time. So im okay with that.

[SwolDishWasher]

If a girl isn't interested in my sweet words than she can go fuck herself. Im not worried because there's a girl that will. If she wants to act like a bitch? Buh bye

[Anonymous]

I don't because I'm wary of big emotional displays. But I think a lot of people would enjoy them.

[Tigerpaw007]

Yes we love it sweet guys are the hottest and super cute

[ToruMatsuda]

No they like bad boys like me who will eat all their food and walk out

[Smileysmiley94]

Me personally dont really like Sweet talkers but someone nice and gentle is nice

[Anonymous]

Isn't it obvious. Yes they do

[VictoriousSausage]

woah there pre-teen, don't assume other people's preferences. (i'd probably agree with you, but ima wait till the women respond)

[Opinion Owner]

@VictoriousSausage stfu bro. I'm actually 18 I put in the wrong bday for this website. The fuck you meam "woah there preteen." Stfu. Your fucking welcome for the opinion

[VictoriousSausage]

sorry, i didn't mean to be condescending, i do agree though, or at least i'd like to think women like romance

[Allebana]

I don't, most of my friends do

[SwolDishWasher]

You dont like flowers, breakfast in bed, hearing that you're beautiful, all coming from a genuine place?

[Allebana]

nah, I do that for myself already 😂 and I don't trust people anyway, my mommy left me with some strong issues to deal with lok

[SwolDishWasher]

Its nice when it comes from someone else. I got mommy issues too that im actively working out, i know how it feels. You can talk to me whenever you want about it.

[Allebana]

thanks :) same here, not good at the talking part but I do like listening (reading?)

[SwolDishWasher]

How about i message you and we do a quick catch up? I always like talking to you (a lot) but expressing myself is hard when there's expectations.

[BrittBratt2416]

Yes romantic men are amazing..

[Hihikinn]

Yea definitely

[moonpie89]

Love them 😍

[white_heart]

Yes I do.

[Anonymous]

i like it but not too romantic

[Hawaiikai]

Ya but be genuine

[IvoirianGirl20]

Not me