Girls, did I deserve to be kneed in the balls for slapping a girls butt? (Page 2)

Question

When I was in 9th grade I had a really big crush on this girl. The girl knew that I was crazy about her and she liked to flirt with me and lead me on. One day at the end of school I was at my locker and this girl came up to me and started to touch my back and butt. I turned around as she was about to leave and I slapped her butt. I guess she wasn't very happy with what I did because she kneed me in the balls. Her and her friends just stood their and laughed at me while I was on the floor. Did I really deserve that reaction? I realize what I did wasn't right but I think she over reacted a bit.  Also just so everyone knows this happened quite awhile ago and I don't do this kind of stuff to women anymore. I have a lot of respect for women now. I was just a crazy kid back in day. I know this is kind of a strange question but I've always wondered if other girls think I deserved what I got.

DaniaMQ · Answer

If you had done that out of the blue then yeah you definitely deserved it but... she was the one to start... so that wasn't a nice move. If you were the one to slap her first everyone would've seen you as a criminal or something but its okay for her to kick you and laugh when she was the one to start the crap... just wow.

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

Growing up with my brother, I know no guy deserves to be kicked in the balls unless in the extreme situations like rape or things like that.
Nope You didn't deserve, plus It must have been hard since you had a crush on her :/
Playfully slapping the butt must not have been that big problem cause she started touching your butt at first.

Cuddlewolves · Answer

No, you didn't deserve that. From what I've heard, I understand that it's extremely painful and I wouldn't wish that kind of pain on anybody. The only scenario that I would find that reaction even remotely acceptable is if it was in self defense and if the girl was in actual danger.
The fact that she was touching you first doesn't really justify what you did, but it is true that she led you on and she was giving false signals.

Chanel1981 · Answer

Her reaction was 100% inappropriate! While you shouldn't have touched her ass she shouldn't have been touching you either. Sounds like a classic example of her being OK with dishing it out but not able to handle the consequences. Sorry this happened to you

Anna96 · Answer

To me it sounds as if she set you up. She obviously knew you'd react that way and just needed an excuse to treat you poorly. To me it's an absolute no-go. Of course it wasn't alright that you slapped her butt but she started it and she doesn't have to react so harshly.

DivineDaj · Answer

She initiated the touching but you didn't have to escalate it. Not every girl likes a slap on the ass. Maybe she felt it was a bit too much. If I were you I would've squeezed it lol. You never know with a chick sometimes. They can touch on you and get flirty but if you return the favor all hell breaks loose.

estoydorado1 · Answer

I think she was being a tease so no, I don't think you deserved it. It actually sounds like she knew it too. It sounds like she was just toying with you for her clique's entertainment. Try not to worry about it too much, it's in the past and given the circumstances you did nothing wrong.

aslili · Answer

Well it depends on how hard u slapped her butt also.. The harder and sudden is the slap the more will the reaction be hard to digest 😅 every action has a reaction
she touched ur butt = u slapped her ass = she kicked ur balls = ur attitude towards women changed

Cloudy25 · Answer

Nope not at all. I've made some jokes b4 about kneeing guys in the balls, but I think it's really wrong and could do some real damage if done with enough force. I know it must hurt a lot so first of all it doesn't even compare to getting slapped on the butt. Secondly, you were basically even after you slapped her butt, so it was incredibly immature of her to retaliate when she did the same thing, and she implicated that it was a flirty move and therefore Okay. Hope your balls are okay.

Beebee14 · Answer

If she was feeling you up, it's only right you get your opportunity in my opinion. But in this instance was not the time, you did it infront of her friends which that sounds like she was just showing off in front of her friends knowing that you were keen on her. Sorry, but that sounds like she was playing you.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Well, this happens to women very often and it's not really pleasant (it's harassing actually lol), but I'd say that she was just too butthurt to consider the measure of your punishment. xD

I'd probably just stamp on your toe or something. Not attacking your crotch. xD

DramaGirl2000 · Answer

I think she overreacted a lot! She touched your but too! Just forget about her. What you did was bad, but still. If a guy touched my butt, I would be mad and a little happy, because he shows some interest in me. So just forget about her and move on. She's not worth it.

gigi5678 · Answer

I don't think you deserved that at all. If she was being a bitch by leading you on then she should have expected retaliation in the same form that she put out.

WriterAndPainter · Answer

You should have kneed her in the snatch. I find it funny how she was touching on you first and then you react how she was putting out and then assaults you. So, if all the facts are lined up, no, you didn't deserve it.

IsabelGuimaraes · Answer

If that's true, of course you didn't deserve that. Maybe she didn't know it hurts so much (as guys say it hurts).

Anonymous · Answer

No, you didn't deserve it. She was a bitch for doing that to you.. touching your back and butt, and kneeling you in the balls. A slap on the butt isn't anything bad, unless you are forcing something on the girl... like for example being drunk and pushing yourself at a girl when she's tryin to walk away. .

KellyKatt · Answer

Sounds like a two-faced twit to me. I don't think you deserved it. Seems like she knew you liked her and wanted to show her friends how you would react to her groping you to make them laugh.

Sarashigirl88 · Answer

Well, even though what you did might of been a little out of place, id say how she reacted wasn't the best way to handle it. I mean, how could she not expect you to do that after she touched you first.

menina · Answer

I think she overreacted, but neither of you were right in this situation. Maybe she touched you on purpose, she probably knew that you would have this reaction and she wanted to do something to make her friends laugh.

HastaLaPasta · Answer

When I read the title I was at first like, possibly. I mean I'd kick a guy (not in the balls but in his shins) if he hit my ass. As I was reading it, it sounds like she started it. So no, you did not deserve it. She overreacted a lot!

Redkovu · Answer

No. She clearly was doing these sexual pull ins on you. She should've at least expected some sort f reaction from YOU. But considering that you slapped her maybe it was unexpected. Child's play I guess. Middle school memories. Don't burden on it

LovelyDisquiet · Answer

She's a hypocrite and a bitch. No you didn't deserve that. If she's going to do something, she should be prepared for you to do the same thing in return

Pinkpink94 · Answer

Well, I don't think it's right to slap a girl's butt under any circumstances. But I can see this girl was acting like a snob? Like, flirting with you knowing you were crazy for her. And her attitude shows she thinks she has the right to do whatever she wants without facing the consequences. So, no... I don't think you deserved it.

mntkp · Answer

I mean she touched your butt first. I don't think she should've kicked you in the balls. Maybe she should've gotten a little mad, but that was too much. The others who are saying you deserved it seem to have some double standards...

ArandomPerson02 · Answer

no I don't think you did because she touched your butt. it was stupid of her to do that, if she hadn't touched your butt than you would have deserved it.

intoxicatingen6 · Answer

You definitely didn't deserve it! She was the one who came into you first wtf was she thinking? She was acting in a way that would make any guy do the same thing you did. She's overreacting for someone who first started it

GirlyQuest · Answer

No you didn't deserve it because she felt on you first and you knew she was leading you on so you should've ignored her feeling on you. Tbh I think she was trying to embarrass you or make herself look bigger.

raspberry0416 · Answer

She was the one who touched you inappropriately first. But then you also touched her inappropriately.

tattooedhandfet · Answer

I woulda assumed that it would be ok too. Since she was grabbing you and flirting.  thanks for the invite.

MissMillionDollarMan · Answer

Yeah I'd say that was an overreaction. I can understand it and not condone it.
Nah that's a harsh reaction. You didn't deserve that. But as you probably well know people are often ruled by their emotional responses.

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