Girls, did I deserve to be kneed in the balls for slapping a girls butt? (Page 3)

Question

When I was in 9th grade I had a really big crush on this girl. The girl knew that I was crazy about her and she liked to flirt with me and lead me on. One day at the end of school I was at my locker and this girl came up to me and started to touch my back and butt. I turned around as she was about to leave and I slapped her butt. I guess she wasn't very happy with what I did because she kneed me in the balls. Her and her friends just stood their and laughed at me while I was on the floor. Did I really deserve that reaction? I realize what I did wasn't right but I think she over reacted a bit.  Also just so everyone knows this happened quite awhile ago and I don't do this kind of stuff to women anymore. I have a lot of respect for women now. I was just a crazy kid back in day. I know this is kind of a strange question but I've always wondered if other girls think I deserved what I got.

RealandGenuine · Answer

She touched you first. No you didn't deserve that , if she didn't want you to touch her butt , then she shouldn't have touched yours . Thats how i see it.

Oneringtorulethemall · Answer

While you should never touch a girls butt, you didn't deserve a knee to the balls. And to all you saying he deserved it for touching her butt, after she touched ALL OVER him, maybe he should call the police on her. Or is it only sexual harassment, when a male is affecting a female. Maybe its just me, but i believe it goes both ways. She is being a bit of a tart if you ask me, so if he deserved a knee to the balls, then she deserves a elbow to the boob.

Sevenyoung · Answer

You didn't deserve that. She touched you first so it kind of gives you the allowance to touch her back. She shouldn't have kneed you since she touched you too

chigurl33 · Answer

Doesn't seem like it, maybe she was showing off to her friends or something or she was under the illusion that she was u untouchable... who knows, people are weird

NatCat · Answer

To be honest, I don't think you deserved it. I just think life is unfair and a lot of people react without really thinking things through. You were both crazy kids.

ushagomez · Answer

It was probably the first time she did that to a boy and she didn't realise how easy it is to hurt you. It was just playfulness that went a bit too far.

Emily1997 · Answer

I think there were quite a few mixed signals in that situation
she touched your butt first but I think you both handled it horribly
I am sorry it didn't work out and thank she kneed you which you did not deserve at all

Pearl97 · Answer

She should have seen it coming, I mean she started it. She could have settled for a throat punch... just kidding. But seriously, that was uncalled for.

agbawood · Answer

I don't think you deserved that unless you did it all the time. I think a verbal warning would have sufficed, lol. And she was touching you first right? It sounds like an overreaction to me.

Rei13 · Answer

I don't think you deserved that from what you said. You shouldn't have slapped her ass but she came onto you first. She definitely overreacted when she kneed you.

deraz24 · Answer

You could've saved that for a later date if y'all were going to get a little more serious, and she shouldn't have lead you on like that, but y'all were basically kids

AdviceGiver123 · Answer

I don't think it was an appropriate thing to do, slapping her butt, but you were in the ninth grade. It was a bit of an overreaction on her part considering her actions before you did that😂

samhradh_leannan · Answer

No, definitely not. She touched your butt first. If she had not touched you first then it still would have been an overreaction, but slightly more justified.

Bethany45 · Answer

Okay so in my opinion, I think if she really did all that to you and led you on that you didn't deserve that. It's like she led you on and then cut it off. I think that maybe slapping her on the butt was a maybe little much but honestly she had it coming it sounds like lol

snowangle · Answer

No, that was an overreaction on her part. I mean, I don't know how hard you slapped her bum (like a playful swat or a hard smack) but I doubt it warranted that level of retaliation.

Star23 · Answer

You didn't deserve that at all coz you came on to her but from my personal experience I don't like it when a guy slaps my bum hard but soft is ok Just not hard coz that will certainly turn her off you

Bleh-___- · Answer

Nah she was leading you on. How were you supposed to know that her butt was off limits when she was all over yours. Those are some serious mixed signals lol

Yc1996 · Answer

Haha wow if she didn't want you to touch her butt she shouldn't have touched yours 😃... no you didn't deserve it

Hidden_P · Answer

You were 9th grade. Does it really fucking matter now? Are you going to show up on her doorstep and be like "omg! This is for 9th grade!" And slap her back?

Hopefuldreamer8 · Answer

No, she seems psycho. She was touching you and everything, and you responded back. Looks like you dodged a bullet with that one.

ExhaustedMaid101 · Answer

lol she over reacted. I meanof she was doing things to you as you say touching you and what not. so you returning a slap on the ass was ok.

bxchra · Answer

no, if she can touch your butt, you can touch hers lol it's all about equality, and even if she felt uncomfortable with that, violence is not the answer lol

douride2 · Answer

Are you saying she grabbed your ass then retaliated when you returned the favor?

catelyntje · Answer

Yeah you did! And why are you taking a path down memory lane?

Melone · Answer

i think it was a bit drastic to react like that, after she did the same to you. poor guy!

LondonNewYork · Answer

She sounds like a jerk. This is very interesting because equal treatment and when they get it, they don't like it. Clearly, you didn't deserve it.

ChickenNugget17 · Answer

Well, you kinda deserved it yeh, but she was leading you on and that wasn't right. Like boi why did she start touching yo butt then. Both things weren't right. Did you apologise later on?

Sweet_Angel · Answer

no you didn't she's just immaturre some girls just joke stupidly and some just dont like it i mean i'd be freaked out not kick a guy in the balls.

Pinkprincess10 · Answer

No I don't think she had the right to because she touched you too. The way I look at it is she sexually harassed you, so you get to do it to.

Sadly_It_Fell_Off · Answer

She set you up and no it was not deserved. If she truly felt offended then a good tongue lashing would have sufficed.

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