Why do girls take take a lot of selfies?
I used to be addicted to taking selfies - hundreds a day - when I was at the peak of my mental health problems.
I did it because I was insecure and wanted to take pictures that made me feel pretty.
After I got mental health help, and recovered from the worst of my mental health issues, and raised my self-esteem, I rarely take selfies anymore.
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We just want to show to the world what we're up to. We want to show who we're with.. who makes us happy... we want to show off our friends.. we want to show that we're having a good time. w also want to show off how we look in that moment... most importantly, selfie's are a way for us to save memories of being w that person
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That's a lot of showing off
I think it's because it gives girls confidence, love for themselves, and gives an opportunity to get complimented by people in their social media
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Well after they do all that makeup and all that, I'd probably take a pic too. Put on a duck face and pucker up or something lol. I would like girls to take pictures of themselves without makeup, just so they see that they actually look good without it too. And many times the makeup takes away more than they realize
Women's value in romantic relationahips, and sometimes even in a societal sense, comes from their external appearance. Women naturally already worry more about it than men. Add the fact that we're all able to take instant pictures of ourselves all day, and viola, you have women taking selfies constantly.
I don't do selfies bro
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Why?
Narcissism, combined with insecurity, which leads to a perceived need to have validation provided by other constantly.
My thoughts exactly.
Because they love to see themselves? 😂 or maybe because its either they always feel pretty and in good mood thats why they keep selfies on their phone OR they want the public to see how beautiful they are thats why they post it on instagram? I really don't know as I don't have instagram. lol
Approval from society as for them the society opinión matter much tan their own opinión? Attention seekers? Self absorbed reasons? Ego problems I hate selfies I dont even have one on my phone, I found them senseless, stupid and boring, looking at your own photo and when you hit a certain age if you are obsessed with selfies you may have a image problem. But todays generation that is one of the problems with the technology
Maybe their memories suck so they can't remember most things that happen to them that are noteworthy of a picture.
Seriously I can't figure out another explanation.
Also, the more important question is why don't guys take so many selfies?
I occasionally take some selfies, but post only a few, and that would be if I'm particularly happy that day in that pictures, or for my workout progress over the years. I don't like narcissistic behaviors, and I don't be, and I look at other ladies' selfies too.
There are guys who take more selfies than some ladies... I have met and known.
Well boohuuuuuhhh
Excuse me? I only take a few, and post even fewer for special days, occasions and events. I am irritated by behaviors of taking excessive selfies as well. I doubt that you have taken none, so please stop being judgmental.
it's just a self esteem thing , like the fact that we look at ourselves in the mirror a billion times a day, we gotta make sure we look beautiful on the outside too, also because people made it like an unspoken rule how girls should look perfect otherwise they disgust the community , sad but true
Me personally I take a lot out of boredom but while in the process I really like the photo then I'll put it as my profile picture which I change a lot by the way lol 😂😂😂, I don't post for attention or likes. If you like it or not I really don't care.
Attention and approval from society. I don't see the appeal of constant selfies... oh look your face, oop there it is again. If you post more than one selfie a day then you are probably wasting your life.
Lol my profile picture shows the real side of me
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Because they're self absorbed and narcissistic and looking for validation.
Whoops, sorry I'm a dinosaur...
For some people it can be about capturing and sharing memories, but if more than half of the pictures in your phone are selfies then you have a problem.
I mostly take photos of nature and animals. They are much more beautiful than some attention seeking self-absorted girls.
Why does it matter? People take photos of food too. Why do they do that?
Why do people take a picture of the sunset or their cat? Why take any pictures?
Lol ur mad I asked that?
Yeah for some odd reason her answer sounds defensive when you just wanted an explanation.
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I've taken selfies before too but only to see how bad I looked not how good I looked. I'm not one that's stuck on myself for sure and I certainly wouldn't have posted them anywhere or even used any unless one turned out to be a retro picture and they only one I had I needed.
Sincerely A Dinosaur
I take a few
.. mostly out of boredom... or if I want a new profile photo. not for the heck of it like some do.
It is quite annoying. I noticed i can't find a selfie to put on tinder. I dont take them at all.
Out of curiosity, are you using Tinder to find a boyfriend or just a hookup?
@FroggyDoggy96 boyfriend. In fact i find someone who is intelligent, have stable good job, well educated, he has common values with me, hobbies, and he is fun into outdoor stuff etc. we have been dating since three months. He seems he likes me... and i told him i am looking for somethingg long term in the beginning. He doesn't even care i guess. Comes to my place, have sex, stays over, says he likes me, i am different than other girls, he responds enthusiastically and quickly and always accepts all the plans i make taking him ou but never asks me, rarely texts (even from the start before the first date he said he doesn't check phone, he is busy blah blah) then whenever relationship question comes out, he is like he doesn't want it but only if i want he may consider... fyi, i had sex after 3 dates. But i gave up online dating after a month. It doesn't lead anywhere honestly. You'll ask so i should tell you all the things right away.
U fucked up cuz u gave him sex way to fast.. in his head u were to easy
I dont use sex as commodity to keep a guy around. If a guy was gonna leave, he isonna leave regardless when you have sex. It is better sooner than later if he just reduces me as a piece of meat so i can move on.
by the way i am not 20 year old woman who needs self confidence and worries abou whether a guy likes me. I am more of confident that i will be fine and i am unique if they dont like me.
Well I'ma guy so ik how we think. we love sex more than anything
Well your own opinion. I have had a 3 year relationship where i had sex after 7 days, on out second date. We broke up not because of problems but we couldnt close distance and looked like noone wanted yo compromise career after 1 year LDR. My second relationship was the same. I had sex on the third date and it was 2.5 years. I think i am far more valuable to be reduced to the time of sexz
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I'm just high asf right now
Confidence and ego boost. Sometimes you get a particularly good one and it's just nice to see yourself in a positive way instead of pointing out the negatives
Ha ha, us girls do love selfies, its just natural, we just love taking pictures of ourselves and we just do it a lot without even knowing... sometimes...
hmmm interesting
It's shows my darkside
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@scorpioDude lol
She's 13
I know lol.
Because we need to feed that inner monster called "my ego".
And to flaunt our stuff to our friends sometimes, because you know, we all like compliments now and then. โจ
I don't know why but I find it quite annoying
ohhhhhh u know why!!
Narcissistic b! tches in my opinion
They know though that many guys will give like to their selfies. Everyone looks at least ok in them. In real pics not so much xD
You make it seem like a selfie is a fake photo of yourself.
@MysteriousDarkness Well, it kinda is. It shows you from the "better side". Selfies usually have lower quality so people look smoother on it.
Instagram is literally made for selfies.. Why is this a question they take them because they look cute and want a pic
I nvr have, I hate my pic being online. I look fine lol, but I don't like everyone knowing what I look like, I only want people I actually know IRL to know that.
because you have to take a hundred to find one you think you look good in!
I don't know. For me, personally, I take them to document. Or if I'm feeling ugly, taking pictures make me feel better in an odd way.
I hate pictures
I can confidently say I have never posted a selfie of myself before. I'm the most unphotogenic person I know. Maybe they enjoy taking pics of themselves, who knows.
Because these girls want to feel beautiful, I see nothing wrong with selfies themselves.
The massive quantity of them is the issue!
It's simple. That's like asking why we wear makeup or do our hair a certain way. Because we look good and we fucking want to. Why are you so worried about what girls are doing? There's more important things in life.
lots of girls are narcissistic attention whores.
O_O lol
I prefer to take selfies because I don't like the way I look when ornery people take pictures of me. When I have the camera it's easier to get a better angle of me. But I still take pictures with my friends and family.
Guys do it too.
I do not have an instagram account and I don't get why instagram is so popular.
I just said guys do it to
It's nothing like a little head meat in the morning
They want to feel pretty and beautiful and want praises from people just like everyone else i think this is somewhat same for guys instead of pretty or beautiful they want handsome, smart etc
I don't have Instagram and probably have maybe five selfie's in my phone lol. I wonder sometimes if all the selfie's come from insecurities. Not saying they do, just a thought.
I don't know, just a guilty pleasure of mine. But most of the time i keep those selfies to myself since i don't like to post only selfies on social media.
Cause guys love looking at pics of hot girls. And people care about their image.
It's called being insecure. How much you wanna bet that if no one "liked" any of their photos they wouldn't do it as often and then find some other way to justify that they look good.
Because I am damn beautiful and I want to show it to the world :)
You're probably a "dinosaur" to this idiot scorpioDude, lol.
@SmartButBroke IWhy I am a dinosaur?
Not narcissistic, just truthful
love this answer! you're damn right. it's not called narcissistic it's called self looooove.
@SmartButBroke did u just call me a idiot? u motherfuckin dinosaur! T-Rex lookin smart but Not smart PERSON !
I don't take lots of selfies, but I guess it's because girls like doing it?
Attention, receiving compliments, etc. we're in this era now where fishing for compliments is perceived as okay.
They just like taking pictures, I'm not not photogenic so I don't take pics.
It's called narcissism. It's a rather anti-social personality disorder that has been mainstreamed and popularised so much it is now sitting in the whitehouse.
Because I'm fabulous.
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@SneakySnickerdoodle @scorpioDude see ya feel me.
Ya ya. B-)
not really because u never flowed me back loool
Ooh. He's calling you out, RJ.
Hell yeah I'm calling her out!
Honestly I forgot. Lol.
LMAO. So anti-climatic.
@SneakySnickerdoodle I'm just a terrible person XD
Haha. Nahh, fuck it.
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Cause most of them look beautiful in their selfies that's why...
Me on other other hand only take a selfie very rarely Lol
Because guys like watching cute and sexy girls, which makes them looks sexy and desirable. If every guy on earth stopped, they would too. Logic.
They can't part with their 'unique memories' and want every moment to be pictured so that they can look at them in the future, like a diary.
it's fun and I don't look good a lot, so when I do I capture it forever!!!
Because I'm do bad looking... I need yo pick one where I look decent.
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Oh nvm I wasn't supposed to answer
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Wait what?
nvm chica way
Yes, and/or make silly/stupid faces sometimes? Never understood that?
Girls talk about guys egos and they are just as bad sometimes! lol
Because it makes them feel good about themselves and yes, some do like the attention.
Vanity. Selfies are stupid though. As a guy I only have like 3 selfies in my photo stream.
I think it's their way of advertising themselves. Or maybe girls are just vain.
Because, they love themselves.
Why do women love mirrors? Same reason.
Aah, selfies, manifestation of societyโs obsession with looks and its ever-narcissistic embrace
I don't like taking selfies so... I don't know
Well u should because u are beautiful
r u a model?
Damn that's shocking
Because they can and it don't hurt nobody.
@MysteriousDarkness
Yes it does.
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This conversation is great guys lol.
@MysteriousDarkness
Their egos drive me crazy.
Guys I'ma buy to turn this question... buy since I'ma nice guy I left in on so people can talk :) ain't I just awesome :)!!
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Selfies are just ( lonely's) . Self claimed fame.
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Damn fool
Selfies is the big thing now lol
If you were good looking you'd understand!
lool okay
That's what attention whores do
Narcissistic. They love themselves too much
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