It seems like a fairly natural stance and I can see that you use your physical attributes to their full advantage. I think most guys would take a protective stance over their GFs just like GFs do with their BFs.
What worries me more though, is why a guy is flirting with your girl when you are there and why other guys are messaging her if she is with you.
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To be protective is really good but not overly. There can still be a fine line with certain things too.
Just not often or overly only when you know you should, that is when someone is really being an arse.
I do think being protective is fine just not so much because overly possessive can be bad too.
there's a difference between protecting her and harassing people who soeak to her. threatening people on her behalf is creepy, but keeping her safe is very attractive
Yocare actually insecure... and jealous Lol that's not alpha... at all
If a guy doesn't know that she if already taken and you step in before your girl tell him that she if taken then its not smart..
But yes if a guy keeps flirting with your girl even when she had warned him then it's completely OK.
Real guys buy get jealous do fast.
Does the guy who's flirting with your girl know she's taken? Otherwise your just being a bully. Girls probably like a protector but not a i'll break his legs kind of guy.
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Not really. That sounds more like you scare people off because you're jealous. Some jealousy is ok, but not over the top. A guy who makes us feel safe and protected though - THAT is a turn on
If someone is flirting with me, I'd like my partner coming over or taking notice but I'd want him to let me handle it myself. If my partner told me he'd kick someone's arse just for messaging me, that'd be really unattractive.
I only like this if they have allowed me the space to try and protect myself first, because it's a bit subjective and some guys get jealous over nothing.
Yeah definitely, i love when a guy is protective. I sure don't want a boyfriend who is a wimp or careless.
No, not really attractive to me. I don't like to be near drama or violent people.
No, because it shows you're insecure and a bully. Sooner or later your agression will turn on the girl herself.
Totally. Even though I can protect myself it's nice to know my man could do it too. And that he would want to.
yeah, it not only shows that you care but that you are also an alpha male and that is what every woman wants. you just can't go overboard with it.
yes but not too overly protective cus then it would be a turn off
yes but if its overly protective i would fucking hate it
Huge turn off. Sorry.
I would tell you to chill man lol
They didn't love it enough to stay with you :(
I love it personally
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