Why do women beat up men?

[Anonymous]

Women are not just more controlling and emotionally abusive... they commit the majority of physical domestic abuse too!!

According to Harvard, women commit over 70% of one sided domestic violence and even commit the majority of two sided violence in the house.

Why?

Because women ARE more violent

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[Napoli]

It's a flaw in their make-up. Most likely they saw it happen and/or or it happened to them growing up and were mistaught that it's accepatable.

Most of the time, it's not something they can control. It's not right and they need psychological help. They don't know how to deal with their anger and haven't been taught how to.

I know It's the other way around, but my mother's ex partner was very abusive, and he often talked about how is father beat him when he was growing up. My first ever serious boyfriend was abusive, and I just thought it was normal. That that's what happened. Again, he had a very rough upbringing.
I still get surprised when guys are nice to me. I don't mean in the street, but guys I spend time with. It's still alien.

Anyway, sorry I hijacked your question, but I do think it's the same for either sex, that's just what I wanted to say ~ that they don't know any other way of dealing with things. Even when they do, they don't know how to apply it.

Don't believe they're proud of it though. I haven't seen it in women but I've seen it in men, and they're tortured on the inside. I don't think it's any different for females.

[samhradh_leannan]

You're aware that biased polls and radical statements accusing an entire gender of perpetrating violence are not productive ways to approach the problem of domestic violence, right? You're not doing it to be helpful or promote awareness, you're doing it to rant? Just so we're clear.

[Asker]

You're insensitive to the humanity of men.

[samhradh_leannan]

Really? I am?

[samhradh_leannan]

Yyyyyyyyyyyyyyy do men rape rape women?

(See how helpful and productive that was? I'm such an activist.)

[Asker]

Women are at least 40% of rapists outside prison. Female prisons are 3-5x more rapey than male prisons.

Women commit over 90% of sex assaults on juveniles in juvi

[samhradh_leannan]

I'd like to see a source for those statistics.

[samhradh_leannan]

My main point, though, is that there are good and bad people out there of both genders. It's important to address problems such as domestic violence and rape head on in an honest way, but it's equally crucial that we not villianize entire genders here. That will only cause more problems and make it even harder to solve the real issues. I just wonder why you insist on approaching the subject in this particular manner. You must be aware that most of the people you're targeting this question towards aren't the people who are instigating these problems.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes it's necessary when my wife isn't acting right, refusing to keep the house cleaning and have a meal prepared for when I come home from work. I tried to discuss her disrespectful behavior but she flew into a rage and attacked me so I grabbed her and put her across my knee hitched up her skirt pulled down her panties and with the palm of my hand spanked her bottom as hard as I could for 10 minutes. Her ass was red raw and she couldn’t sit down for a week. She ran home to her parents who were discusted by her behaviour and her father threatened to take his belt to her. After a week she realised how wrong she had been andrawn apologised, we had amazing make up sex. Ever since she's been as good as gold putting maximum effort into our marriage and is now pregnant. It was all just a classic shit test to test my limits and of course if I hadn't disciplined her she would not respect me.

[thrush70]

because men bottle up their emotions then don't communicate then lash out . there is no time when striking a woman is acceptable

[Littlett25]

They're more likely to get away with it

[samhradh_leannan]

This is honestly the truth. For a long time, inequality and chivalry made it acceptable for women to use violence against men but not the other way around. That mindset still lingers in our society, and women aren't discouraged from using physical violence the way they should be. It's a serious problem, and one that needs to be addressed. However, railing against all women as the more violent gender is not an appropriate or effective way to address the problem.

[Napoli]

@samhradh_leannan... but there is still a reason behind it. It's not that black, white and one dimensional. What he asked was why, and there are deep underlying factors. It's not normal behaviour for any man or woman.

[samhradh_leannan]

@Napoli That's also very true. A normal, healthy, well-adjusted woman who has proper social awareness and respect for others isn't going to commit an act of violence.

[Nadzzz]

i can easily tell you have issues

[Asker]

Yeah absolutely.

Women are big issues

[AleDeEurope]

Because they can.

[Asker]

Your theory falls apart when we see that lesbians are also FAR more violent than gays...

Women seem to be more prone to violent outbursts

[AleDeEurope]

How does my theory fall apart? Women beat up men because they can, and why can they? Because the law, and well, society, gives zero shit about violent women.

[Asker]

So women are allowed to hit each other? but men aren't allowed to hit each other?

LOL.

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah... kind of lol

[Asker]

I'd say society gives zero fucks about gays beating each other up...

Do you have any PROOF that society is ok with women beating up other women? Or are you just MAKING THINGS UP to suit your feminist agenda?

[Asker]

Don't forget that women are more LIKELY to both abuse & kill children (when taking custody into account) too.

[AleDeEurope]

How is what I'm saying feminist? I'm complaining about the double standard society has when it comes to female violence, and I'm a feminist now? Lmao
Violence in women should be treated the same way as violence in men. Period.

[Asker]

I'd say society gives zero fucks about gays beating each other up...

Do you have any PROOF that society is ok with women beating up other women? Or are you just MAKING THINGS UP?

Don't forget that women are more LIKELY to both abuse & kill children (when taking custody into account) too.

[AleDeEurope]

I don't have any proof because I don't think there's numbers for that, but it's very well known that lesbian relationships are more abusive than any other relationship, gay or heterosexual, and yet everyone decides to look the other way. So I think it's safe to assume that woman vs woman violence is ignored, I mean, when was the last time you saw an ad telling women not to be violent to their partner? You see these ads directed to men all the time, but you never see it directed to women.
Violence in women is not taken seriously, no matter who the victim is.

[Asker]

and everyone doesn't look away when GAYS do it? lol.

Wtf are you smoking? People despise gays far more than lesbians... and will help them FAR LESS... making gays far more capable of violence

Gays can. But don't.

[AleDeEurope]

Stfu dude, you don't even know what you're talking about, you're just trolling, as usual.

[Asker]

Stop trolling. Lesbians are considered HOT many times, while gays are almost an unspeakable thing. Lesbian porn is highly admired (look it up). EVERYONE looks the other way when it comes to gays. So you're wrong there!!

Your conspiracy theories are thus, completely baseless.

[AleDeEurope]

"Lesbians are hot" LMAO XD

[Asker]

What are you laughing at, TROLL?

Lesbian is the No.1 porn category in terms of popularity

[AleDeEurope]

LMAO

[Asker]

Here's more EVIDENCE destroying your conspiracy theory - lgbtqnation (dot) com/2016/02/there-are-twice-as-many-lgbtq-people-in-prison-as-in-the-general-population/

Lesbians are far more likely to be arrested than gays.

Stop trying to desperately make up nonsensical excuses for women's violence. JUST LOOK AT YOU!! A trained white knight

[AleDeEurope]

LMAO.

[Asker]

"society, gives zero shit about violent women"

Proven false in the context of lesbians, who are more likely to be arrested than gays. So your theory of "because they can" falls apart.

Gays can. But don't

[AleDeEurope]

LMAO...

[Asker]

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[AleDeEurope]

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[AleDeEurope]

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[Asker]

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[AleDeEurope]

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[Asker]

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[AleDeEurope]

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[Asker]

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