Girls, do you get turned on when your boyfriend gets angry?

[Flow_like_the_wind]

It sounds crazy but I've seen cases where some women have admitted they get turned on when their boyfriend gets angry. Anyone relate to this?

Yes

No

Depends

[Kiwedin]

It depends on what he's angry about and how exactly he's expressing that anger. When it's blind rage, where he's throwing things, I just think it's incredibly childish and I see him as a kid throwing a tantrum. When he's angry over something insignificant or something I don't think is worth being angry over, I get annoyed.
The only time I've ever gotten turned on because my boyfriend was angry, was because he was fed up of something and his anger was expressed in a mature manner, it was focused. He had good reason to be angry, he expressed himself well, but I think what really got me was just the fact that he was asserting his dominance in a sense. I like my men to be... men, and while that doesn't mean getting angry, it does mean knowing when to speak up for yourself, to stand up against something you don't agree with, and demand change when it's needed.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I get it. You like the assertiveness and him having a spine. I like that in women too.

[samhradh_leannan]

No, not at all. My boyfriend is a very calm and patient person, so if he is acting truly angry, that means something is seriously wrong. If he's angry, I am way too concerned/worried/upset to feel turned on by it or feel anything else positive about it.

But is it a turn on to see him passionate and standing up for something he believes in? Yes, absolutely.

[Anonymous]

OoooOooOoo fuck. I hate an aggressive asshole but I love when I like a guy, he's a good guy, and he just gets really angry. Like I just imagine him kinda trying to fuck me really hard or something. Moaning and shit in my ears, rough handling me. It just kinda shows me he's feeling something right now and he's a good guy with some problems. I don't know I talk a lot of nonsense but it's gotta be human nature somehow.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I imagine the same thing when I see an angry girl lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh really? Haha rough handling you?

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Yeah lol.

[Opinion Owner]

You like being submissive?

[Flow_like_the_wind]

No, switch.

[BelleMmichelle]

I'll admit I find mild jealousy and mild possessiveness sexy. Aggression is primal, but if he's storming around the house I'm not into it... depends on the kind of anger

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Sexual aggression right?

[BelleMmichelle]

Yes but it's exclusive to my man. I don't find it attractive from just a random guy or an interest, we have to be dating.

[fauchelevent]

No, I get really nervous when anyone is angry around me and seeing him angry makes me upset. Nervous and upset doesn't really make me wanna have sex with him :P

[Flow_like_the_wind]

But if he's angry he might make the sex really rough xD.

[cupcake_625]

it depends, but if he is getting all worked up about something, it might turn me on a lot. angry sex is the best sex tbh bc of the roughness

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Interesting. I heard a lot of girls think of rough sex when they see their boyfriend angry.

[cupcake_625]

I know I do 😉

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I completely understand. When I see a girl angry and she's hot I got a few things running through my mind lmao. Unless it's something very serious.

[cupcake_625]

I want him to dominate me when he is angry. take all of his anger out while pounding me

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Nice. Tell him to handcuff your hands to the bed posts too, and tell him to put extra locks on the doors haha.

[datgirl]

Not at me lmao but if he were angry for a good reason like trying to defend me or my family/our kids then I'd find that really hot. Otherwise, I'm the type that gets nervous/uneasy when people are angry.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Oh I know you'd find it hot if he was defending you. We talked about this a long time ago lmao.

[datgirl]

Yes yesss, big, tough, dominant dudes are my thing

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I'm telling you, if you get the chance get with a pro mma fighter. As long as he's not abusive of course... I think you'll love that lol.

[JadedandReckless]

No but the make up sex is so good. Lol and he tends to baby me and gives me butterfly kisses after his done being angry with me. Lol

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So it's not the anger but what he does to you in bed right? Lol

[JadedandReckless]

Yup. Its ok of he gets mad everyone gets mad. Its how he make up for it. ;) lol

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So I guess you like when he holds you down really tight and like thrusts you hard and stuff? Lol

[JadedandReckless]

Now that's a thing i can only admit in private. Lol.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Ohhh secretive lmao.

[WaterRat]

Yea, I like seeing emotions. Just not towards his parents. Only deep respect and deep bows to the parents.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So you like an emotional guy basically right?

[WaterRat]

I like cool calm collected guys who show their true colors sometimes.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Gotcha. That makes sense.

[SarahsSummer]

NO! I get sad, mad and or scared but not turned on. Unless his anger is in some way defending/protecting me. That's just weird.

[Lyndsielee666]

If it's not towards me yes. Watching him fight has been my favorite thing for numerous years 😂😂

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So you get turned on when he fights other men?

[Lyndsielee666]

Yup, have since we were 15 😭😭

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Wow you been together for 9 years? Talk about high school sweetheart those rarely exist anymore lmao.

[Lyndsielee666]

Lmfao we've been friends and he's liked me since we were 15. We have only been dating for four years 🙄

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Oh lol. We'll you still known each other since high school so that's pretty good.

[Thebeck]

Why do you think we keep pushing your buttons even though the argument is "over"?

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Well, I do believe some girls do that to make their boyfriends angry.