Girls, do you get turned on when your boyfriend gets angry?

[Flow_like_the_wind]

It sounds crazy but I've seen cases where some women have admitted they get turned on when their boyfriend gets angry. Anyone relate to this?

Yes

No

Depends

[Kiwedin]

It depends on what he's angry about and how exactly he's expressing that anger. When it's blind rage, where he's throwing things, I just think it's incredibly childish and I see him as a kid throwing a tantrum. When he's angry over something insignificant or something I don't think is worth being angry over, I get annoyed.
The only time I've ever gotten turned on because my boyfriend was angry, was because he was fed up of something and his anger was expressed in a mature manner, it was focused. He had good reason to be angry, he expressed himself well, but I think what really got me was just the fact that he was asserting his dominance in a sense. I like my men to be... men, and while that doesn't mean getting angry, it does mean knowing when to speak up for yourself, to stand up against something you don't agree with, and demand change when it's needed.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I get it. You like the assertiveness and him having a spine. I like that in women too.

[samhradh_leannan]

No, not at all. My boyfriend is a very calm and patient person, so if he is acting truly angry, that means something is seriously wrong. If he's angry, I am way too concerned/worried/upset to feel turned on by it or feel anything else positive about it.

But is it a turn on to see him passionate and standing up for something he believes in? Yes, absolutely.

[Anonymous]

OoooOooOoo fuck. I hate an aggressive asshole but I love when I like a guy, he's a good guy, and he just gets really angry. Like I just imagine him kinda trying to fuck me really hard or something. Moaning and shit in my ears, rough handling me. It just kinda shows me he's feeling something right now and he's a good guy with some problems. I don't know I talk a lot of nonsense but it's gotta be human nature somehow.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I imagine the same thing when I see an angry girl lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh really? Haha rough handling you?

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Yeah lol.

[Opinion Owner]

You like being submissive?

[Flow_like_the_wind]

No, switch.

[BelleMmichelle]

I'll admit I find mild jealousy and mild possessiveness sexy. Aggression is primal, but if he's storming around the house I'm not into it... depends on the kind of anger

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Sexual aggression right?

[BelleMmichelle]

Yes but it's exclusive to my man. I don't find it attractive from just a random guy or an interest, we have to be dating.

[fauchelevent]

No, I get really nervous when anyone is angry around me and seeing him angry makes me upset. Nervous and upset doesn't really make me wanna have sex with him :P

[Flow_like_the_wind]

But if he's angry he might make the sex really rough xD.

[cupcake_625]

it depends, but if he is getting all worked up about something, it might turn me on a lot. angry sex is the best sex tbh bc of the roughness

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Interesting. I heard a lot of girls think of rough sex when they see their boyfriend angry.

[cupcake_625]

I know I do 😉

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I completely understand. When I see a girl angry and she's hot I got a few things running through my mind lmao. Unless it's something very serious.

[cupcake_625]

I want him to dominate me when he is angry. take all of his anger out while pounding me

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Nice. Tell him to handcuff your hands to the bed posts too, and tell him to put extra locks on the doors haha.

[datgirl]

Not at me lmao but if he were angry for a good reason like trying to defend me or my family/our kids then I'd find that really hot. Otherwise, I'm the type that gets nervous/uneasy when people are angry.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Oh I know you'd find it hot if he was defending you. We talked about this a long time ago lmao.

[datgirl]

Yes yesss, big, tough, dominant dudes are my thing

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I'm telling you, if you get the chance get with a pro mma fighter. As long as he's not abusive of course... I think you'll love that lol.

[JadedandReckless]

No but the make up sex is so good. Lol and he tends to baby me and gives me butterfly kisses after his done being angry with me. Lol

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So it's not the anger but what he does to you in bed right? Lol

[JadedandReckless]

Yup. Its ok of he gets mad everyone gets mad. Its how he make up for it. ;) lol

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So I guess you like when he holds you down really tight and like thrusts you hard and stuff? Lol

[JadedandReckless]

Now that's a thing i can only admit in private. Lol.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Ohhh secretive lmao.

[WaterRat]

Yea, I like seeing emotions. Just not towards his parents. Only deep respect and deep bows to the parents.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So you like an emotional guy basically right?

[WaterRat]

I like cool calm collected guys who show their true colors sometimes.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Gotcha. That makes sense.

[SarahsSummer]

NO! I get sad, mad and or scared but not turned on. Unless his anger is in some way defending/protecting me. That's just weird.

[Lyndsielee666]

If it's not towards me yes. Watching him fight has been my favorite thing for numerous years 😂😂

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So you get turned on when he fights other men?

[Lyndsielee666]

Yup, have since we were 15 😭😭

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Wow you been together for 9 years? Talk about high school sweetheart those rarely exist anymore lmao.

[Lyndsielee666]

Lmfao we've been friends and he's liked me since we were 15. We have only been dating for four years 🙄

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Oh lol. We'll you still known each other since high school so that's pretty good.

[Thebeck]

Why do you think we keep pushing your buttons even though the argument is "over"?

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Well, I do believe some girls do that to make their boyfriends angry.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I have, and when he's all sad and vulnerable, when he's excited... I guess the more extreme emotionally generally turn me on... weird.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I guess you like an emotional guy lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Guess so-lol.

[lovelyhoneybones]

If someone gets angry with me, I get angry right back. Probably not the best thing to do, but hey!

[Anonymous]

if its at me, no. if its in general, no. if he gets angry about whatever at whatever or whoever, do i get turned on? no

[Flow_like_the_wind]

So any kind of anger is an absolute turn off?

[Opinion Owner]

Even though anger is a common emotion everybody feels, often or not, if he is constantly angry, it can be a bit nervewracking. So yah it's a turn off.

For example, if he's angry for a good reason, it's not so much a turn off but rather "please don't get angry at me". If he's angry for no good reason, it's a turn off cuz then it gets "scary" since I don't handle anger towards me that well

[snowangle]

Oh Lord no. Anger shuts me down. It'd probably turn me off, if anything.

[Tata_licious]

Well that's means he care... But that don't turn me on

[1800angel]

yes, the sex gets intense and when he chokes me and calls me a retard!

[sarahP2]

And you like being a called a retard while being choked during sex?

[1800angel]

of course! who doesn't?

[sarahP2]

Uh, me...

[1800angel]

ur weird

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Different strokes for different folks lol.

[sarahP2]

What you do I find weird cuz I don't want to be verbally abused and choked while having sex cuz it's meant to be intimate and fun. Not abusive and weird as if you're in a fuck dungeon with corpses hanging from the ceiling

[1800angel]

choking is the new thing... lol you must be old or something. it's fucking hot

[sarahP2]

Bruh, if you look at my age, I'm 2 years older than you. Plus, I ain't a basic person where I need to "keep up with the trends" for every single thing cuz trends die down fast

[1800angel]

sounds lame

[Anonymous]

if he gets angry at me, no i don't really find that attractive. but if he's angry at something or someone else, well, it depends what or who it is

[Anonymous]

Oh yes. My ex-husband rarely got angry but when he did i laughed a bit, it's a huge turn on. Oops.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Maybe because it was so rare lol.

[Anonymous]

not if he's angry at me, but when he's angry at another guy (for good reasons) I find it pretty hot

[Cola7248]

How cutw is he when he is angry.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

He's not. He's just angry lol.

[Anonymous]

ME I DO. LIKE MMMMMMMM CAN YOU FUCK ME ROUGH AND HARD YES DADDY

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Someone really wants to be fucked hard lol.

[Opinion Owner]

always 😉

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Haha.

[pooper89]

Depends on what he's angry about

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Speaking hypothetically uh...
- his favorite sports team lost
- some guy threatened his manhood
- he dropped his food
- in an argument with you

Just some examples.

[Whatthefluff]

No, that sounds quite odd lol

[Blonde401]

Nope.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

How about when he's happy? Lol

[Blonde401]

That's better. If he's angry and aggressive that's not sexy.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

What about in the bedroom? Haha

[Blonde401]

There's being aggressive and then there's taking control and the two are not equal. I do like a guy being rough but it's not necessarily aggressive.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Hm I get you. So maybe like a bit hair pulling hair and a little smacking and biting?

[Blonde401]

Yes!

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Hm.. how about licking and wrist pinning and hard thrusting? Haha

[Blonde401]

Yes to all. I like a dominant man in the bedroom.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Awesome. I like submissive women. It gives guys like me a chance to blow her mind xD.

[Blonde401]

Haha I'm happy to have my mind blow TBH

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Are you now 😜

[Blonde401]

Yes! It's been a while :(

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I can understand. I want to be able to help you.

[Blonde401]

Haha no thanks. It's a personal choice to not date/be intimate with people anymore.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Getting tired of people huh? Lol

[Blonde401]

Been tired of people for quite a while. It's just healthier to break away from that shit I think.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I don't blame you. Over the years my tolerance for people just keeps getting lower and lower.

[Blonde401]

Yeah I've just had terrible experiences with dating over the last 10 years. Had my heart stomped on, been cheated on, been messed around. It's just really not worth the effort.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

That really sucks I remember you telling me. Sucks you had to go through all that. I never even dated lol. That's not gonna be easy telling people that.

[Blonde401]

I know a guy who never dated until he was 26 and now he's in a LTR and I never see him :/

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I can't do LTR. I feel like if I date she's gotta be within driving distance.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Holy crap nvm!! That's LDR lmao.

[Blonde401]

😂 sorry to confuse

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I had a slow moment there.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Lol its all good. But I'm more of a LTR guy myself. Just to make things clear on that since I talked about LDR instead lol.

[Blonde401]

Haha yeah I used to be too.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Yeah, but don't you feel lonely sometimes?

[Blonde401]

Always. But I don't know how to not feel lonely. Even when I was in my last relationship I felt lonely.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Maybe It's depression? Because I know that even when I'm around people I'm comfortable with I still feel lonely sometimes.

[Blonde401]

I think that doesn't help, obviously. But I think maybe if I ever found someone who genuinely give a shit about me maybe I wouldn't feel so lonely.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I know you will some day. I don't know what kind of guys are around you but I know there's gotta be one out there somewhere. It sounds cliché but I believe in it.

[Blonde401]

I really don't ever see that happening. Some of us are just used up and trash and unwanted. It's fine. We can't all have what we want and we have to count our blessings and remember what we do have in life. My life won't be defined by being single.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I still think you deserve to have someone special to be happy with but if you can find happiness being single for as long as you need to then that's also great.

[Blonde401]

I don't know why I deserve it. I don't think I've done anything to deserve anything else as a reward.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Well, I'm just saying, it would be nice for you to have it. I mean you're nice, kind, smart, open minded, communicative, and easy to get along with it. You're a good person who just went through an unfortunate amount of events in relationships.

[Blonde401]

Thank you, that's very kind to say.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

You're welcome and I mean it too.

[LaFemmeFatale]

No obviously

[Eternallylucky]

Id call the cops

[Mostly_Mae]

Noooooe

[Mostly_Mae]

Noooope* lol

[rgb008]

noooooooo

[Anonymous]

I find it hot

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Cool. What do you find hot about it?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe because he show dominance, when people yell / get angry, I stay quiet and wait for them to calm down.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Oh, so you must be submissive.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I'm

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Nice.

[Anonymous]

No its scary