When a woman's shoe is loose and dangling from her toes?

[LindsayRB91rds]

Okay, so I said something in a response which started a conversation about women who dangle their shoes from their toes. I tend to do it without realizing it and apparently some guys think it's a turn on. I had never heard of that before, so...

What do you guys think when you see a woman with her legs crossed, one foot off the ground and her shoe (pump, flat, heel, whatever) hanging from her toes? Girls, if you do this to, or see other women doing it, how do you think the guys around are reacting?

Thanks. Rather than answer my question, the poster of the other question suggested I ask y'all.

I've never noticed

I've seen it and didn't think twice about it

I've seen this and I give her a second, or third glance

I've seen this and I try not to stare

I've seen this, she caught me watching and smiled at me

She's doing it to get attention. Why doesn't she just wear hiking boots so her shoes don't fall off?

Other (please explain below)

[kenworth]

If a lady is wearing a dress. Some formal type gown or dress of some style. there are simply to many types for this guy to remember. Plus she is wearing heels and is dangling one that will draw my attention to her foot which then hopefully she is wearing pantyhose then that will draw my gaze up her legs. which is usually just about the time she notices looking I shoot her a smile and hope she returns the smile. if she dose that's when is approach her and see if she wouldike to dance. It has worked a few times at weddings. I think ladies might do it without giving it much thought. but it is a good way to grab a guys attention. if a guy is looking to wet someone that's something which can tip the scales in your favor

[hero-hero]

Huh , So you are turning guys on even with things you do unconsciously ! You should celebrate it then :P !

[LindsayRB91rds]

So it seems, yes. I don't mean to and now I'm really conscious of everything I do with my feet.

[hero-hero]

Lol , I don't think it turns all guys on and it is not your problem any way , right? I guess a guy needs to be so horny for it to work?

[LindsayRB91rds]

Just about anything is a turn on for someone. My eyes have been opened and I now know that shoe play is a hot button for some guys. If my shoes falling off makes someone smile, then that's how it is, I guess.

For guys that are turned on by things, I don't think that have to be horny to get interested. I understand that and it's fine with me. :) I just never knew about the shoes.

[hero-hero]

Well , may be you are right on that one :) .. So stop turning guys on ! It is not a game :P

[LindsayRB91rds]

From now on it's old worn out army boots for me. No more pumps. :)

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[hero-hero]

Lol , yea. be merciful on poor guys who can't resist you ;)

[blackcyborg]

For me though, I would find it really cute as I find certain girls shoes to be cute and attractive (e. g. ballet flats or wedges). :)

[highheelswearer]

So LindsayRB91rds, it's been a while since you posted this question. Update us, are you still dangling? I do it regularly and find it fun to do and love to tease. If you've become self-conscious about it, I suggest breaking out of it and wear a pair of high heels out and sit on a park bench and put on a show. You can do it! :-)

[blackcyborg]

@highheelswearer Out of curiosity, do you also wear ballet flats? =)

[highheelswearer]

@blackcyborg No ballet flats. Stilettos 100% of the time!

[Rockfan80]

Its not unconsciously at all

[SnapDragon]

I've done this without giving it much thought at first and then on a couple of occasions I noticed men looking and getting into it. I think a foot fetish is pretty common now and if I get a guy watching me dangle my show off of my toes I'll give him a little show. I'll dangle for a bit to tease him and then drop my shoe off of my toes to let him see my toes and feet. Once he got a good look I'll slide my shoe back on slowly and give him a nice little smile.

[Jude_Wills]

Turning on guys unconsciously 😂😂

[blackcyborg]

I think shoe dangling for girls is really cute. :)

[Quitshoeplay55]

Do not shoeplay please don't shoeplay I'm begging please stop shoeplay

[highheelswearer]

For me, I am very aware I'm doing it and I do it to tease. I find guys glue their eyes to my feet when I dangle, especially because I wear 5 inch stiletto heels. It's fun to do, especially when you know you have an admirer! I've also let my stiletto "accidentally" drop to the floor and that definitely gets their attention! Lots of fun :-)

[Avneo]

Lol... It's a catfish, a pickup line. if someone likes a girl then he like almost everything about that girl, weather shoe dangling or adjusting short top. Some over creative guys discovered this shoe dangling thing and trying to trend it, and some people found it interesting and trending it. That is it

[LindsayRB91rds]

So you don't think it's something that a lot of guys dig? Personally I hadn't seen any reaction and wasn't aware I do it. Of course now I am but I stop - and haven't noticed anyone at work giving my foot a second look.

[Avneo]

Nope lol... my parents consider it a bad habit and used to scold me a lot for shaking legs while sitting, and it's against office decorum as well, as it distract others and reflects that he isn't concentrating.
but it's sure if someone has a crush on you then he would love it definitely...

[LindsayRB91rds]

I got in trouble fidgeting in places like church. Guys don't usually have shoes that can slip off and dangle though. I don't let mine slip loose on purpose, but when you move your foot and relax, it just happens.

[Avneo]

Absolutely, most of the girls do it for comfort (I'm not blaming you for anything, I know you are very nice) . But Everything has purpose, like office code. every subtle code is designed for the purpose, some follow n some doesn't, some gets the promotion and some never know why. But seniors never make it very strict to follow every discipline, as they can't risk to loose an intelligent employee, as they are earning for company. Did you ever notice a difference in behaviour of a vp and a manager? And that behaviour is the key which make them especial...

[shoedanglefan]

I would give it a SECOND, THIRD, FOURTH Look... and THEN some.

[Gazi93]

Can I be friends with you please?

[Hans222]

I voted D. It draws my attention and I like it. To some degree it's a turn on, maybe also because a girl's feet are generally hidden. You're to some degree curious if they look nicely taken care of.
So when occasionally you get to see them they just catch the attention, at least momentarily.

[TisTheTruth]

Ok here's my take on why it turns some guys on. Shoes dangling on toes mostly would mean that the woman is wearing it only because she is expected to. She doesn't enjoy it or rather be barefoot. That is a free, don't-give-a-rats kind of woman. But the fact that she is wearing the show would implicate that she doesn't bring this wild side of her out. She has a secret life. Men find that part attractive

[LindsayRB91rds]

Wow, have you met me? I don’t-give-a-rats about most things,

I honestly don’t do shoe play for any reason and since posting this a long time back I've managed to stop doing it accidentally. The last thing I need is to be followed home by a bunch of rats. :)

[TisTheTruth]

Oh I didn't mean you play with the shoe to seduce boys. You play with your shoe because you'd rather be barefoot. You like feeling things under your sole. You like air on your feet. That's all.
It's the boys who find such women attractive

[LindsayRB91rds]

I have flat feet so I’m rarely barefoot. I do enjoy the air rather than the confinement of a business pump though. I've met many boys here who insist I did it to tease and are turned on by it. Prior to being on this site I had no idea.

I also think some of it is/was boredom so it was a bit like doodling or playing with your fingers during meetings.

[TisTheTruth]

Naturally... I think you should be comfortable. What others make of it can't be your fault. I don't think you should bother with it too much. You be yourself

[LindsayRB91rds]

Thanks. I don’t fret over it and hadn’t given this much thought before you found this old question from years ago. I don’t like to send false messages but I also don’t like clammy feet. :)

[BuilderMike87]

I would not say that I have a foot fetish at all. However, this is one look tha will still catch my eye. I would add that what she is wearing and what kind of shoe it is determines how well she hooks my attention. A girl in pants and wearing flats is cute and would catch my attention, I would glance a couple of times. However a girl in a skirt or dress wearing heels is going to hold my attention. She will probably catch me staring.

[shoedanglefan]

You keep DANGLING YOUR SHOE... and I'll keep LOVING... and APPLAUDING... and THANKING YOU... and being happy 'cause I KNOW you are SOING IT AGAIN and AGAIN... and wait to see Facebook pics of your INCREDIBLE DANGLING. (Does THAT about Cover It? )

[TruthOfCoral]

I've never noticed that XD generally when I look at a gal I see her face instead of her cliff hanging shoes

[jammcm]

Men are attracted to many things about a woman. I have had a thing for women / girls feet most of my life. A foot slipping out of a shoe will always draw my attention. I will keep watching as long as I can.

[MovesLikeJagger]

It's always hawt... I love it. I think a lot of women do it unconsciously.

[D_Bone_Steak]

If a chick is sexy... her having sex with an animal gets my dick hard.

[BasicFlake]

I'm not particularly into feet and so it would have zero effect on me.

[Anonymous]

If a lady is going to get in bed, the first thing she probably does is take off her shoes. I see a woman with one shoe loosened and I think, "Maybe she is 'hot to trot!'"

[Nik1hil]

That is one of the Sexier things she can do if she has beautiful feets

[Siavash_1990]

Foot-Fetish guys are finally coming out of the closet! And yes, it is very sexy but only when one while you wear high-heels

[LindsayRB91rds]

It seems that everyone and anyone is coming out of the closet now. With this new attitude that anything is okay, all sorts of interesting games and fetishes seem to be popping up.

[Siavash_1990]

So so so true! Some are ashamed to admit their fetishes but once they see others doing it, they'll open up about it.

[Jude_Wills]

I seen that many times and love it. It really arouse me when see girls feet. Honestly I am arousing reading ur question. I can't explain how I feel when girls playing with their feet.

[shoedanglefan]

It arouses me, too. EVERY SINGLE TIME.

[DanRingwood42]

I can honestly say that I love when a woman dangles a shoe off of her foot. I find it extremely sexy. I don't care what type of shoe it is, flats or heels, if a woman is dangling her shoe, she will have my undivided attention.

[HFPrankster]

Highly sexy. Calls attention to your arches and makes people think about your toes.

[Kevin11231999]

Not huge into feet but I suppose it would be attractive if the right girl was doing it!

[Red88xxx]

I don't mind. Does that happen to you a lot?

[LindsayRB91rds]

My shoes always fall off at the heel so they tend to hang pretty often. I hardly realize I'm doing it and haven't noticed anyone watching. In that other question I said that and now I'm really self conscious about my shoes...

[Red88xxx]

Don't be self conscious (: I've had worse things to happen to me. Is it embarrassing?

[LindsayRB91rds]

No, not at all. I didn't know that some guys were turned on by it and I certainly never intended to tease guys in coffee shops and stuff with my feet.

[Red88xxx]

I wanted to ask you can I message you? I like making new friends on here

[LindsayRB91rds]

Sure. I'm headed to bed now but I'll check tomorrow.

[Quitshoeplay55]

Do not shoeplay with any shoes no reason to its pointless to do and wrecks your shoes

[blackcyborg]

@LindsayRB91rds
I do find it cute when a girl plays or dangles with her shoe... especially if the girl wears flats or wedge shoes :)

[jman46241]

Never noticed. Feet aren't my thing..

[F1Mad39]

Remember you yelling me about this Lindsay :)

[Quitshoeplay55]

Do not shoeplay. Girls know if they do it

[Anonymous]

foot fetishists like this

[Anonymous]

I couldn't care any less

[jjj101010]

I like it. It’s sexy

[Razal]

Hardly ever noticed.