Sometimes she acts like she likes me, and sometimes she doesn't. Does she?

[Anonymous]

We've always been close friends. Recently I started liking her. She really started acting like she likes me about a week ago. She started texting and snapchatting me from sun up to sun down. She kept making jokes about us having sex, and kept asking me to come over. Now all of a sudden she's ignoring me. I don't remember doing anything to upset her. Does she not like me anymore, or does she like me and she's just playing some mind game or something? What should I do? Should I just wait until she talks to me first?

[Anonymous]

oh gezz.. you are under 18, maybe you haven;t seen this tht much.

you are in deep doodoo. prepare for the possiblity this won;t end well.

she is baiting you, hot and cold, baiting you with carrot on the line (sex to be more accurate).

i tell you if you deal with too many girls t hat do this withing a short time you can go insane!

but trust me not all girls do these games. you need to find yourself a girl that doesn't do this preferably more than o ne to make you feel l ike you for option and to calm yourself fromm this insanity of sort.

she clearly willing to risk friendship if she does this. don;t let her get the bes tof you. just think with friends like this, who needs enemies.

[writikaa]

No... no mind games here. So she gave you pretty serious hints... and I am not sure if you acted on them or not. So she loved you up for a week and then ignoring you next... well that's her new tactic to get your attention. if you Still don't give her the attention she wants... well then.. may be... she will. move on.

[Asker]

I did act on her hints. We are really close. She has always gotten all the attention she's ever needed from me. She started talking to me more today, but not hardcore flirting like the other day. So what should I do now?

[writikaa]

Is she moody... hmm.

anyways if I was acting on and off... I would do it for two reasons. one, I just do it when I enjoy it and don't encourage otherwise... this is me being a jerk...

and second is... well she wants you to come after her.. it's like hot and cold from her. she gives you the good treatment and suddenly cuts you off. if she is doing it intentionally.. definitely she wants you behind her... may be she's into getting the boys do the begging...

[emerald77]

Sounds like she's playing games. Not worth it

[Anonymous]

She's playing games. Stay away from her.