My girlfriend jokes about me talking to other girls and then says she's joking?

[Anonymous]

Basically whenever I'm not around her or I tell her I went somewhere she's been recently making jokes about me texting or chatting to other girls.
I started a new job yesterday and while on the phone with her, she heard a female colleague whispering to me in the background. Later when I went to see my girl she made a joke about finding a work wife or some shit.

It's like being accused but then if I respond annoyed she says she's joking. Why does she think I'm cheating? There's no legit reason why...
I asked her what her issue is she said it's funny. The thing is I'm a chilled dude and because there's no issues in our relationship she wants to start drama?
Also I've been withdrawn lately because of work stress. Is this attention seeking or what?

[Suchismita]

Listen... U r over thinking about a small issue... The matter isn't as big as u r thinking...
She is just being funny and casual... Sometimes being serious is boring...
So its her way to find some fun
What u can do about this stuff is... U can just do the same. To. Her... I bet she won't feel strange... Instead u both will have fun!!!

[Jamesgoldrich]

In my case, she doesn’t like when i ask it back. She asks throughout the day when im working, “wyd? Are you with your girlfriend”. She calls me “mijo” or “dude” or “yo”, but when i call her mija, dude, or yo she doesn’t like it and tells me not to.

I have expressed that I don’t like those things either but she continues to do it anyway. So i ignore. But when i ignore she keeps pressing asking “are you with your girlfriend?” Or “are you busy with your girlfriend” while im in meetings. If i ignore further she continues with “is it true? It must be true if you're not responding”.

Im very annoyed and sick of it but and i dont know what to call it. Jealously? Manipulative? Those dont seem quite right. But she stirs up things until i get upset and then asks “whats your problem?” Or “Why are you upset or annoyed?”

[izzie_morris]

You need to talk to her about it, all girls are different and I'm sure she's doing this to get your attention so that you'll talk to her about it.

[19magic]

my parents do this all the time it's just a joke, my friends who are in relationships joke about guys or gals

[BronzedAdonis]

she's clearly worried you have hoes in other area codes

[misskittycat420]

Maybe she thinks you talk to other girls or she's not interested in you? I don't know to be honest because I don't know her and if I knew her I would know what the answer would be

[rgb008]

she's worried you'll meet another woman and leave her.

[QueenofCups]

She may just have a pointed sense of humor.