I hate my body so much. How can I build my self image? (Page 2)

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I'm a 17 year old girl and I can't stand my body. I'm 5'1 and about a size 0. but I hate it. I have no assets. I'm flat. (32A), have a flat stomach, no hips,weird fat butt, big thighs, and short legs. I wish I was slim with an hour glass figure and long legs, but instead I look like a boy. I've tired gaining weight and it doesn't work for me. I've only been with one guy and he said he liked my body but I don't believe him. He said he liked smaller boobs, but he dumped me a few days after he went up my shirt. He told me that he didn't want a girlfriend at the moment. I've been told I have  nice butt, but it's just flabby. I can't tone it no matter what. I work out, but my legs get the definition, not my butt. I want to like my body but it's so hard. I feel like no guys will ever like me because of my body. Please help me.

KaitlynV · Answer

You should feel absolutely stunning, you want to know why? Your the only person in the world that looks and acts exactly like you. You are one of a kind! Be proud of that. I don't know if you are religous or not, but I believe God made you exactly how he wanted you to look. You are perfect. Don't rely on other people to make you feel beautiful, you need to do that yourself. If someone doesn't find you attractive, that's their problem. I'm sure way more people find you attractive then you think.

theville · Answer

Eat more and put on some pounds then your body would be better - also 32A - eat and gain weight and they will also gain some weight.. Good luck - just be happy you are not fat!

SerenityB · Answer

My friend says run a mile everyday it tones you in all the right places (;, but I say smaller boobs are better I hate lugging around boobs I'm a DD I hate it! Just think there is always gonna be somebody wanting your body instead of theirs when I think of that it makes me feel better about myself.

DoubleO7 · Answer

Holly had no clue skinny people would feel this way about their body. I personally am a size D and hate it..they sometimes can hurtt your back, get in your way, and be the only thing a guy see's in u.

I personally would look into your body type...sounds like you are a pear shape. This means you onl;y gain weight in your butt. I would suggest leg lunges. They kill my butt. I bet you money though your not even 10% bad as your making youslef out to be.

Good luck!

SpArRoW2978 · Answer

the best medicine is girl talk. get together some girlfriends and talk they will tell you what to do! If you have one, talk to your boyfriend or close boy friend and ask him.

Anonymous · Answer

your butt shouldn't be fat and your thighs shouldn't be big if your size 0...i'm the same height. you're skinny. you just look like a guy. nbd.. tons of bigger girls would rather be like that than how they are now.

GirlsGetBoners · Answer

32A isn't flat! I'm 36A, but still... try wearing a push up bra. You have to accept who you are, or no one will accept you. Confidence in a girl is sexy hun ;)

TayTay39 · Answer

32A is not flat! Do you HAVE to where a bra? You are NOT flat! I'm 34A and I don't think of myself as "flat" because I'm not.  And I'm 5 1 and weird shaped too, I guess we just have to live with it

Lockjawx27 · Answer

you have to love yourself, or else no one will. Just appreciate what you have.

moooooni · Answer

i would say that have intercourse twice a week and ask your man to press you from all over specially boobs and butts .. it will workk. gradually.

Vieanna · Answer

You're not done growing. You'll grow into your body, just wait.

Anonymous · Answer

close your eyes...keep your right hand on your heart...and say ALL IZZ WELL!... keep saying it quite a few times...u'll feel better...

Cowardscrossplanet · Answer

You actually would've been considered as the "ideal body type" in the 20s, 60s and 70s

Anonymous · Answer

just have self confidence and believe in yourself, except yourself for who you are because it's what's on the inside that counts and some guy will someday understand that

yoshidreamland · Answer

You sound like you do have a good body. I think you are just very hard on yourself.

human_condition · Answer

Eat something and become a healthy weight.

oliviamerino · Answer

guys will like u. have you tried a healthy diet?

BassPlayer · Answer

pics or it ain't true, lol

nikkibby · Answer

workout or do tumbling..that might help.

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