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Opinions over looks are subjective. I think I'm nothing special to look at, my fiancée thinks I'm handsome. Personally, I don't think you look particularly attractive, and I feel that the claim that you are "incredibly good looking" may indicate a narcissistic attitude that may be off putting to women. Not trying to be mean, and I don't know you so I can't say that's the issue.
What I can say is that in my experience as a self assessed not good looking guy who is quantifiable quite overweight, all the women I've dated, skinny, fat, Hollywood style hot, girl next door, and possibly beaten with an ugly stick have all been attracted to my personality, humor, and attitude on life.
If you aren't having any luck with the ladies, don't convince yourself it's because of your good looks. It leads to a very off putting attitude I hear women complain about constantly. I'm an Uber/Lyft driver part-time for the drunk crowd, I hear A LOT of complaints about egotistical guys who are way too self assured.
Try being humble and kind, it makes you approachable. Appropriate and clean humor works well, too. Light hearted sarcasm about situations, not people, can score points as well, if done right.
That's too boring
Therein lies your problem. Are you here to get honest opinions? Or are you looking for someone to validate your opinion so you can feel justified in continuing as you are instead of looking for room for personal growth?
Personal growth is subjective
Always. But it still requires growth and the ability for self reflection, fixing flaws, and being open to new ideas and concepts.
That's self pleasure. Plus very minor and insignificant weight loss with minor cardio.
Lol. Fair point. I would hope more people would deflate their ego through self improvement.
Constructive self destruction or destructive self destruction?
I went through constructed self destruction. A break up nearly destroyed me, so I took it as an opportunity and tore myself further apart. Friends were quite worried about me... I then rebuilt myself, throwing out the bad behaviors I could and adopting new better ones. It took a lot of work, but I liked the new me better, and I made sure I was able to take criticism better, and to learn and grow from experiences, instead of letting them haunt me and slowly eat away at me. I'm still a work in progress years later, but that's a good thing as it means I'll never stop trying to improve myself.
That's a very good point, but how many are capable of full ego death? How many can actually make it through that process without getting lost or losing all hope part way through?
Also, will the OP understand that, given the track record of rejecting or deriding anything remotely cerebral?
Being able to self check is a challenge, but one worth rising to. It's a sign of strength, but the true sign of strength is being able to take what you learn and see during self checks and changing your attitude, outlook, or behavior. Making change is hard, but worth it.
If we don't grow or change, we stagnate and miss out on parts of life we could have experienced if we were more open to change.
That latter part is what I'd be most concerned about.
Can't make an omelet without breaking a few eggs. It works like gambling- most will fail and be consumed, but everyone idolizes those that succeed. It's kinda how humanity has always been most of us are destined to fail. Don't fear death, fear being the same tomorrow as you are today
@LunaJ you're invisible to me
I think at this point it's safe to assume the OP was not earnestly looking for advice, but rather validation of his viewpoints. Possibly even a narcissistic attempt to draw attention to himself.
He has consistently rejected any opinions against viewpoints, and anyone who says something not in line with his view that he is highly attractive and women are intimidated by his looks. He has also consistently insulted or degraded female posters.
Whatever you need to say to cope. You'll never know what it feels like that's for sure.
To be that level of arrogant and overconfident? Probably not, and I'm good with that.
Then move along
Intimidate I don't know. Let me share something. My cousin is a handsome looking young man. Very charming. Almost every girl like him. When we go to market for shopping, old shop ladies give him special discount and always tell him that he's cute he's handsome. I have seen girls getting very nervous and doing the exact opposite of what they want, when they are around him. I am good at reading body language so I can say is that my judgement is very precise.
This is exactly what I'm talking about. It's not uncommon for me to get free stuff or special treatment. I rarely wait in line.
Good for you boy. enjoy the gifts of nature. However as somebody said in Spider-Man movie that with great power comes great responsibility. You are good looking and it would be very nice if you make other people feel better about themselves. People especially girls really like it when a good-looking person pays them a compliment for no reason.
lol this post is an act dude. You seem alright, so I'll be straight up when I say I'm bored and trolling. I'm not actually narcissistic.
It's alright, do what you like. Goodbye
I think that taste in men is all relative... you can't say you are incredibly good-looking. Maybe that's what you think but not others... there's a difference between confidence and a big ego.
I'm so damn good looking and you know it
That's something ugly people say
I hate people with a giant ego
She deactivated lmao
Not at all, probably because I’m not attracted to attractive outward appearance really at all. That’s just me.
That's okay I'm not attracted to you either.
I'd never give her the time of my day
@solidoxe I don't have to watch a movie to know this girl is a thot
@solidoxe I'm gonna get to that water and take a piss in it so no one can drink it
@solidoxe now I'm gonna take a dump in it cause your dunbass won't stop talking
And if your serious then your the type of idiot that id have my brother or boyfriend beat the living crap out of you if you ever tried to ask me out. Happened before to a idiot that was stalking me, can do it again. Ugly as shit and I’m not even saying that because of your HORRENDOUS personality. Your ACTUALLY not attractive at all. Probably really short too 🤢
tldr
I bet you are cracking yourself up you crazy kunt
Incredibly good looking is a subjective term, at least in this case.
Bowling shoes comes to mind
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I love your optimism... but dude... you say you are hot... i don't think you rank higher than a 6 on the scale... hell, i think im ugly and i probably rank higher than you. but like i said... that confidence... i like it.
you got nerve too...
im dying laughing.
I wouldn't know I don't compare myself with other men. That's gay
There is nothing gay about it. If you are secure in your sexuality, then compare away. I think I'm maybe a six. My best friend is an 8 (sorry ladies, he's married), and a co-worker is a solid 11/10, looks AND personality. First time I met him I barely kept my cool and I'm straight! Lol.
@HereBeDragons Hear Hear. Its only closet homos that think comparing is "gay".
@HereBeDragons
First time I met him I barely kept my cool and I'm straight! Lol.
That's the exact thing I'm talking about. I walk into a room and everyone notices.
I notice when overly confident people walk into the room with an annoying swagger. That doesn't mean they are attractive. Try uploading a different photo, one from a more straight on angle than one that lets us see up your nose. That may illicit different advice.
A picture is worth a thousand words. If the words don't seem right, try a different picture.
@HereBeDragons lol wut
@Tdieseler Not necessarily. Men have been conditioned by society to think such things are less than masculine and that makes them gay. It's not a bad thing to be gay, yet many guys feel it still is as they think it emasculates them when it really doesn't. I think it has to do with how gay guys are portrayed as whiny and sissy, when every gay guy I know hates that kind of stereotype.
I wouldn't call him a closet gay. I think he's just scared he'll be looked at as less than a man. Hell, I was like that once and it took me forever to find a way past it and be comfortable in my own skin. Still straight, just with less caring about outside opinions about it.
@Asker First, don't laugh in derision just because you don't understand the meaning of the message. Again, off putting attitude.
Second, if you feel that you aren't getting the advice you are looking for, try uploading a different picture. Your uploaded picture is kind of crappy. It makes you look like you have a narrow head, really wide chin, and oversized lips. Upload a new one from a more flattering angle. Take a mirror selfie so you can get the angle right. Hold the camera at eye level, no angles, no poses, just eye level and take a basic, driver's licence level "boring" photo.
@HereBeDragons 'nuff said. and yea, it took me a while too to get so comfortable in my sexuality. but have you noticed that most men who are scared to do anything remotely sexual near other men are usually closet homos... because its either they have the thought, or are afraid they will like it.
Which like you said, will emasculate or make them feel less manly. Thats bullshit...
I understand the conditioning men go through and i do everything i can to break through it. I also try not to punch people in the face when there's a genuine problem and they tell me to "man up" :)
You two should hold hands and kiss
@Asker And there is that detrimental attitude again. The one that will hold you back on life. If kissing another man will get you to stop and look inward and take a long look at yourself, then fine.
@Tdieseler Pucker up! Lol.
@HereBeDragons lol...
Hmm... think we know why you don't have a girlfriend. Sorry, but you sound like an asshole, you should work on that.
I have several girlfriends. Women love assholes LMAO
Well, congrats, but seriously, don't be a dick
Of course my friend... you look so good that you should be in hollywood. Maybe you are the next Dicaprio or Brad pitt.
You can easily get Nicole Kidman or Scarlett Johansson or even both
Bitch please 😂.
Stop lying.
You are not even close to been good looking.
But who cares, with that attitude and disrespect towards women I don't see you getting women anytime soon anyways.
Even with that Clef pallet? Aka hairlip? My girl thinks you're ugly as a bowling show and I thought you were somebody's sister
Your girl is a tranny
Just because she's got a bigger dick than both of you doesn't make her a tranny
Quit sniffing paint
I mean really, you are joking about being good lookin... I had to write the dragon remark down. That was an intellectual gem there. Not only are you butt ass ugly with a rash you're lame as fuck too. Man I'm sorry... whew
Lol this human cartoon here
It’s not all about looks do you really think that will last long if that’s all you cared about. You gotta have the personality to match, a lot of the ones you are turning down might be the ones that you “fall” for later.
Your update: good looking people can be humble also.
Well you got the confidence but not the boundaries bud. Coming off way too strong.
Incredibly good looking. You look average and have muscles. As minus Points you're a narcisst
I'm not average
In your own perception. People here think something else.
They're just haters
Yeahr and you are just narcisstic.
Yes, but I wouldn’t be intimidated by you. I hope you understand what I’m getting at..
Nope. I don't. I'm hot af
That arrogance is what I think most of us are trying to point out...
BOI if uon get yo big ass lips out my face rn. Got damn big ol' Jay Z lookin ass
I don't think that they're threatened by your looks, but they are off put by your blatant narcissism
You are barely a 3 that's incredible good looking?
This is serious isn't it
Hahahahahahaahahaah good one
Ahahahahaaa 😂😂
Lol I don’t think so
A little bit
What kind of feelings do you get around a very good looking guy?
Shy, blushing a lot
And is that guy in the picture u?
Yeah
I'm not attracted to u like that tho lol
Every girl is
😂😂😂😂
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