Why would a girl ask if I smoked weed?

[Anonymous]

Basically we were talking a lot at work, and she randomly asked in a whisper

[Anonymous]

Honestly hard to tell. She could think it's bad and be lowering her voice because she doesn't want anyone to hear, but in contrast she may smoke too and wondering if you do too. my advice would just be to leave it until you get closer or if you're really curious, just ask her.

[Asker]

Hmmm, definitely didn't want people to hear as we work retail. But she's definitely the type who seems to smoke. She has already said she wants to pick my brain about a topic.

I can probably just ask her next time I drive her home even

[Anonymous]

Smoking's less fun alone! Probably wants to know if you'd join her

[Asker]

True, true. Probably. Just wonder in what context though? Just friends getting stoned? or what?

She has smiled widely at me, and gets wide eyed at some things I say.

Also told me in several occasions that she wants to pick my brain on something.

[Opinion Owner]

Could just be looking for a friend to get stoned with-- possibly more, but sounds pretty innocent so far. I read your long response on another person's comment and the trusting you to driver her home and the political talk-- honestly that all seems very innocent. I trust my guy friends to drive me home all the time and I also love having deep philosophical/whatever talks with them, but they're just really good friends. So I mean to me it just sounds like she's just being friendly? But she could like you too I think you need a little more to go on tho. Get closer to her or if you like her-- ask her out maybe!

[Asker]

Yea, I guess its still iffy on that. Probably just being friendly, but the Halloween thing (First time I spoke to her) or the other stuff prior to the Political stuff. So I don't know. And the Weed thing was maybe the 4th time we spoke. (but we were talking constantly today and yesterday)

[lilaqua]

Maybe she wanted to smoke weed with you or maybe you look stoned?

[Asker]

Probably more of wanting to smoke with me? She does smile almost every time she see's me so there's that. And other stuff

[That1tallguy]

She wants to smoke with you! 9/10 You don't ask someone if you smoke if you don't smoke weed yourself

[Asker]

True, true. Probably. Just wonder in what context though? Just friends getting stoned? or what?

She has smiled widely at me, and gets wide eyed at some things I say.

Also told me in several occasions that she wants to pick my brain on something.

[That1tallguy]

I don't know she might like you and want more. If you think she's cute flirt with her and see how she responds

[Asker]

Possibly. I don't know, I'll see what happens. I posted a longer summary of everything in a different question, because, well, overthinking sucks.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2743630-what-kinda-feel-do-you-get-from-how-she-s-acting-with-me-where-to

[Iamaguy4real]

Who knows, maybe She's against it & wanted to see if you're like a guy who does.

[Asker]

Meh, I just said I don't and am indifferent. But she's definitely the type to smoke.

[Iamaguy4real]

*she's

[Trust_]

She can smell it on you. She wanted to smoke with you.

[Asker]

I don't smoke, so there definitely wasn't the smell. I'm not opposed to it though

But yea, probably wanted to smoke with me.

[Trust_]

If you don't mind smoking I'm sure this can lead to more.

[Asker]

I definitely dont mind, I just never have.

And she's already been mentioning picking my brain, so there's that too

[Sweet_Tina]

Probably wants to smoke with you!

[Asker]

True, true. Probably. Just wonder in what context though? Just friends getting stoned? or what?

She has smiled widely at me, and gets wide eyed at some things I say.

Also told me in several occasions that she wants to pick my brain on something.

[Sweet_Tina]

Well, obviously you think she likes you haha. Just smoke with her and find out!

[Asker]

Meh, I don't really smoke any way. Though, I am not opposed to it, sooo Yea

[Lumberman53]

Maybe she wants to toke with you

[Asker]

True, true. Probably. Just wonder in what context though? Just friends getting stoned? or what?

She has smiled widely at me, and gets wide eyed at some things I say.

Also told me in several occasions that she wants to pick my brain on something.

[Lumberman53]

She might want to be friends but it's possible she likes as more than a friend you by what you're describing

[Asker]

there's a fair bit more I didn't add there

So, last week she commented on each thing I was buying, asked what I was reading, and said she's gonna have to pick my brain on Anarchism as she's a Marxist, and Im well, and Anarchist. And as I approached her register, she looked straight at me and smiled very clearly at me. Then we kinda joked about how our work is rabidly anti-Union

Also, the girl did actually ask if I had Halloween plans a couple weeks ago. And basically said I can do something the weekend before when I mentioned I was working that day.
And then this today
Meh, yea. Marxist again mentioned needing to pick my brain on a certain subject and to borrow books. But also that she rather noth just purely read them,

[Lumberman53]

well with the whole Marxist context then maybe she's interested in talking about politics if she's so passionate

[Asker]

I don't know, the first thing with Halloween happened before she knew my views. And that she was already smiling a lot and asking questions and making comments before that too.

[Lumberman53]

Then she probably likes you

[Asker]

I guess, and there's also the fact that she trusts me enough to drive her home. So there's that to.

But yea... Weirdish

[Lumberman53]

Yeah it is a little odd but still

[Asker]

Yea, meh, I guess Ill ask to hang out outside of work and see what happens

[Lumberman53]

Good Luck