Yikes not for long though in the pic it looks like he isn't applying all his weight so as not to crush her.
This guy has a bony butt but padded thighs might help.
I had have an ex 2.5 times my weight that didn't believe he could lay his dead body weight on me and have me still be able to breath.
It was actually a really big fear of his in general. That he'd crush a girl. He wasn't obese he was just strong and thick.
I made him flop on top of me with all his weight for a minute 60 seconds to show I could breath so he wouldn't be afraid he would crush me.
He was an engineer and noted I do yoga and have intense core strength so most women that didn't he would suffocate.
TBH with dead body weight of over 250 lbs on me I did need my abs to breath. His pecks were closer to my neck than mine and I had to breath from my diaphragm.
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this is actually a common occurance for me. it's not a big deal I mean we're friends and it isn't like it's a sexual advance he's literally just sitting down. I sit on my friends lap when there are no more seats so it would be unfair to not let them do the same to me.
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No, guys are too fucking heavy. He can stand.
I guess not but the other way around makes more sense
No I don’t mind I’ve had it happen to many times before my friends and I really weird and when there’s not enough room we usually sit or lay on each other’s laps and be as weird as possible about it
Definitely not, this is a causal occurrence between my friends and I. We often run out of seats and have to squish together, and as far as i'm aware none of us mind or even think about it.
Lol nahhhhh. I wouldn't be mad. It's fine. I wouldn't wanna sit on a guys' lap other than my boyfriend. But if a guy sits on my lap. I have no problem!
It makes me feel compressed so feeling is uneasy...
It happened sometimes, like at a party when a guy sat on me making a joke and I didn't say anything just smile awkwardly, but my friends know me so they told him to move
When I was little little, a boy sat on me and didn't want to move, it made me cry, then the teacher came and made the boy goI mean I'm a small person, so as long as they don't hurt me it's all good. My guy friends have done it before
I am short so usually no one in general sits on my lap lol.. but If I was in that situation, I wouldn't mind since they are a close friend.
no I wouldn´t mind if he´s a close, friendzoned friend. It´s only getting uncomfortable if he´s having intentions.
I like that feeling, my ex used to do that all the time. If I had a very close guy friend I wouldn't mind.
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