Girls, would you mind if a close guy friend sat on your lap if there were no more chairs left? Would you push him off or let him sit?

[sarahsan]

Has this happened before? Tell me about your experiences?

[hellodaisy]

I've already answered this, but from a male, on an old account. Perhaps search your question first before posting.
Yes, it has happened before and I did not push them off.

[sarahsan]

I see lol follow me on Instagram sarahsan93 thanks for your opinion!

[hellodaisy]

I don't have instagram.

[sarahsan]

So lets say there are two situations:

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

[hellodaisy]

I've already answered you. I'm fine with it.

[Majesty101]

Lmao😂😂 Of course!!😄😝 But we have to be like best friends for me to allow that lol😂 But yea, I wouldn't mind!!

[sarahsan]

Damn girl I love your answer
So lets say there are two situations:

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

would it be different if a girl-friend was sitting on your lap and why? Have both guy friends and girl-friends sat on your lap before?

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[Majesty101]

Those are pretty interesting scenarios lol😂😂 1. I wouldn't even mind😄 I am very chill about things. 2. I would let him sit in my chair and then sit on his lap😂😜lol

[LilithBaby]

I think that if you're single hundred percent no question as long as you are truly friends with the person then you don't mind go ahead and let them. If you're taken then assess whether or not that person would upset your significant other to sit on your lap. For example do you have a history? If not then it's probably okay. It's just as long as you're comfortable and if someone else is going to get upset about it as long as they're comfortable. It's a situation by situation kind of thing.

[sarahsan]

Nice I love your answer :)
So lets say there are two situations (if you are single):

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

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[sarahsan]

would it be different if it was a girl-friend in this position or does gender not matter to you?

[LilithBaby]

I don't think gender matters to me in this situation. And I'm a weirdo I usually give up my seat and sit on the floor all the time anyways no matter where I am.

[sarahsan]

so what would you do in both situations:

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

[riverplate7]

I think i would trade him spots. i would want him sitting on my lap but i could sit on his. of course hte most practical would be if he just takes his own seat

[sarahsan]

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[toby7116]

let him sit or maybe say you're bigger sit an ill sit on you, if he's a close friend i dont see a problem with it

[sarahsan]

So lets say there are two situations (if you are single):

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

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[toby7116]

okay the first situation i would not think its "weird" i would probably laugh and somehow move over and share it or sit on him if he was bigger than me but not weird at all..

second situation i would probably ask if he wanted to share the seat somehow

[SarahVanRensburg]

This question has been asked a few times🤔🤔
But yes I would

[sarahsan]

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but you said yes you would what?

So lets say there are two situations:

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

[SarahVanRensburg]

My friends wouldn’t need permission, it’s fine and it’s not harming anyone.
If a friend were just standing from no seats left, then I’d ask him if he’d like to sit and then I’d sit on his lap

[sarahsan]

so if there are no seats your guy friends are allowed to sit on your lap without your permsission? So If a guy friend came up to you and sat on your lap you wouldn't find it weird? what would you do?

Will you let them sit on you even if there are seats left?

also how do you handle their weight? Do they normally sit with their hand or full weight on you? If it was more comfortable for them to do full-weight would you let them?

[sarahsan]

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[valrealdeal]

All of my guy friends sat on me at least once. It's chill

[sarahsan]

your really cute also

I have a few other questions:

would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?

Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you (your permission)?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?

So lets say there are two situations:

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

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[boston96]

Never had it happen but I'd probably give him my chair and squeeze with one of my girls

[sarahsan]

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So lets say there are two situations:

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

[boston96]

Thirsty much?

[cynicaltj]

I'm kinda small. I'd just stand and let him have the seat.

[sarahsan]

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[LuvAsh]

Well that has never happened to me. I guess i would either just share the seat, sit on their lap orrrrr i guess let them sit on my lap lol

[sarahsan]

Nice I love your answer
So lets say there are two situations:

what if the chair was built where you couldn't really share it?

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

Have your girl-friends sat on your lap before?

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[LuvAsh]

For the first question, I would be okay with it, I would joke around with him since thats kinda how i am anyways lol. For the second one, I don't know.. i would ask him if he wants to share my seat or ask if he wants to sit down with me and share my seat in the first place because he might just want to stand. And yeah i've had friends and my younger sister sit on my lap. The reason why my sis had to sit on my lap the last time is because we were in a trolly at a theme park and it started raianing real hard and i was getting soaking wet lol So i scooted over and had my sister sit on my lap lol :) I hope you have a wonderful day!

[sarahsan]

I see and thanks when are times your friends have sat on your lap? Can you give me some specific examples?

[sarahsan]

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[LuvAsh]

Just to do it😂 no real reason u know lol. But i probably wouldn't let someone sit on my lap if they are a lot bigger than me because my legs would start hurting😂😂

[sarahsan]

so if a close guy friend sat on your lap just to do it you wouldn't mind?

[LuvAsh]

It depends on when and where

[LuvAsh]

But at the same time, that is kinda weird for a guy to sit on my lap😂😂

[Rebecca_Tonkin]

I'd let him sit but it would probably be the other way around 😉

[sarahsan]

I see

So lets say there are two situations:

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

would it be different if a girl-friend was sitting on your lap and why? Have both guy friends and girl-friends sat on your lap before?

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[Rebecca_Tonkin]

Without permission would be a little weird but it would depend on how close we are etc... and if he'd laugh about it or something I'd be okay with it.

2) I would ask him if he wants to sit down and help him find a chair or something. If he asks if he can sit on my lap or if I want to sit on his that's fine.

Usually it's my sister who sits on my lap or vice versa haha

[sarahsan]

oh lol how old is your sister?

[sarahsan]

and who else besides your sister?

[sarahsan]

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[Rebecca_Tonkin]

She's 15, I'd let both guy-/ girl friends sit on my lap lol... it's not a big deal I guess

[sarahsan]

I see if you guys are very close and comfortable is he allowed/ are you okay with him sitting on your lap without your permission?
If he did sit on your lap without your permissions and you guys were very close and comfortable would you find it weird or no?

Would you let your girl-friends sit on your lap without your permission?

[Rebecca_Tonkin]

1. Yes if we are very close.

2. If I'm comfortable I wouldn't find it weird.

3. That again depends on how close we are.

[lydiahtml]

I wouldn't mind. My friend who's a guy did that even when there were chairs.

[sarahsan]

your really cute also

I have a few other questions:

would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?

Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you (your permission)?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?

So lets say there are two situations:

1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?

2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?

[lydiahtml]

Haha thanks and

I wouldn't really offer my lap, and if he sat in my lap and we were close enough, I would hug him. I wouldn't mind if a guy friend sat in my lap without permission. And it wouldn't really be different with a girl for me bc I'm bi so yeah. 😂
I would find it weird at first, but then I would be okay with it.
I probably wouldn't do anything.

[sarahsan]

if you wouldn't offer how would you know he is ok with sitting on your lap?

If he asked what would you do or say?
Also why wouldn't you mind if he sat on your lap without your permission?

"You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission" so if a close guy friend did this you wouldn't mind.

You also said it would be weird at first why? would it be weird at first if a girl-friend sat on your lap as well?

also do your girl-friends sit on your lap often?

[lydiahtml]

I wouldn't know. If he was okay with it, he would. If he wasn't, he wouldn't. If he asked I would say sure. My friend who did it and I are my close so yeah I wouldn't mind. It would be weird because someone is sitting on your lap. People don't usually do that to me. 😂 And yeah, it kind of would.

[sarahsan]

no I asked if you wouldn't offer how would he know that you are ok with him sitting on your lap?

[lydiahtml]

Oh okay and the guys I know don't usually ask, so yeah. But I mean I guess if he sat in your lap and you don't react, that means you're okay with it.

[sarahsan]

when your friend did sit on your lap did you hug him and when you hugged him where did you put your arms around?

Will you usually hug him for the whole time he is on your lap?
Also when you friend sat on your lap when there were chairs where were you guys? How long did he sit on your lap for and what were you doing? How did he approach you?

[sarahsan]

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[lydiahtml]

He didn't sit in my lap long enough for me to hug him, but if he did, I would put my arm around his stomach. I would hug him the whole time. We were in the theatre that we were doing our play at. I was talking to his sister and he sat in my lap for a few seconds. He just walked up to me and sat in my lap. 😂 And I don't have Instagram. 😭

[sarahsan]

I see so if he sits on your lap again would that be fine? At the theatre would you have let him sat on your lap longer if he wanted to? How long would you have let him sit on your lap?

Would you hug him more loosely or tightly, and why would you hug him and other close friends if they sit on your lap? When will you start hugging him, and when do you stop? Will him and a close friend always get hugged when they sit on your lap?

If he asks to sit on your lap will you hug him? if he sits on your lap without your permission will you hug him also?
Is he allowed to sit on your lap even if there are chairs left and would you hug him them? How about if the chairs are taken?

so if he asks you would let him sit on your lap and if he sit on your lap without your permission you would be okay with that so I'm guessing you would allow him to sit on your lap whenever he feels like it? Why?

[sarahsan]

I love your answers so try to put a lot of information

[sarahsan]

also if you were talking to friends and sitting he didn't have a seat would he be allowed to just sit on your lap? If so would you hug him?

[lydiahtml]

Yeah it would be fine. Yes. He could sit in my lap as long as he wanted to. I would hug him more loosely. It would be kind of awkward just sitting there with your arms by your side while someone is sitting in your lap in my opinion. I start hugging him when he sits down and I stop when he wants to get up. Yes. I love hugs. Lol.
Yes. When anyone is in my lap, I hug them. Yes. Yeah I don't mind if anyone sits on my lap, and when they do, I hug them. Yes.
Yes. I'm the kind of person that just doesn't mind people sitting in my lap.

Lol thank you and okay.

Yeah if I'm close enough to the person, I don't mind them sitting in my lap whenever, and when they do, I hug them.