Do women like it when men stare at their ass?

[PaganGod]

If not, then why do they wear tight jeans which are really uncomfortable or leggings which can easily be replaced by baggier jogging pants which are way more comfortable too. Explain please.

I love it when men stare at my ass

I hate it when men stare at my ass

[Ellaki]

They don't wear these clothes to make boys stare at their behind, if that's what you mean. They wear them cause they just freaking feel like it. Not everything revolves around you. Girls can chose to wear whatever they like, whether it's a tight jeans that shows off their body shape. Most girls don't like it a lot when boys stare at her butt, unless the boy is someone she cares about/ likes. Some days we may choose to wear baggy pants cause we want to or we may wear the tightest and shortest dress in the market. Usually that doesn't mean we need your attention and that we crave it.

[PaganGod]

I sense cognitive dissonance since fashion revolves around other people's opinions on the wearer.

[Ellaki]

Fashion doesn't only revolve around others opinions but it is also a way to express yourself and feel good with yourself.

[PaganGod]

Expressing yourself so others can see.

[Ellaki]

Expressing myself not so that others can see. I couldn't care less about what horny guys think. I do it because I want to feel good about myself, show my personality, feel comfortable and happy with myself and my body. I express myself through clothing because I want to improve myself. It's a completely different thing when you wear clothes to impress. Honestly, we do both, depending on how we feel like. But the reason behind the way we dress isn't always that we crave your attention and likeness.

[PaganGod]

Then why dont you wear the same clothes at home? If it's not people you're out to impress

[Ellaki]

Because IF I WANT TO FEEL FREAKING COMFORTABLE, I WEAR PYJAMAS AND BAGGY CLOTHES. IF I WANT TO FEEL SEXY AND GOOD ABOUT MYSELF I WEAR SOMETHING ELSE. I WEAR WHATEVER TF I WANT NOT BECAUSE SOME HORNY GUYS WILL STARE AT ME BUT BECAUSE ME MYSELF AND I WILL FILL CONTENT WITH MYSELF AND HAPPY. ITS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU, TRY TO GET THAT IN YOUR STUBBORN HEAD.

[Ellaki]

I may as well go to school with a plastic bag around my body if that's what I want and makes me feel good.

[PaganGod]

Forget this question. How are you doing today

[Ellaki]

Well that escalated quickly

[PaganGod]

Lmao

[Lovebuns]

Yes, some female friends of mine always check to make sure ending a conversation expecting me to look... but these are emotionally mature older women. I think the younger gernerations are scared to step out of the femanist nazi roles😉. Got to love the older free willed ladies

[Schakadoodle]

Yes and thats what Pagangod is saying. There is a reason why you‘re feeling comfortable at home, and are feeling “sexy” when you’re out. Cus there's people who is watching you

[Schakadoodle]

You would never dress up if you just stayed at home, and you would never go out with a plastic bag around your body, wtf

[Notitle]

And a boy can stare wherever he wants just for a few seconds. No one can decide where a boy looks at

[Notitle]

Fashion actually revolves around others' opinions

[Notitle]

If you don't need attention what's the point of wearing the tightest and shortest dress in the market?

[Oceania]

If they are your partner then by all means appreciate. If it's a stranger personally it's just uncomfortable to be under scrutiny. If you're my friend (girl), y'all are just like 'yes giirl😂'). Leggings are pretty comfortable and the tight jeans I have are comfortable (they're not the 'I can't bend over'). We wear them because they look nice and so you feel nice. It can be argued that if I look nice I want to be looked at but it's really a thing of, if you're cat calling and just being rude then it feels uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

I just have a big butt and i like wearing big sweatshirts so if i wear baggy pants and a sweatshirt together i look like a scrub, so i wear tightish pants with my sweatshirts. Plus baggy pants just feel weird on your ankles like you feel it on your ankles throughout the day and its annoying. I hate wearing tight pants too though bc i always feel like someone's looking at my butt or something even though theyre probably not... pants in general suck but skirts and dresses are worse so it'll be okay haha

[readywriter]

Yea but do you like men noticing?

[Opinion Owner]

@readywriter no

[LyricalBehavior96]

Can I get to know you?

[kaylaS91]

No.
There's no excuse for a man to stare at a woman's ass for prolonged periods of time, regardless of what she's wearing.

If you feel like her wearing leggings/tight jeans is reason enough for you to lose control of your ability to practice self-control, you should put yourself on house arrest and go see a mental health professional.

[D4NTH3M4N217]

What's mental about looking at a girls ass, by no way am I saying that it's right but there's no harm done, most men won't act on that instinct. I could see a nice ass for a glimpse then look away because that's just inappropriate but just because I looked doesn't mean that I am going to do anything. It's just a bit harsh for something that's common and it doesn't have a negative impact on anyone really

[kaylaS91]

@D4NTH3M4N217
there's nothing wrong with looking at a girl's ass if it's a glance. The way OP justified 'staring' by basically justifying it in ways like saying the girl could've just worn baggy sweats sounds an awful lot like victim-shaming, though. Also brings to mind how many men I have ogling my ass while I work out at the gym, sometimes even going so far ass to not only maintain eye contact when I look their way, but licking their lips at the same time.

So for the latter part I added- there's definitely something very wrong with anyone thinking that kind of behaviour is okay.

[D4NTH3M4N217]

The looking for prolonged times when you know and the licking lips is wrong. It can make you uncomfortable and feel awkward which is explanatory. For that I apologise that it's happened to you but just looking isn't too bad. As long as they're doing it for a few secs

[BlackMaleYou]

@KaylaS91 This comment is so stupid and I barely brand an opinion stupid. What do u say about the girls that stare at my abs at the gym. What ever is attractive is looked at. So a girl is a looking and daydreaming about me so what if a girl is touching my arm and telling me how strong it is. Yeah and there is no such thing as the female gaze.

[kaylaS91]

@BlackMaleYou
... if you've ever felt like a group of girls who huddled together and were all staring at your abs/arms or whatever, and felt like they posed a threat to your safety, then that'd be a valid concern.

[BlackMaleYou]

KaylaS91 A group of girls like my ass, they do because it's nice. It's OK to look at something that's nice as far as they don't spank it. As far as the admirer doesn't make physical contact it's all good. Women do the same shit men do, the difference is women are never safe, so my privilege to look lustfully at a woman is to be done away why u get to keep urs cos u don't feel safe.

[Kenni]

Cause we want to. The world does not revolve around men. But I do like it when the guy I'm into stares at it. I mean why not? But others? I couldn't care less about them, and I don't wear things FOR them.

[Toad-1]

*stares at you* 😳

[LyricalBehavior96]

Hey beautiful

[Dtegesd123]

Girls probably choose leggings cause jogging pants don't match most shoes. I'm sorry but if you have a nice ass, I'm gonna stare. But I don't fantasize you naked. It's just impossible not to stare haha.

[CT_CD]

They like it. They like attention. That's why they wear things that show off their ass. Same reason why they wear tops that show tons of cleavage.

[PaganGod]

Yes but look at the opinions. They aren't even admitting it. I love the hypocrisy

[CT_CD]

They're definitely lying

[Tomblebee]

Maybe the baggy stuff would move around and show more skin which would make them feel more uncomfortable. Sometimes they might be required to wear a certain color top and have limited options.

[D4NTH3M4N217]

We don't know that for a fact, I think that the majority of us dress to impress, I know I do. We wear nice shirts, jeans and shoes. As men we like our muscles to be shown hence tank tops and really short sleeved shirts were invented. We all like attention in some way or other and it's not a bad thing. I wouldn't feel comfortable wearing trackies or tracksuits because it just seems chavvy.

[Tomblebee]

@D4NTH3M4N217 Hahah lol, i dress to piss off my mum.

[D4NTH3M4N217]

@Tomblebee We are all guilty of that

[Tomblebee]

@D4NTH3M4N217 She wouldn't let me go to the supermarket with her :(

[D4NTH3M4N217]

@Tomblebee That sounds annoying, what did you wear?

[Tomblebee]

@D4NTH3M4N217 Some old thing that my dad's collegue gave my sister to bring home after she washed her windows. LOl. It was pretty drab.

[Tijie2015]

Most young female do not understand the male biological makeup. Why do men stare in the first place? For most, it is very pleasing to the eye and sends their heart racing. That is why in most cultures throughout the world and formerly here in America and other modern cultures, women chose to dress modestly as to not attract attention to their figure. I am a married Christian man, but I am not blind. I see the young lady who wears leggings that show every curve, nook, and cranny on her body. Although I think it's a beautiful thing, I should not have the privilege of seeing her in that way.

Now, you cannot tell me not to stare because that's one of things that attracts me to my wife. Only, she doesn't shows it all to other men. My wife is a beautiful lady with a figure that most young girls would envy, but she understands what attract men's attention. So she choose to dress modest and tasteful. If that strong attraction were not there, the human race would have been by extinct now because there would be no attraction between males and females.

And I do have self-control because I not going to be running after you to get your name and number.

[j3ss1ca]

Most of the time it makes me feel uncomfortable but you just learn to ignore it eventually. I'm not going to stop wearing tight jeans for anyone though, I find them more comfortable than baggy ones and I like how they look sooo

[boopsnoop]

They're comfy and I like how they look✨ I know someone is going to look, but it tends to lead to either cat calling and pointing it out or someone trying to get grabby and just no. Like I just wanna feel good and be cute for me

[CHARismatic110]

Leggings are comfy. That's why I wear them. That simple. And my booty is mediocre so not many guys stare. But glancing and staring are two totally different things. A glance is cool, but when you're flat out oogling the buns... it gets weird.

[TayTay21]

I normally love to get noticed and I dress for attention... but there are times when it gets uncomfortable, especially if the guy is a creeper or a loser.

[Shimy]

Skinny jeans aren't uncomfortable if you pick the right size :) I wear them because I have long legs, and I think it makes them look good. Not because of my almost non existent butt lmao

[Tomblebee]

It depends what age they are relative to you, and the intensity of the stare and also their body language.

[Peopleschamp]

They do, they'll just never admit it. I've seen girls where booty shorts or very thin see through yoga pants in the middle of WINTER, I mean come on lol

[Anonymous]

oh great. Here comes a bunch of women saying they only wear stuff that shows off their body because it's comfortable. And it's creepy if guys look unless he's hot. Then somehow, it's magically not a problem.

[dwiller943]

Well I'd be suprised if any guy stared at my ass. I literally have nothing to look at. My ass is so small.

[Tomblebee]

How do you bend over?

[dwiller943]

@Tomblebee I don't.

[Tomblebee]

I always thought that it would be like not having a knee or an elbow with some extra chubs for movement. So do you choose not to bend over or can you not?

[dwiller943]

@Tomblebee I can bend over. I just never do.

[Tomblebee]

Interesting... Do you see what i'm saying though?

[WiggleWasser]

They only like it if they consider the guy hot. If it's somebody they are not sexually attracted to, they will hate you thinking you are worthy of staring at their ass. An unacceptable guy staring at a girl's ass is the equivalent of rape these days.

[CaptainSmartass]

Dude, embrace the little Tony DiNozzo that lives inside of you! Be a dude, dude!!

[dikshaawasthi]

It's our choice whatever we wear whether it be tight jeans, tight jeans, biknis or anything... it's not like we are inviting men to look at us... we wear whatever we feel comfortable and confident in

[Notitle]

But boys' looking at your body is quite normal

[reixun]

I love it when MY man stares at my ass and gives it attention.

[Hannajenky]

A little is nice to be appreciate. Too much and it is creepy

[Blankz]

Had a girl that actually wanted me to stare at her ass in gym.

[Anonymous]

Maybe... Maybe... MAYBE WE WEAR IT FOR OURSELVES? MAYBE WOMEN LIKE TO DRESS UP FOR THEMSELVES? MAYBE WOMEN DONT DRESS UP SO MEN OBJECTIFY THEM?

oh wow... Thats a crazy, insane thought, isn't it?

[D4NTH3M4N217]

Calm down, it was a question as to whether women like men staring at their asses, not whether they're doing it for attention or to be objectified. It's not meant to be like that

[Opinion Owner]

@D4NTH3M4N217 I like capitalizing stuff

[Opinion Owner]

@D4NTH3M4N217 Also you did say "Do women like this? If they dont why do they do this" So I was answering the question. Because we like to dress up for ourselves.

[D4NTH3M4N217]

I didn't ask the question, I don't agree with men looking at woman but I just don't like it when they're aggressive. The capitalising thing may not be intentionally aggressive but that's what I got. I like a good solid argument not a shouting match, fair enough you think that women wear what they want when they want.

[Opinion Owner]

@D4NTH3M4N217 I should not have yelled it like that, that was immature of me and I apologize. I still stand with my point though, I just shouldve said it in a better way

[D4NTH3M4N217]

No need to apologise, and you're young so you get to be immature, I'm immature. It's just the way you said it, but at least it was unintentional. I agree with you as well about women not being sexual objects, women are like us like I dress to impress but also to feel confident.

[Flower-petal]

LMAO 😂

[D4NTH3M4N217]

@Flower-petal What's funny?

[Flower-petal]

@D4NTH3M4N217 she was freaking out for a minute.

[Opinion Owner]

@Flower-petal I was. I freak out a lot, not denying that

[Flower-petal]

Lmfao it's all good 😁

[Notitle]

Staring at a woman's body for a few seconds doesn't mean to objectify it

[synonymous773]

I stare at women's asses all the time and they approach me. So, yes.

[Anonymous]

I’ve never noticed a guy staring at my ass, so I can’t say... but I think I’d find it to be awkward.

[spiderweirdo]

A discreet glance is hot, a pervey stare is not.

[BlackMaleYou]

What is a pervy stare?

[spiderweirdo]

@BlackMaleYou more than five seconds... fantasising whilst he's doing it 😩

[BlackMaleYou]

Yeah what is creepy is subjective subjective. A girl would like it more than 5seconds if it was a guy she taught was attractive.