So, every time I see a cute girl on Tinder and she has her Snapchat or Instagram on her bio I think on adding her, but then I think she might find it creepy or awkward đ€. I'm a very shy person when it comes to relating with others, but I'm trying to get your output on this because I think it could be a way to face that fear. This question goes to girls as well as guys. Girls: Do you like when guys add you via Tinder, even if you don't match? Guys: Do you add girls on Instagram and Snapchat regardless if you match?
When girls put their Snapchat and Instagram on Tinder, do they mind if you add them?
In my own honest opinion dear Anonymous, I think "Most" of the girls who just mention their other social media accounts in their tinder profile are just seeking "Followers" nothing else, and am sharing this opinion based on my personal experience, therefor I have quoted the word "Most". We shouldn't state anything in general as for there are exceptions. Some people just share their other social media account for the fact they don't use tinder much. Besides, the chatting interface in tinder is not very accurate when it comes to notifying you with new messages, and it kinds of lacks the phone's memory. When I have first started using that dating app, I kind of added the girls I liked (instagram, snap, kik, whatsapp, etc...). What happened really is seeing all the guys living around and I see on a daily basis, following them as well, while they never reply to any message nor comment. Take a look at their profiles, you will see the amount of followers. Then after few weeks, take a look again at their profiles, you will notice how many followers they are gaining just for the fact they have mentioned in their profile "My instagram account is _____ follow me so we can chat".
My advice for you dear Anonymous: You can always try to send them a message and see if they reply but do not expect anything :-) If it works, then good for you, otherwise, just keep on swiping profiles till you get a real match and Good Luck!
They are attention whores. Tinder is just an extension of their social media. They are begging for follows. The more they get the more their social stature rises. On top of that the guys that add them will also like all their photos in a hope she will notice them but she couldn't give a shit about you, she literally whores off the attention which makes her feel good about herself. No decent self respecting girl would allow random guys onto their profiles. Don't do it, you will feel even worse after it
Well put Most girls online who have dating profiles only use it for attention. Cause they don't want to really date but need the attention from guys. Its so much better to approach a girl in person but still most have no idea how to handle being asked out.
Unfortunately is worse than that... they are wannabe-influencers. They make more money if they get more visibility (or simply: higher number of followers). Most likely they'll be chosen to subliminally advertise some product; or they'll be able to ask for more money.
A lot of the same happens in the "art business" on the internet nowadays. DJs get to play into cool clubs because they simply can show more followers (that means more entry tickets for the club venue). Tatooers do the same on Tinder. Artists, photographers, and other too. Getting more followers make them more visible; nowadays "more followers" mean implicitly that one has "higher value" (because masses are never wrong, right?), more acknowledgment from public opinion, so more monetary value.
So bad that most can just invest few hundreds dollars for buying tens of thousands of "followers" (sometimes real, tricked via Tinder or others; other times simply fakes, automatic bots).
Those IG girls are just trying to use your neediness & hopes to level up their empty career. And even more sad, they didn't even decide that themselves! (they mostly can't think; just pose or work out a butt) They have been told to do so by their managers (pimps).
Refuse to write to anybody mentioning their Instagram or Snapchat or Onlyfans profile. It's the same as writing nothing in the bio. They are not worth your time/hopes/energy (aka "your clicks/taps").
Go only for who put at least a minimal effort to write something. Not writing anything is a sign of disrespect for the other side, and is already a red flag of the power dynamics that will be enacted. Tinder is already unbalanced enough, without these additional marketing dynamics. Don't feed it!
Some of us do not have the balls to swipe right on people. And some of us just hate to message through the app. We just want an easier place to message these people.
I think that when people put their social media account IDs on their dating profiles, it means that they don't mind people adding them, otherwise it's not required and they don't have to shared that information unless they choose to. Even some dating sites that ask people to synch their social media accounts, if people don't want others to see the contents of their posts on Instagram, Facebook, etc. they don't have to synch them with their dating accounts. I actually at some point thought that people who shared their Instagram account IDs were just trying to get followers which could be true for some people, but some want to talk to their "prospective" dates on social media, to see what they post and/or verify whether their identities are real or not.
why would she put it in her bio if she donât want people to add her 😂 I also have it in my bio on tinder and I donât mind when they add me, I just add back! And anyways if she donât want you sheâll decline the request so just add her and see
OH HELL NO. There is nothing worse than adding them on Instagram and drooling after them from A FAR! Don't do it! If you start dating her than add her. LOCK IT DOWN FIRST!
If someone puts their snapchat on there then yea they do want you to add, I would never do that bc I like my snap kinda private. But I do put my Instagram up there bc I like followers and I like people to know my hobbies and it's public. But I never ans messages on Instagram from people I don't follow
Bro, you want sth. So goddamn do sth. If you are unable to speak to someone in public and you try tinder then at least do âeverythingâ you can to âcontactâ [talk to] the person you are interested in My opinion ; I try to contact every person I am interested in, on every way it's possible and legal. So yeah add her on Instagram and Snapchat, Twitter and Facebook and everything she got that she knows you're interested haha :D If she says no, happens. If she says yes, great. Always remember Iternet â real life
I don't think they mind you adding her, but nothing will really come out of it unless you are super attractive. She is most likely not going to talk to you if you are a Tinder user that follows her. Go ahead and add her, but just don't expect to hook up with her or get into a relationship with her.
You would think so, but now so many people who get weirded out by strangers added them. Look at Facebook, its social media designed to communicate with friends, family, and to make new friends or possible find a love interest. But now, most people don't accept friend requests from just anyone, infact they delete them if they don't know the person. That's why Facebook is slowly dying, cause people are willing to open up and get to know others.
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Lol funnily enough a girl on bumble put her IG up, so I followed her and dropped a polite message. Next thing I know, some dude is messaging me asking why I'm trying to get hold of her and that she doesn't use bumble, safe to say it's obviously her boyfriend. All for attention in my opinion. Claims she doesn't use it, then delete it? Did make me chuckle.
MIght simply be her pimp, or manager. Why a girl that has a jealous boyfriend would ever add her public IG profile on a dating platform? (apart for retardation of course)
Snapchat maybe but Instagram, not so much. Instagram is a great platform to show off more photos that illustrate who you are as a person. Snapchat is just another social platform.
I think most girls will respond positively if you guys matched on tinder. If you donât match, often times, there is a reason. So, to be safe, see if you match first :)
I guess that's the point, I wouldn't bother her tho if she doesn't give you a heart back or whatever When she isn't interest in you, I wouldn't add her
I am adding her by instagram, i send her 2-3 posts about what i want to say and if he add me back, its fine. If not, i stop follow her. We all (men and women) have the button of unfollow. Talk to the girl or the boy you want. Dont be foolish. In real life, if you see someone you like and dont have the same feelings etc, you keep following them? Not. Do the same with apps. So simple. Dont loose your opportunity to talk to someone you like. You never know what is your destiny.
Its gonna be creepy if YOU think what you're doing is creepy , just do it and even if the occasion arrive ans she asks you be hobest i tought yoy were cute and added you from tinder 😕
They do it for attention and to get more followers. But there is no problem adding them and sending a message saying that you saw them on tinder and added their snapchat
Personally I've had one relationship that was the outcome of adding someone via social media from tinder and the relationship didn't last long but she didn't seem too bothered that I added her. I say shoot your shot you never know what could happen
For guys it's easy. We just add them. And for starters if they didn't want to be added they would have put instagram on tinder. Add them. If they feel creepy they will just block you
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