Is it good to ask a girl if you are bothering her?

[Anonymous]

or does that make you look weak? sometimes I get a feeling I am bothering a girl and want to ask so that if that is the case, I can back off.

[Anonymous]

You gotta understand the way they respond on how you talk to them, I think I speak for a lot of guys when I say some girls would rather hide behind their phone or computer then to be honest and in person to tell a guy what's up. Its annoying beyond anything because there shouldn't be a need to ask in the first place which in turn would make you look weak but because they do not make themselves clear they would rather "drop hints" instead, if you have something on your mind and its bothering you just say it...you will at least leave with some dignity when its all done instead of making yourself look like a bitch...pardon my french

[toulouse]

Yea I hate it when guys do that- get all bothered by some dumb thing and won't say anything even when you ask- I hate when girls do it too.. both all its annoying :)

[Anonymous]

If you do ask, she'll probably be polite and say you aren't. What I do if I get that feeling is say "well I'll quit bothering you and let you get back to what you were doing." soemtimes they say I'm not bothering them, other times they say "ok, bye".

[MariaFin]

It´s nice to know what´s in your mind and the question shows that you care about the girl.

but if you are repeding it over and over again it starts to feel anoying and that you don´t trust her enough to believe it when she says : " You´re not bothering me".

But it definitely doesn´t make you look weak! It makes you look sensitive. :)

[chettah-two]

If you think you are bothering her, then chances are you're bothering her.

You have to think what it is you're doing that's bothering her and BACKOFF a bit..

[Anonymous]

seriously, this is how much easier girls have it, it is literally impossible for a girl to annoy, creep out, or annoy a guy, but it's the easiest thing in the world for us guys to make this mistake

[chettah-two]

If you think its impossible for a girl to annoy, creep out, etc.. then chances are your bar is way too low meaning its verging on desperation... "anygirl is good enough.."

Some girls same as guys can be annoying and clingy.

[Derrck]

well, we just broke up after i asked this question lol...
it's a big mistake to ask this question when our relationship not even firm yet.

[Hot4Alyssa]

sure, there is no problem with that