Girls, Is it a good idea to directly ask a girl if she likes you or not?

[Anonymous]

Well so there's this girl at work, we've been eyeing each other for a long time. We finally got to talk and later i asked her out got her number but she didn't come because she had to work that day. We started talking a little on WhatsApp then added her on snapchat later. And I've been off work for more than a week so a couple of days ago i received a snap from her with a caption saying "imy already" and before that we had just added each other for a few days but never snapped anything to each other.
To which i replied "aww me too"
Then the next day i thought of sending her something sweet too
So i sent her a selfie with "you've been on my mind lately and i wanted to be direct about it and just say hi"
So then she asked "who's that for?😂"
And she saved that snap in chat
And i replied with a sarcastic joke which she laughed off
And she sent a selfie snap later too. The next day she sent a snap of a selfie of her and a boy with a caption "love❤️"
Now I don't know if she's into me or just messing around.

[Anonymous]

With a response like that, it makes me think that her initial imy message was platonic. If it were just playful but flirty she would’ve added a wink or something, but she sent only a laughing face (which is really rude). Then to send the photo with the guy, sounds like she’s trying to express that she’s taken.


In general this girl sounds like an attention seeker and for sure playing with your head, which I’m sorry to hear because things like that can have a real effect on how you approach dating. People like her don’t consider the other person’s emotions when they’re too busy loving all the attention and adoration to think that this person is actually falling for them.

[Missgingles]

She doesn't like you. She seams to like the other guy she sent a pic of to you. I'm just trying to be honest. I dont think she likes you that way. Just as friends

[MrsTurkleton]

Yes. I think it’s better to