Do you assume a girl must really like you if she asks you out?

[Bethany22]

Like since it's usually the guy that asks girls out, do you suspect that this girl must like you so much that she doesn't just forget about you each time you don't initiate contact with her, whereby she thinks it's worth the risk of getting rejected so as to not have to continue to live without you?

[OfMiceandMen]

I would assume she does, simply because it somewhat goes against the typical rules of conduct. It is a refreshing thought though, perhaps there would be more initial contacts between people if women and men shared the responsibility.

[OfMiceandMen]

Thanks 🥂

[loveslongnails]

I would think she's very interested in knowing more about me and she has a strong liking for me already.

[Finchie40]

I assume she is interested in me but really interested? Would depend on her intentions with me , I don’t really take girls’ serious anymore , until her and I really get to know each other , and she makes me her priority by taking the initiative to see me or talk to me on a daily basis , but if she doesn’t do that , I just assume she just wanted fucked

[Avicenna]

Yeah, I'd assume that because there are plenty of other guys she can ask out if she isn't that into me.

[DishLady]

Guys SAY they’d like the girl to take initiative, but when that happens it’s not received with the proper intention… She MUST be desperate, or really obsessed or whatever. It’s never just received as a sweet gesture or simple sign of interest.

[Nifrayu]

That's not true. I feel like I would be insulting my self to believe someone is desperate for asking me out.

[DishLady]

@Nifrayu What YOU are feeling and what THEY are thinking aren't the same thing.

[DishLady]

Guys and gals… it’s called an opinion for a reason. Stop spamming mine and go post your own thing.

[RetroReviews]

I'd receive it as a sweet gesture or simple sign of interest but then again I'm not like most guys LOL

[DishLady]

@RetroReviews Sure! Some guys ARE receptive, but quite a few guys can be really dismissive or rude about it.

Also, I don’t think guys necessarily invest much emotionally when they first approach a girl. They get desensitized to small-scale rejection and just learn to move on to the next girl. By contrast, the girl who approaches has to basically give herself enough incentive to go up to a guy. (I may be wrong, but my opinion is based on what I’ve observed over time.)

[Nifrayu]

@DishLady Who are they?

[AviatorTom]

Usually that's true, but sometimes you are her last choice to go to the concert... because all the others turned her down.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, pretty much. Either that or, there's more than likely, some maleficent reason she's doing it like: she knows I like her so, she's only doing it because she and her friends all think I'm some kind of loser and, because I like her, she's building me up to a huge let down that they can all get a good laugh from at my expense.

[Bethany22]

That's so sad!😢

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes but, thankfully, that hasn't happened in years but, at the same time, I haven't had ANY attention/interest from women in almost 25 years, except for 2 online about 14 years ago. Of course, those never panned out to anything long-lasting.

[HawkPerception]

Girls have so many options in their lives that her approaching me wouldn't make dent in her life. If a girl approaches me, I would feel that she likes me and would be interested in dating me, but I wouldn't assume she REALLY liked me unless she bluntly said so.

[DontAskMePeople]

Yeah I'd agree,

I believe a girl would delay as long as she felt there was a chance he would ask?

I mean after all don't you girls prefer a confident man that knows what he wants? therefore he should have no issues asking you or making a move first

[adventurous-1]

not necessarily, she might just be looking for free drinks and food on your dime, or she's bord and you look like a good time or have the money to give her a good time. Some girls are legit and sincerely interested but others have their own motives that don't include a real relationship. I don't assume anything when it comes to women.

[Crimsyjo]

Haha yh. I only make the first move if I reallllly really like a guy! And I don't want a missed opportunity. And also if he's not interested I'd rather know straight away so I can move on.

[LiamJHayden]

I assume she is interested in seeing if she might like me, but I never assume she does like me.

[Phoenix98]

Typically you don't ask someone out if you aren't interested in or attracted to them. So it's a safe assumption to assume a girl likes you if she asks you out.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think she could like me?

[paledreams]

That or a dare or there's a catch (lol I don't wanna write that slogan people say lol about uhh 😬) anyways

[femalenpc]

I tried to do where they tell you to ask the guy out, and they think you're desperate. It's a joke.

[thomastown]

Yes of course, girls don't do that too often and if she took the effort to ask, I would be flattered.

[nawtee_me]

I try not to assume but if a girl ask me out I think that she may see something that she might want to explore…. I accept all intentions to go out….

[Fireguy17]

She might be interested in getting to know me better before she decides if she really likes me.

[exitseven]

I would say so. It never happened to me until I got married.

[kellytheman]

Yeah if she ask the guy out she must really like him and usually the guy won’t really reject a girl asking him out.

[clampfan101]

Not for that reason, but yes.

I’m poor and so-so looking at best. I’d assume they were interested in my kindness.

[Anonymous]

No. First I assume there's a 50/50 she playing some kind of trick. Then if that turns out not to be the case I assume she's just run completely out of options.

[SotiCoto]

Doesn't happen. I'd assume she was desperate if it did.

[lifetimefitness]

Real

[Shy_Steve]

Yeh, Definitely.

It's Attractive.

We find it Attractive just like you Girls would if a Guy you liked Approached you.

[KelsoAlexander]

Nah first thought is she just wants to hangout. If she takes me to her place then i might question shit unless I've been there before.

[Twalli]

I don't think she has any stronger feelings than what you may have for any girl you ask out

[RetroReviews]

I would assume that if it happened

[NathanDavis]

she would like me enough to ask me out...

[worldscolide]

Usually that's a big indicator

[RavVid]

I would have to assume that.

[Nifrayu]

No. I just think it means she likes me.

[Pohjolan]

Either that or its a cruel prank.

[RedInnocent69]

It’s rare enough the answer is yes.

[JamesRandiDebates]

I assume she wants the dick.

[Anonymous]

Yeah for whatever reason

[eagle1951]

never been asked out by a girl

[shortster]

Yes.

[andy530]

Yeah I would

[MrGSpotHer]

Never happened lol