Girls, should I ask her why she likes (or is interested in) me?

[Anonymous]

Met someone online (she messaged me first), and in person, and she seems to still like me lol, but I'm really curious as to why and what interested her. Is it ok to ask (will it make me look bad in any way)? My self esteem isn't the highest in general, however it's not so much that as it just makes me wonder because I'm older (by 10 years), overweight, I mean, regardless I think I'm decent looking enough, but she's quite attractive and I'm sure could get a younger, fit guy with no problem. I know looks aren't everything, I'm just curious though. And long term goals are marriage and children, and it's not mine, especially children which I stated in my profile, so to me that would turn her away right there, but it hasn't.

[devilish-cutie]

dont ask her that until you are like officially dating, its very likely she finds you physically attractive and really enjoys your company. Attraction is really hard to determine, some people lie fit people while some may even prefer fat ones, it really is all about someones preferences. Not everyone thinks Angelina Jolie is pretty and not everyone would want to date her. Seems like you really have a lot of insecurities and for now just try to belive this girls likes you for who you are even if you might not like ysf the way you are and for now enjoy