Should I ask her why she is ignoring me?

[Upsidedownkingdom18]

I have met this girl in person, and we started to talk. Months have passed and we began to like one another, she sometimes gets depressed and I do as well but we pull each other through. I told her I wanted to date but I wasn't ready since my family problems were to much and I didn't want to put her through all of it. I was depressed lately but she helped me through it, and I told her I really, really like her and she did as well. It's been a few weeks now and she stopped talking to me, I say "Hey, How have things been?" and show I am happy..No response..I know she is ignoring me since I tried to talk to her on Facebook, Texting her, etc. I do not wanna look like a creep and obsessive but should I just ask her why she is ignoring me? I mean, sometimes she tries to talk to me, but I feel like she is officially done with me. I want closure if that is the case..What should I do? Should I ask her why she is ignoring me?

[EMAWBrave]

I was almost in the exact same place that you are now a year ago.

I had been talking to this girl I met at enrollment for college all summer and by the end of summer I had been depressed since I hadn't seen my family all summer due to summer classes. I felt like I had burdened her with my sob story of how terrible I felt all of the time and I pretty much treated her like my therapists. She didn't mind at first but it wasn't getting better and I had told her that I really liked her and how grateful I was for her being there, but by the time fall semester came around she had begun to distance herself from me because I started being a little clingy. Finally it all ended and we've gone as far as to being friends on Facebook and snap chat but not having any conversation at all.

My advice is to wait. Don't feel like you need to rush things, she may be a little bit overwhelmed with what's going on around her. give her space and don't ask if she's ignoring you. Learn from my mistakes and just occasionally say hey like once every two weeks to see if conversation gets going. I know if can be hard going from talking every day to not talking at all but that could be the difference between you two being close friends or not at the end of the day.

Good luck buddy.

[loda1994]

dont do that. instead move on find someone else unless you both officially are boyfriend and girlfriend then you need to ask her "is something wrong? I feel you have become distant lately" and may be she really doesn't have time or something happened.

[Anonymous]

You can ask, hut she probably won't answer.

I don't understand though - nothing happened? She just randomly stopped talking to you?

[anonimousguy]

Yes kind of... She will respond but probably in couple days, which she did not do before.

[CTHuskyMan]

I'm going through almost the same thing. I know it'll never work with the girl I like, it's just that sometimes the rejection part of it seems to torture me. I would like to know why I was rejected, just so I can get a little bit of closure.

[Anonymous]

no don't ask her act like you don't care.

[Anonymous]

dont. ignore her back.

[Anonymous]

no, that is so needy