Girls, should I ask her out , is she shy and likes me or should I give up ☺?

[Anonymous]

I seen a girl i liked and started trying to initiate eye contact. She sometimes was nervous to look a woukd look away fast or look to the ground , she was shy but would always start to look at me and talking to her friends about me.

One time she made more effort with her appearance and kept fidgeting like didn't knw how to stand when she was at the printer and tried to sneak glances and got embarrassed. And looked away and back like sge didn't know whether to look.. 5 mins later she caught me talking to another girl. She seemed bothered by it as sge walked out.. I seen her out the window she looked embarrassed and upset. I didn't approach at this point but she started completely avoided looking.

I approached, 2 weeks later. she was nice , quiet and couldn't make eye contact. She laugh at my lame jokes. She would look at me out the corner of her eyes up and down So I walked off. later in the day she was talking to her friends about me again

2nd approach, in canteen i walked over and she was abit more confident. Made very quick eye contact. Abit more talkative but still visibly nervous. She was twirling her hair the whole time and kept giggling at little things I do. Later she seen me in class opposite and kept looking. She secretely spoke to her friends again.

I sat down and faced her. I talk to her friends I wanted to compliment her so I said she lookd nice but slurred my words which her friends noticed. she couldn't face me I complimented twice again. . then left 10 minutes later. When I left she switched from being quiet and not making eye contact to talking to her friends. and staring So I was confused and stared back. When waiting for the elevator. I am confused why she akways talks to her friendsabout me. But when I go upto her she can't make eye contact she gives signs she's self-conscious , nervous and shy I don't know if this what shy girls do? . but for example the last time...

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After each week of me normally approaching because I'm confused I avoided her. But i quickly spone ti me friend and returbed books. I nornalky approach at 12 but this was hour after she seen me. again she made visible effort with make her appearance make up. but I never approached this day.. and her friends kept staring and I was talking to a friend quickly. She looked up at me with sad face made eye contact then i looked back she looked down ?

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I'm unsure if she's interested or not and is super shy , self conscious, nervous etc. I can't tell why she acts this way. I like her but should I assume she's not interested and walk away

[ParadoxicallyDorky]

Aw, how sweet. Yes, she likes you. Ask her out! The only reason I can think of for why she acts so nervous around you, dresses up, and looks sad when you talk to other girls is because she likes you. She is probably very shy, so try to be as friendly as you can and make sure she is comfortable and gets more used to your presence. I used to act like that around my crush (I still kinda do, but I’m not as awkward about it). Good luck!

[Asker]

Sge git jealous befire i approached possible beecause she made more effort to look good in hopes id approach but i didn't.

But 2 weeks after i did approach whuch understand why she was quiet because its nerves. But she couldnt naje eye contact then later sge talks to her frievds about me

The time after she seemed more communucatuve but doesn't she ask questions , sge made quick eye contact , kept twirling her hair and giggling at things I do like putting her rubbish in bin for her randomly.

Later in day again she saw me in class opposite and kept sneaking glances to see if im looking. Which I was lol but the light was off and she was secretely talking about me again.

I'm unsure if sge is interested so I approach again. .

I only see her Weekly in university. . This time I sat down with her and her friebds and faced her. Again sge just confused tuned to face her friend and answer my questions , she wouldn't name eye contact. So I complimented her saying sge looks nice but

[Asker]

Slurred my words which her friends noticed. So I complimented twice more.. had to leave for class and I walked off and said good luck.. sge was talking about me to her frievds, they all Kept looking. Then i was lie what the heck and she was staring no problem. . so sge goes from not looking and being given quiet when I'm up close but then doing that

The week after I was busy and avoided approaching. . She seen me taking books back about 30 minutes after break when I normally approach hrs frievds kept staring unusually? .. I was quickly talking to my friend and again sge made loads of effort with her make up, hair and clothes.. I she looked at me and made eye contact and looked quite sad or something bothering her.. I'm confused whether she is shy and nervous and likes me normally I approach but today I didn't bevause of it? Lol

[liv420]

I think you should ask her out she's probably will just as nervous and doesn't know what to do if you tell her how you feel then she'll know and then it's up to her but at least you told her how you feel when you could

[Asker]

Yes I want to ask her out I just dint get why when I approach she doesn't ask anything , she doesn't give hints to not being interested. But she always speaks to friends about me. Like she was quiet and didn't ask questions I complimented her but then I walk off and she staring and talking to her friebds about me.

Then i stop approaching but sge making effort with appearance again. And looking at me like she's sad or bothered by me not approaching her.

[Parisgirl30]

yes, i believe it’s time to ask
her out;) maybe because you waited for a while she got confused and thought maybe you didn’t like her so she
backed away a little...
Be more intentional and she will respond in kind:)

[Anonymous]

Aww that's cute :) and I think she does like you she is just nervous and shy and you should definitely ask her out.

[Asker]

Sge git jealous befire i approached possible beecause she made more effort to look good in hopes id approach but i didn't.

But 2 weeks after i did approach whuch understand why she was quiet because its nerves. But she couldnt naje eye contact then later sge talks to her frievds about me

The time after she seemed more communucatuve but doesn't she ask questions , sge made quick eye contact , kept twirling her hair and giggling at things I do like putting her rubbish in bin for her randomly.

Later in day again she saw me in class opposite and kept sneaking glances to see if im looking. Which I was lol but the light was off and she was secretely talking about me again.

I'm unsure if sge is interested so I approach again. .

I only see her Weekly in university. . This time I sat down with her and her friebds and faced her. Again sge just confused tuned to face her friend and answer my questions , she wouldn't name eye contact. So I complimented her saying sge looks nice but

[Asker]

Slurred my words which her friends noticed. So I complimented twice more.. had to leave for class and I walked off and said good luck.. sge was talking about me to her frievds, they all Kept looking. Then i was lie what the heck and she was staring no problem. . so sge goes from not looking and being given quiet when I'm up close but then doing that

The week after I was busy and avoided approaching. . She seen me taking books back about 30 minutes after break when I normally approach hrs frievds kept staring unusually? .. I was quickly talking to my friend and again sge made loads of effort with her make up, hair and clothes.. I she looked at me and made eye contact and looked quite sad or something bothering her.. I'm confused whether she is shy and nervous and likes me normally I approach but today I didn't bevause of it? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

I think you are overthinking about this just ask her if she would like to go out in a cafe or bakery or something like that so you can get to know each other better. I really think she likes you and i am assuming you like her too just don't let yourself obsess over her because that is very bad. And try to make her feel more comfortable, be kind, be yourself, and be secure of yourself. You got this!

[Opinion Owner]

If you decide to ask her out can you update please?

[Asker]

Hey yes I will update , I just get confused whether she does or doesn't because I only have a few months to either continue to ask her out or not and if I dont get it right and she did like me I won't know bevause I will never see her again as in going to differant university

[Opinion Owner]

Follow your heart if you don't you might regret it later. Do what makes you happy. I wish you the best