What are the signs she misses you?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been chatting to this girl for a while now. We have our ups and downs.

Some times we won’t speak for a couple of weeks, but it’s always her who breaks the ice when it happens.

It’s happened three times now. After a while of not speaking she’ll get in touch asking if I’m OK. This third time she even said “I haven’t heard much from you”.

Do you think she missed me?

[Amylia]

If you two are only chatting, I would say she is missing chatting with you because she likes it.
But remember that it's possible that if you'll 'try' her too much, she can just give up.

[rdseeram]

You should ask youself why there are weeks that you aren't talking to her. Does she not stimulate you enough that you can't continue to have conversations with her?

[Asker]

Oh she stimulates me alright...

I stop talking to her some times to see if she’ll get in touch first, which she does.

[rdseeram]

So than are you done testing her?