How can you tell if a woman is toxic?

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D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

You'll know. Her presence will no longer be as welcomed. Vices she provides (like sex) may be wanted, but you'll start to feel that feeling of wishing she'd just stop what she's doing... because it's cancer.

Personally I can't stand man haters. They'll devalue anything manly you do, but seek to ruthlessly tear apart anything that's effeminate at the same time. They don't appreciate (don't know how to) the differences between you and herself... which hints at a deep level of self absorption. Basically, she won't compliment you (at least at a certain point) in anyway, and she just makes you sick... thus she becomes toxic. Usually discovered after the 'honeymoon phase' which is about 3 months... her version of beer goggles fades and she suddenly will become critical of everything you do.

Basically if you start to ask yourself if you can do anything right with her... she's a toxic woman.

yellowmamba024 · Accepted Answer

As much as I would say start with a woman's looks, but I can't really. Certainly women with better looks are more likely to be toxic as they tend to be worse people. Society made them like this.

However, I think it's best to start with how their family is like. If they have parents who are toxic or are abusive, more or less a woman will grow to become toxic too. Notice how she acts with her family. Second, if she is condescending, rude, and always trash talking, that's another sign that she is toxic. Third, spending habits, if they spend money recklessly, chances are, they have flaws in other areas that make them toxic as well. Fourth, her personality and behaviors of course.

levantine99 · Accepted Answer

she is never thankful and has no gratitude.
She always complains and nags.
She tries to isolate you from friends and family.
She commands total attention.
She tries to undermine your confidence with subtle insults and drips of poison.
She talks about her exes.
She has a past of many failed relationships and she claims she has the "ahole magnet".
She is flirting with other men while being with you.

Pamina · Accepted Answer

Toxic people have a very passive-aggressive and generally negative attitude, but one that isn't always obvious immediately but rather sneaks its way through to you. They can say things that seem positive at first, but then you slowly realized it was meant indirectly in a negative way.

coralee · Accepted Answer

Toxic women generally have the same red flags as toxic men. Things to watch out for are highly self-destructive behaviour, does she subtly try to alienate your from your family friends, is she constantly keeping tabs on where you are, and minor fights escalating quickly.

ChronicThinker · Accepted Answer

If everything is a mind game, if there is constantly drama no matter what you do, and she's always upset about something even when you're trying your best... she's toxic.

markscott · Answer

When you have to keep fixing things because of what she had done, when you lose friends because of her, or find yourself in bad situations you didn't used to be in, or find yourself doing things, or being involved in things, that you didn't used to believe in doing.

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

- Geiger counters go nuts around her
- Anyone who touches her gets sick
- Her skin is brightly colored and/or glows in the dark
- She spits at people's eyes
- She has a childproof cap
- Her clothes have the number for the Poison Control hotline on the back
- She has a stinger

ArronTheSubwayKid · Answer

When she is a hoe so that includes:
Being distant or unwilling talk or disclose any details
Trying to control you in any way shape or form
Putting you down infront of your friends and hers
Has a history of cheating
Has slept around a lot
Asks you what your job is and how much money you make in the first date (that essentially categorizes you in her list of dudes to beg for money from wh3n she is shorthanded)
Is only very close to certain guys who display bad boy behaviour

SirRexington · Answer

If she is over demanding and narcissistic, raves a good feminism, gets mad when you aren't doing anything wrong and just assumed and if she cares more about her appearance then she does your relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Basically if there is a vindictive characteristic she has, that she finds self-entertaining, manipulative or goes from “hot to cold” with respect to things like affection/sex and/or becoming upset and demanding, based on what she appears to either benefit from doing so, or benefit from addressing what she thinks is a hazard to what she wants. In a nutshell... that is a toxic woman... likely great in bed too.

LegateLanius · Answer

You have to constantly save this person and fix their problems.
You are covering up or hiding for them.
You dread seeing them.
You feel drained after being with them.
You get angry, sad or depressed when you are around them.
You feel you have to impress them.
They are passive-aggressive.

MonaLee · Answer

She controls you, has negative energy, moans all the time, needs constant attention, gossip and is jealous about your achievements

inmensus · Answer

Controlling, passive-aggressive, manipulative, cares more about looks and money than other things that actually matter, hits guys and gets mad if they hit back because "guys can't hit women", etc.

KiaTate · Answer

If she is negative, controlling, laughs at you when you try to be vulnerable with her. If she hits you, puts you down. Doesn't want you spending time with your friends/family.

JimRSmith · Answer

Lack of empathy, and entitled attitude. Those will tell you every single time.

OVOsTheBusinessMan · Answer

The minute you think she's might be toxic. She probably is.

Hopefullness · Answer

They usually have an eerie green glow around them and smell of radioactive substances

Desconhecida · Answer

Even a friend can be a poison that always give bad vibes. You notice this if she only comes to you wjen she needs but otherwise disappears. Or if after talking to ker you feel exhausted

Heavente · Answer

Trying control your life, not giving you sex until she gets some present (mostly pricly), trying provoke you to argue about every shit, ignoring you, threats of any kind, forcing you into stuff. There is lot of ! ore, but iam tired now.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Listen to what she laughs at, what she complains about, and how she treats her parents.

VincentLaw · Answer

Use a sheet of litmus paper. If it turns red she's probably not good for you

Anonymous · Answer

she's not nice. she doesn't do things for you, but expects you to do things for her, because she's pretty.. that sort of thing. basically if you feel like shit around her, and she doesn't make it better

LEXLUTRYOR · Answer

I don't know the exact name in English, but it s called Narcissic Manipulating Pervert in my country.
Goes for both gender as it are the same behavior faking feelings to get you under control by various ways.

Khushh · Answer

A woman is tagged as toxic when she just can't stand others being appreciated above her, always looks for the negative in every situation/person/thing, etc. Tries to be dominating or at least tries to control your thinking and actions as well.

opurba · Answer

When she talk about other's private life n do things as if she has right.

dumbgirl1115 · Answer

The way she carries herself. If she doesn’t come down from her pedestal or is aware she seems to be superior to others. Also if she says in all her past relationships that it was always the guys fault...

sp33d · Answer

when she needs to constantly remind you how much she doesn't care, whatever etc..

Yakasmashi · Answer

Arguing  Bossy  Drunk  Can't walk in a straight line  Dosing off  Etc

Festenshaf · Answer

Just ask her to do something for you and watch her reaction.

PaladinGya · Answer

If she tries to control you or enables destructive habits you may have.

WomenFearMe · Answer

Women are ALWAYS toxic. That is how it has always been!

thebamboozler · Answer

If she has a vagina that's usually a dead give away

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

She is a controling psycho. Jelous af and dont trust you.

jonnyboii · Answer

The way she carries herself and acts towards others.

name_is_eric · Answer

When she tries to control you. Who you hang out with, who you talk to etc.

Anonymous · Answer

because she loves you and doesn't think you feel the same

vegomal · Answer

Usually bigger woman r ones that are finanically and emotioanlly abusice

Heromantic · Answer

Same way men are toxic. Abusive, selfish, tries to cut you off from your social life, etc.

iamparikansh · Answer

If her involvement is completely based on money, or if she's just an asshole to everyone.

cth96190 · Answer

If she is breathing, then she is toxic.

Bready998 · Answer

Cut her in half and send sample to a lab. (No idea i am toxic my self)

Anonymous · Answer

Always on the phone, creates excuses for the wrong doings of others, plays the innocent role

Anonymous · Answer

All women are toxic. Some just hide it better... for awhile.

Bananaman177 · Answer

Dude, she is. Trust me.

Swolebusser · Answer

All females are toxic

JustRollTheDice · Answer

If she feels toxic that's how you know

Ipman533 · Answer

Women are always toxic

Krimsonkoolaid · Answer

Talk to her for 2 minutes.

Steve37 · Answer

She's got the "crazy eyes" 👀

GayHowellMeme · Answer

By communicating with her

Pistachio0690 · Answer

If she's female, she's toxic

soyyopocahontas · Answer

She tell you what you have to do always

cfredx · Answer

Skull and crossbones tattoo

rakesss · Answer

that she is looking dangerous today

Odysseas · Answer

By checking her PH

Wizard-of-bras · Answer

If she’s a feminist

Millibigbucks · Answer

Attitude

Micky4 · Answer

Smelly B. O.

Anonymous · Answer

They all are.

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