How do you distinguish between a toxic relationship and a toxic woman?

[Anonymous]

Ok so this girl I recently broke up with was my first relationship I’m autistic and prior to that had never dated but she on the other hand had she had a relationship with a guy that she would call toxic but she would always go running back to him even after sexual manipulation, name calling all sorts of horrible behaviors. We broke up I never did any of that to her she smacked me in my head, called me stupid motherfucker and bullied me about my autism. She would call our relationship toxic but I’m starting to think it’s really not any given relationship it’s her. She bounces from one relationship to another and in the end turns people against the guy she plays victim

[D_Bone_Steak]

A toxic relationship needs to have toxic people to make the relationship toxic.

Take a good look at her calling that other dude toxic, and then running back to him. Now she calls a relationship with you toxic too.

My dude... the most common denominator in her toxic relationships is her. It doesn't matter what dude gets with her... she is going to make it toxic her damn self.

[Billlewis]

A toxic relationship has several likely causes, and there's no such thing as a toxic woman, in my opinion, because I always do exactly what she tells me to, no matter what.

[Asker]

But what about standing up for yourself if you don’t agree with her or if she is bullying you like this girl was to me

[Billlewis]

She's encouraged to do whatever she wants to me, and if she wants to bully me, all the better. I know that probably isn't acceptable for most guys, but that's what makes me happy.

[kylee2437]

A relationship has the ability to be both. She’s 100% toxic and the relationship as a whole can be deemed toxic especially if there’s a dynamic where the little nice things she did kept you going back to her and such. That’s literally the definition of a abusive relationship. Usually abusive people sprinkle little hints of good to make their bad behavior deflected away

[Anonymous]

Toxic people and toxic relationships go hand in hand. Your relationship is toxic because she is toxic.

[boggboss]

She sounds toxic herself but it dont mean her last relationship was not toxic with her and her ex both being toxic

[DextroShade]

Toxic women cause toxic relationships and she sounds like the typical toxic ran-through thot that is so common these days. She belongs to the streets and to the streets she shall return!

[BoopBoopBeep]

its her. she's 0 for 2, AND abusive

[Asker]

Yeah like her mom had a private conversation with me saying she was scared the girl was gonna lose me cause she treats me like absolute shit and I don’t deserve that

[BoopBoopBeep]

f her. You'll get a better one next. dodged a bullet

[Asker]

What’s messed up is she treats me like shit in private and convinces our mutual friends that’s she’s the victim so she has also caused drama with friends

[BoopBoopBeep]

yeah take that trash to the curb bro