Are the relationships toxic or are women who are emotionally damaged toxic?

[Anonymous]

So when these relationships go bad whats the true culprit is it the women or the relationship.

[Anonymous]

It's the woman. Learn to spoilt the warning signs before getting into a relationship with them man. If you discover the warning signs after forming the relationship. Then end the relationship man. It simply is NOT worth it to remain with a toxic person. Her internal problems are NOT yours nor yours hers. It doesn't matter if she tries to use the excuse of "past" guys. You are not them. Either sheaccepts that and starts a clean slate or she shouldn't be in a relationship yet. It's OK for a person to have demons. It's OK for a person to communicate them. But that IS NOT OK for that person to put that responsibility on you.

Rule of thumb man. A good women will know when they're dealing with past issues, they'll communicate it and ask you to be patient. But a BAD women will act out and then try to justify it. Always be aware of the women who ALWAYS have and excuse. Because they are the toxic women.

Good luck man.

[strateguy632]

neither, even a "damaged woman" can be good lovers if treated carefully. things go bad when both fail to cooperate.