Guys if you dislike your girlfriend's behavior, what do you do to teach her a lesson?

[Anonymous]

I've been in situations where he wouldn't talk to me the next day because I went clubbing. He wouldn't answer my calls, because I didn't answer his calls. He would tell me has problems with his cell phone if I told him I'm having problems with my cell phone. He wouldn't talk to me the next day because I said I was going to stay awake all night and study, but ended up falling asleep while he stayed up texting me. How do I stop my man's get me back behavior? What's he trying to tell me? I just want to keep in touch everyday.

[Anonymous]

communication is key to EVERYTHING from the way you lead an army to the way you lead a relationship. if my girlfriend does something I don't like I'll tell her (usually right then and there) -hey when you do_____, it kind makes mee feel like your trying to _____. then I'll listen to her, understand why she's doin it, we'll talk about it, and work it out. and at the same time if I'm ever doin something she doesn't like, I expect her to tell me. avoiding someone because of something they did or didn't do won't work things out. it'll only drive a wedge between the two.

[sinful1620]

I wouldn't treat a girl like a pet. If she hurt me, I'm not going to want to deal with her, so she'll force me to be distant. After I had some time, I'd express why what she did hurt me. If she continued doing it not caring about how I feel, I doubt the relationship would last much longer

[anon90]

He is doing what you do to him.. It sounds like he feels your behavior is disrespectful, and showing you what it feels like how you treat him. Treat him how you would like to be treated.

[DaveThomas]

couldnta said it better myself. basically he feels disrepsected. so he's doing it back to you, to show you how it feels. its commonplace to do this. though I myself, wouldnt

[toulouse]

Stop playing games by being passive aggressive. Ak him if he's bothered by something & tell him to talk to you if he is upset instead of being a baby

[manday]

First off why are you doing this behavior in the first place? If you care about your guy you should be talking calmly to him and be caring toward him. It sounds like you want to play games and all that does is destroy relationships. The way you behave reflects how people behave around you!