Panted my friend and she had a thong... What do?

[Anonymous]

I pantsed her in the park and didn't know she had a thong on. Millions of people saw her bare buns. Is there anythong I can do to fix this? I feel so bad and she cried her butt off.

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+1 y

Tried to apologize and she dabbed at me

[bailey11]

We all make mistakes. All we can do in life, sometimes, is just learn from the experience and not do it again.

There's nothing wrong with having fun with your friends but, maybe, don't take the teasing too far - something that can be potentially hurtful and embarrassing.

And remember, if anyone makes fun of your friend, teases her, (this kind of experience can, often, bring out the creeps with their suggestive comments and sounds), etc., that's a reflection on them. Chances are, they don't like themselves very much and they think that ridiculing other people will take the spotlight off of them.
If you see this happening, maybe stand up for your friend and turn the spotlight back onto the person/people doing the ridiculing: "Yeah, you're just making fun of someone else because you have low self-esteem!", etc. That often shuts them up. ;)

Or if your friend gets cat-calls, whistles, sexual comments, etc., you might like to ask the individual (s): "You're not a creep are you?" or something like that. Again, turning the attention away from your friend and putting it back squarely where it belongs - on the instigator. Chances are, if they treat your friend in a demeaning, disrespectful manner, they do it to other girls, too. You might like to make a comment when you're with other girls (at gym class, standing in line, etc.): "Gee, can you believe those guys? Acting like jerks!" or something like that. That will often get others (within earshot) asking: "Why, what happened?" And that can give you an opportunity to explain what happened; that you were just having fun and didn't mean to embarrass your friend, how it was an accident and now some guys (it's often guys) are teasing your friend and it wasn't even her fault. That will often get other people to open up and tell of a similar experience they had (often with the same crowd). If they've been fortunately enough to not have been on the receiving end of such treatment, it will give them an insight into what kind of people the ridiculers are.
This way, you can turn something negative into something positive. And in life, sometimes, that's all we can do. ;)

[RetroAlpha]

Well now that her butt has been removed, due to copious weeping, she can be happy in the knowledge that no one will ever see those buns again.

Sorry... too soon?

Just apologize and tell her how bad you feel about what happened. Be honest. And compliment her cheek-meat - say something like, "hey, but it really looked good, if that helps" toward the end... in better words.. try to get her to laugh.

If that doesn't work, wear a thong and yank your own pants down in the mall or something when you're with her. (I'm not perving - I won't be anywhere near you. I hate malls, and my daughter is older than you)

In the end, she has the final say to forgive or hold a grudge. And you have to be able to move on if she chooses the latter.

[Asker]

Mooning is illegal lol

[RetroAlpha]

And yet you pulled out her cheeks. She is ashamed, no mortified. You must atone. LOL! I sound like an old guru, but I literally have no experience baring any of my friends' booties. Male or female.

[deshawn78]

have you ever mooned someone?

[RetroAlpha]

@deshawn78 Nope. My booty is private reserve. Only the bowl, the TP, the soap and my wife have seen it. And a few nosy doctors :D

[CheerGirl38139]

Millions? Really?

We you on national tv?

[Asker]

There were loads of peeps in the park who saw her bum.

[CheerGirl38139]

Girls wear thong and string back underwear.

Big deal

[Asker]

Well usually don't show them to people? Lots of people saw her sheeks and crack. FAMILIES even! And they were upsets too.

[CheerGirl38139]

Then she should have punched you in the tits

[Asker]

OUCH lol! Those are really sensitive man.

[CheerGirl38139]

And there you have it.

[Asker]

Lol sadistic.

[deshawn78]

how old is your friend?

[markscott]

You caused her to be humiliated in front of many people, worse yet, people she will have to be around for at least a year. That is something that may take a very long time to get past. You may have lost a friend, permanently.

[ImSoSquishy]

why would you even do that in the first place? some great friend you are >.>

[Jack_L_andTurn]

Just be glad you aren't being arrested for sexual assault, because that is how what you did could easily be classified.

[Hugemoth]

Say sorry i guess. I'm sure most people just ignored an underage girl with her pants down.

[Asker]

PERVERTS DID NOT probably

[Hugemoth]

Yeah true but who cares.

[paolidark]

I don't know what you can do... maybe apologize and tell her to pants you

[codycccccc]

There is only one solution and it's let her do it to you

[corkr900]

Have you tried *not* pantsing your friend in public?

Seriously, what did you expect to happen?

[larry69]

Hope she wasn't on her period.