Do girls get annoyed about spontaneous/surprise sex?

[Danny_dan92]

For example, you’re sleeping and your man wakes you up by eating you out or you wake up with him already fucking you?

Or say you’re cooking and he walks up to you and rips your pants off and starts eating you out while you’re at the stove slightly bent over?

I wanna know what girls think about this type of stuff. I’ve always been the type to wanna do this type of stuff but don’t know if it’s considered “annoying”

Yes it’s annoying

No I love it!

Depends

Updates

+1 y

How the FUCK is it rape when it’s with a man you say “I love you” too? Ya’ll make no fucken sense 😂😂

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+1 y

unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception — compare SEXUAL ASSAULT, STATUTORY RAPE

For those of you MORONS that do not know what the definition of rape is. Please crack open a book and learn English. Notice key words such as forcibly & theat

[aicarg]

I mean it all depends, if I had a rough day where I was up at like 6am, had classes, worked... (if my sleep schedule is messed) I don't wish to have my beauty rest disturbed.

If I've got a knife in my hand and am chopping up veggies, I don't wish to be "surprised attacked" by having my man sneak up behind me.

However, if I don't have any pressing responsibilities, finding my man underneath the sheets and kissing my sensitive lips is a feeling I enjoy waking up to.

Rather than getting me off guard by ripping my pants off when I have my back to him, I prefer him sneaking up behind me by kissing my neck as his hands make his way to slide my pants down.

He has to read the situation and setting in playing himself right.

[Danny_dan92]

Well said 😂

[aicarg]

It should be a known rule to never disturb a lady's much needed beauty sleep. And sneaking up behind someone who is handling a knife and preparing a meal for you, is a logically bad idea.

[Danny_dan92]

True. I might get stabbed

[aicarg]

Aren't you trained in combat though? so you may probably have faster reflexes. Unlike me who sliced my finger while cutting fish when my dog dashed behind barking at a damn rabbit that came to out back patio.

[Danny_dan92]

I am but when my guard isn’t up for obvious reasons ya never know lol

[aicarg]

Well let me know if you ever get "accidentally" stabbed by a kitchen knife and need me to patch you up.

[Danny_dan92]

I’ll probably get stabbed in my abdominal arota 😂

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with being spontaneous, but fucking someone while they're asleep is rape.

[Opinion Owner]

In response to the update, PLEASE EDUCATE YOURSELF. People can be and ARE raped by their significant others. I was, and I know other women ( and one man) that were as well. This is more common than you think and every bit as much of a crime as rape commited by a perpetrator that is not your significant other. NO CONSENT EQUALS RAPE, NO MATTER WHO THE PERPETRATOR IS.

[Danny_dan92]

Rape is when one person tries to initiate sex and it is made clear by the other that they don’t want it, YET the person still forces themselves onto them.

You get educated

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. Do some research before you get yourself into trouble.

[Danny_dan92]

unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception — compare SEXUAL ASSAULT, STATUTORY RAPE

[Danny_dan92]

That’s the definition of RAPE. Last I checked your husband just wanting to have sex is one thing. IF you say no and he still keeps trying to have sex with you then it’s rape. So yah, get bent

[Danny_dan92]

Notice the key word FORCIBLY

[Opinion Owner]

My god. Did you even read what you just copied and pasted?

[Opinion Owner]

"USUALLY intercourse carried out forcibly"

[Danny_dan92]

That was from a law firm site. I’m pretty sure they would know the judicial definition of the crime

[Opinion Owner]

" incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception"

[Opinion Owner]

No mention of there being any exclusion for boyfriends and husbands

[manjeetK]

why would you sleep with him then, if anyone touches you just leave the bed, go to other room, tell him to stop, if he is still eating you that means you loving it and dreaming about the same. You loving it while sleeing

[Opinion Owner]

Or maybe she's afraid to say no because he has a temper, or because she doesn't want him to leave her because she's not giving him what HE wants. Maybe she's in shock. Maybe she's passed out drunk, and doesn't know what's happening to her. Come on, men. Be better.

[Danny_dan92]

@manjeetK

Leave her, she’s not gonna wanna give up this argument. For her point of view makes no damn sense. Because it has the fatal flaw of her claiming that even a damn husband can commit rape. Like wtf YOU CHOSE to marry the fucker!! How is anything that comes with it un wanted?

Not to mention she clearly doesn’t understand the point you and I both made. That if the woman says no, then after that point if the man still proceeds then it’s rape. But NAAAH this woman claims it’s rape regardless lmao dumbass

[Opinion Owner]

Your ignorance is astounding. Google martial rape and see what you come up with. My entire point is that you need consent. If your girlfriend/wife says she would like it if you woke her up that way, FINE... you have consent! If you don't ask, and do it anyway, you could potentially do something to her she doesn't want. She may not say anything right away for numerous reasons, and it could land you in jail one day.

by the way, name calling doesn't make you right. In fact, it makes you appear weak and unintelligent. Good day.

[Curiousity796]

I’d imagine that given an awkward situation, like cooking, it may be an inconvenient time. Given that the food would likely end up poorly prepared. But I would imagine that if he knew I was ok with it, and knew what I would like, that I wouldn’t mind. It would feel good to feel appreciated like that...

[Anonymous]

Right now, I am a lonely and sexually frustrated woman who rarely gets any attention from men, so I would really appreciate a boyfriend that would give me these types of surprises sometimes. It would make me happier and boost my self-esteem by making me feel loved and desired and cared about.

[Goodwifie]

I would rather be woken up with a kiss and nudge from my husband.

[Danny_dan92]

Morning breath tho...

[ushagomez]

It depends on the circumstances of course, but in general... mmmm... love waking up that way...

[TheHillsRAlive]

when my husband behaved that way when he was younger... I LOVED it...

[Danny_dan92]

So what changed?

[TheHillsRAlive]

He got older... he's not as sexual... it happens...

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t see that happening for me till I’m like 60... but maybe I’m saying that now cause I haven’t lived that long lol

[TheHillsRAlive]

We can only hope... else your wife will be on G@G asking and answering questions when she should be recovering... LOL... but oh well...

[Danny_dan92]

Ouch at your husband!!! 😂😂

[Goodwifie]

Mine is like that honey.
But it's not that he doesn't want to he just can't get it up every night.

[Danny_dan92]

Get him on that V pill

[Goodwifie]

He doesn't need it, he just needs to get himself in shape.

[Danny_dan92]

Ah, that cholesterol blocking the blood flow huh?

[Goodwifie]

No the chips chocolate and beer is.

[Danny_dan92]

BEER

[Danny_dan92]

Have him drink more water.

And eat leafy greens. My cock can get ROCK SOLID when I eat kale, spinach, etc.

[Goodwifie]

He does drink water.
I've told him no beers for him tonight 😜

[Danny_dan92]

How much water tho? 🤨

[Goodwifie]

A good amount.

[Danny_dan92]

Ideally a grown adult should be drinking about a gallon of water a day minimum

[KatherineJ]

It depends on if I got enough sleep to be interested.

[Danny_dan92]

Of course that makes sense

[KatherineJ]

Ya, I enjoy being seduced in the morning, if I got a good nights rest

[Danny_dan92]

I mean I personally see no better way to start your morning with your s/o than that

[KatherineJ]

True, but you aren’t the one who has to deal with the dripping

[Danny_dan92]

Dripping?

[KatherineJ]

After your man finishes inside, it does have to drip out.

[Danny_dan92]

Oh! Yah my girl does that. Especially after the first load

[KatherineJ]

Yep, so that is also a factor

[Danny_dan92]

Have the tp at the ready

[KatherineJ]

Pantyliners...

[Danny_dan92]

Huh? No! Toilet paper 😂

[KatherineJ]

Nope, pee, then pantyliner

[Danny_dan92]

Omg... use the toilet paper to wipe away the pussy juice cocktail

[MarilynMansonsSlvt]

IT'S RAPE
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[sarahhcmarie]

i read that thinking it sounded like rape so...

[Danny_dan92]

Guess a boyfriend, fiance or husband doing that to his girl is rape.

[sarahhcmarie]

I don't know.

[Danny_dan92]

Exactly

[sarahhcmarie]

Naaa

[Danny_dan92]

Yuuuup

[sarahhcmarie]

Naaaaaaa

[Danny_dan92]

Very well

[sarahhcmarie]

someone's triggered
didn't say it necessarily was but it sounded like it

[sarahhcmarie]

TRIGGEREDDD

[sinastyle]

I love that and my SO too.

[Anonymous]

I always surprise him, cause I'm the dominant.

[Anonymous]

That can definitely be considered rape

[Danny_dan92]

😳 oh god 😟

[Opinion Owner]

key words: usually and unconsciousness.
if she doesn't say yes it's rape--maybe she's not in the mood, she wants to wait longer, or countless other reasons but all of them are valid reasons to say no.

[JosyJosy]

No I do not

[French_kisses]

I don’t mind it

[Ok_ko]

I love it

[Ok_ko]

I also love a man in military outfit

[Danny_dan92]

It’s uniform not outfit lol

[Ok_ko]

Sorry i’m chinese English is not my first langauage

[Danny_dan92]

Gotcha

[Ok_ko]

Why do you like to give a girl surprise sex?

[Danny_dan92]

It’s kinky, every girl I’ve done it with pretty much liked it a lot

[Ok_ko]

I assume you are the dominant one during sex?

[Danny_dan92]

Definitely, I choke, slap, grab, pull, bite and toss around

[Ok_ko]

Wow that sounds hott :))

[Danny_dan92]

Cause it is 😂

[Ok_ko]

I love rough sex too

[Danny_dan92]

Anyone that doesn’t has a lame sex life. Just saying. I love slamming my dick inside of a girl 😆

[Danny_dan92]

Or if she’s sucking my dick I’ll let her do her thing but then I’ll grab her hair and fuck her mouth

[Ok_ko]

I’d love that to be done to me :”>

[Danny_dan92]

Lol the submissive type huh? You just wanna have a bruised pussy and sore mouth?

[Ok_ko]

I’d enjoy it i’d beg for more