526 opinions shared on Other topic. Girls libidos don't quite work like that.
Just look at men's p*rn vs women's erotic novels.
For us guys, sexual and emotional attraction are generally separate, Sexual attraction is more about appearance and emotional attraction is more about personality. It's kinda nice, because there isn't necessarily much conflict: A good-looking girl can be nice.
For girls, sexual and emotional attraction both come mostly from behavior. Sure, Capt. America would get most girls going, but if you notice, it takes a phenomenal-looking guy to pull this off. (While most women have been thin or curvy throughout history, very few men have been that buff.)
So for girls, there really isn't much that gets them going right away. Most of it takes time to develop.
This is why you should generally hold off on sex for a while. Your libido is already going, so you need to give her time to catch up.
Mind you, it is grossly inconvenient for women to have both sexual AND emotional attraction be based on personality. If you read something like 50 shades of grey, twilight, or other women's romantic novels, their idea of a sexy male character includes many traits that show up mostly in potentially abusive men. Dominant, mysterious, aloof, outlaw, etc. Most of these guys, then, are not good for a girl emotionally.
So she has to choose between a sexy relationship or a healthy relationship, or compromise for a balance. Whereas for guys, a sexy girl isn't necessarily mean, and an ugly girl isn't necessarily nice. Decent looking girls can have good personalities, so there isn't much of a compromise that has to happen.
So overall, there really isn't much that would get a girl drooling over pictures of a man. More likely, she would be drooling over how he acts.74 Reply- +1 y
Of the 100 women surveyed, a vast majority had a lot to say about shoulders. They like it when a man has well-defined, broad shoulders because they're a sign of strength and masculinity.
One woman wrote, "I love when a man moves his shoulders and you're able to see the (muscle) definition." Another gal added, "Running my fingers across broad, lean ones excites me immeasurably.
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women are not aroused by anything, it's like so strange and hard to work with
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Yes please. I'm cruising the internet for videos of buff men working out, as we speak. XD It depends on the woman. Lots of women are attracted to the more willowy, boyish looking guys. The kind that are pretty, and could have something to offer emotionally, and intellectually. Plus, we pic up on clues using all the senses : What is he wearing? How does he smell? What is he saying/what kind of voice does he have? What is he carrying? What is He doing? We're so damn complicated.
As for me, the sight of a well toned man does give me quite a buzz. Mostly, because I've realized that I can enjoy the sight of a guy, and that little flutter of arousal that sometimes comes with it, while still maintaining my high relationship standards. Just because I'm drooling over your body, doesn't mean I'm even going to talk to you. It doesn't give you an advantage over someone who's less attractive.
Oh, and you know how about a week after our period, most women begin ovulation, which increases testosterone, which revs the sex drive. The week before our period? As most men can tell you, we're not nearly as friendly. You could be on fire for all with care.
disclaimer: all women vary, blah blah blah, none of this is set in stone, because we of plenty of additional factors that contribute to how individual women look at men.20 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI personally don't get aroused by just meer physical looks. I get aroused by the guy's personality towards me (that's the personality of someone I already find attractive). Me finding a guy attractive doesn't mean I get aroused by him, it just means I think he's good-looking. It's when the guy I find attractive behaves respectful and caring towards me that I definitely become aroused.
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hahaha fake
+1 yI admired hot and tone body and think that he work hard for that body. I would not get aroused unless maybe if he wink at me. *_-
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Asker+1 yokay...suppose he didn't, then will you ever fantasize about him?
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No, I see a lot of hot bodies but not enough to make me think about them. If he has personality and for some odd reason, I saw how nice he was to a customer/me/old lady, I would fantasize but body alone doesn't cut it.
Asker+1 yokay, ty for your answer
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I agree with the other answer. Its very rare. Maybe I would get aroused if he was beyond amazing and I hadn't had action in a very long time. Lol.
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Asker+1 yokay thanks:)
Asker+1 y@Dubstep Wtf? Y are you so much annoyed on almost all answers if you dnt agree then its okay.Y are you pulling leg of everyone...you agreed that different people have differen opinions...So stick to that...
Asker+1 yi don't know about that but I know that I am enough musclar and handsome to get girls :-)
+1 yYep. I have the utmost appreciation for the male body. It's glorious.
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Good (:
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Das will ich hoffen!
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yRare, very rare, only a very special guy can do this to me.
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Asker+1 ywith special you mean boyfriend or a guy with nice muscles or sumthing else?
Opinion Owner+1 yI mean BRAD PITT
Opinion Owner+1 ydubstep, that is offensive, I've just reported it because I was told there is no offensive posts allowed on this site because they are not helpful.
+1 yNah I don't think so. We might think he looks good or something but we don't get aroused.
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Thanks, girl :)
+1 yFor me, just looking at a guy - no matter how attractive I find him - isn't arousing. I need more than just an image or physical form to get turned on.
It's been proven time and time again that men are more visual than women are.14 Reply- +1 y
Do YOU even know what you're talking about? Interest, attraction, and arousal are not the same thing. And there are plenty of studies on why and how women aren't as visual.
+1 yNahh lol though I would admire his body and think it was sexy but that would end there lol.. maybe if I hadn't had sex in a long time but even then I doubt it lolz
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Im the one getting the kiss lolz
No, not really. Might think "wow nice body" and stuff like that, but not aroused, no...never. Unless he's in bed waiting for me half naked... maybe.
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I'm speaking for MYSELF! But most women would agree with me. I BET!
& Only women who are in desperate need of sex would get turned on by JUST seeing a guy shirtless. (it takes a lot more than that to wet my panties) That's not even stimulating at all, other than it's nice to look at. (IF he even has a good body at all)
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNah, not really maybe if he were to touch me, like hug tightly. But I think these things vary between girls, some girls could be sensitive and anything could turn them on but others it takes a lot more than the sight of a hot ripped body.
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+1 ynope. doesn't work that way. I can't get aroused by a guy if there's no emotion involved.
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Some dude probably got mad :P
+1 yMe personaily don't get aroused I check face out and can tell if there hot or not tattoos make em a little hotter to me
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNo. Some do but for the most part girls aren't like guys in that aspect.
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Opinion Owner+1 yThat would be false
Besides this guy is 25-29, his interest should not be in the arousal of 13 year old girls and neither should yours.
Opinion Owner+1 yYou're right, they aren't. Fangirling does not equal arousal. Sorry to burst your bubble
+1 yYes.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYes
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