Girls libidos don't quite work like that.
Just look at men's p*rn vs women's erotic novels.
For us guys, sexual and emotional attraction are generally separate, Sexual attraction is more about appearance and emotional attraction is more about personality. It's kinda nice, because there isn't necessarily much conflict: A good-looking girl can be nice.
For girls, sexual and emotional attraction both come mostly from behavior. Sure, Capt. America would get most girls going, but if you notice, it takes a phenomenal-looking guy to pull this off. (While most women have been thin or curvy throughout history, very few men have been that buff.)
So for girls, there really isn't much that gets them going right away. Most of it takes time to develop.
This is why you should generally hold off on sex for a while. Your libido is already going, so you need to give her time to catch up.
Mind you, it is grossly inconvenient for women to have both sexual AND emotional attraction be based on personality. If you read something like 50 shades of grey, twilight, or other women's romantic novels, their idea of a sexy male character includes many traits that show up mostly in potentially abusive men. Dominant, mysterious, aloof, outlaw, etc. Most of these guys, then, are not good for a girl emotionally.
So she has to choose between a sexy relationship or a healthy relationship, or compromise for a balance. Whereas for guys, a sexy girl isn't necessarily mean, and an ugly girl isn't necessarily nice. Decent looking girls can have good personalities, so there isn't much of a compromise that has to happen.
So overall, there really isn't much that would get a girl drooling over pictures of a man. More likely, she would be drooling over how he acts.
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women are not aroused by anything, it's like so strange and hard to work with
Yes please. I'm cruising the internet for videos of buff men working out, as we speak. XD It depends on the woman. Lots of women are attracted to the more willowy, boyish looking guys. The kind that are pretty, and could have something to offer emotionally, and intellectually. Plus, we pic up on clues using all the senses : What is he wearing? How does he smell? What is he saying/what kind of voice does he have? What is he carrying? What is He doing? We're so damn complicated.
As for me, the sight of a well toned man does give me quite a buzz. Mostly, because I've realized that I can enjoy the sight of a guy, and that little flutter of arousal that sometimes comes with it, while still maintaining my high relationship standards. Just because I'm drooling over your body, doesn't mean I'm even going to talk to you. It doesn't give you an advantage over someone who's less attractive.
Oh, and you know how about a week after our period, most women begin ovulation, which increases testosterone, which revs the sex drive. The week before our period? As most men can tell you, we're not nearly as friendly. You could be on fire for all with care.
disclaimer: all women vary, blah blah blah, none of this is set in stone, because we of plenty of additional factors that contribute to how individual women look at men.
I personally don't get aroused by just meer physical looks. I get aroused by the guy's personality towards me (that's the personality of someone I already find attractive). Me finding a guy attractive doesn't mean I get aroused by him, it just means I think he's good-looking. It's when the guy I find attractive behaves respectful and caring towards me that I definitely become aroused.
I admired hot and tone body and think that he work hard for that body. I would not get aroused unless maybe if he wink at me. *_-
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I agree with the other answer. Its very rare. Maybe I would get aroused if he was beyond amazing and I hadn't had action in a very long time. Lol.
Yep. I have the utmost appreciation for the male body. It's glorious.
Rare, very rare, only a very special guy can do this to me.
Nah I don't think so. We might think he looks good or something but we don't get aroused.
For me, just looking at a guy - no matter how attractive I find him - isn't arousing. I need more than just an image or physical form to get turned on.
It's been proven time and time again that men are more visual than women are.Nahh lol though I would admire his body and think it was sexy but that would end there lol.. maybe if I hadn't had sex in a long time but even then I doubt it lolz
No, not really. Might think "wow nice body" and stuff like that, but not aroused, no...never. Unless he's in bed waiting for me half naked... maybe.
Nah, not really maybe if he were to touch me, like hug tightly. But I think these things vary between girls, some girls could be sensitive and anything could turn them on but others it takes a lot more than the sight of a hot ripped body.
nope. doesn't work that way. I can't get aroused by a guy if there's no emotion involved.
Me personaily don't get aroused I check face out and can tell if there hot or not tattoos make em a little hotter to me
No. Some do but for the most part girls aren't like guys in that aspect.
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