Instagram Thots... Does anyone find them attractive?

[Anonymous]

Why do men and yes women find females (and male) Instagram models/ fitness models (not even certified) attractive? To me I dated someone and they including themselves would look at those pages, I would see the female, find her pretty but annoyed at the fact that men (or yes females) would look at half naked pages and applaud them. I don't get why and why is it so normal now (why is this the new attractive). Do you find it hard to compete with females or males posting pictures like this? Wouldn't you say its a form of cheating? Has our generation now become a generation of superficial cheaters?

Would you date an Instagram "model" / "fitness model" like krissy taylor etc? (she's 20 years old btw)

Don't find that attractive, not interested

[hellionthesagereborn]

sounds like you have jealousy issues. No looking at people is not cheating and never will be cheating, what do you think a person should do, gouge their eyes out? actions are cheating looking and acknowledging that some one is attractive is not. Now do those models look good? yes they are physically attractive, would I date one? No, they clearly have selfesteem issues for needing constant validation from strangers.

[Asker]

I just asked a question it has nothing to do with jealousy lol however I just want to know what people's opinions are on Instagram "Models" and how this generation considers this the new "normal". That's all but thank you for your opinion.

[hellionthesagereborn]

"Do you find it hard to compete with females or males posting pictures like this? Wouldn't you say its a form of cheating? Has our generation now become a generation of superficial cheaters?" This is what gave that impression, you went from 1 to a 100 in a single sentence, it suggested jealousy. Of course s flesh and blood person can compete with a photo. But as I said, from a male sexuality standpoint these women are sexually attractive but not romantically attractive, their is a distinction between the two in men.

[Asker]

I can see where you come from and that wasn't my intent at all so sorry for the misunderstanding on that. I respect your opinion on this as well so thank you.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Not a problem, just wanted to communicate why I came to that conclusion (it wasn't a personal attack, just an observation). Also again, I find that women don't really understand male sexuality so as I pointed out their is a distinction between sexual and romantic attraction and they oddly enough do conflict some times.

[Asker]

No of course which is why I apologized for the misunderstanding there as well.

[Luis-158]

to be honest, what's wrong with finding fitness models attractive?
i personally see that kind of profiles like the pin-up models from 70 years ago, also it seems to me like an exaggeration calling that a form of cheating

[Asker]

Micro-cheating includes things that are obviously signs that your partner is having an affair of the conventional variety. If he spends ages staring goggle-eyed at pictures of another woman on his phone, while you look grumpy on the other side of the bed, there are only two possibilities: either you’re posing for stock photos for magazine articles on relationship problems, or you’ve got a relationship problem. Yes looking at people isn't bad however starring and fantasizing is a problem and can become a red flag later on.

[Luis-158]

ok, first of all, "micro-cheating" cannot be "obvious" things, nothing "micro" can be obvious and it sounds more like "stuff that the accusing party thinks are signs of cheating".
second thing, how do you know he is fantasizing? can you read his mind? or you are assuming he is fantasizing?
i want to avoid saying stuff like "oh you are just jealous" because is a shallow response useful only to dismiss your concerns but when you are launching accusations of infidelity based only on your own assumptions, is difficult to find other words to use to describe what's fueling you...

[Asker]

No it's just a question of if you find a female or even for females to find male "models" attractive and if they consider it cheating. Everyone has a different opinion and I respect yours. I think Pin Up models had class 70 years ago while "models" now just show their ass and tits in a way thats just out there. Like at least Pin-Ups did it in a way thats tasteful during those times (which I think was done very tastefully and also classy).

[Luis-158]

the funny thing is that kind of photos where lewd70 years ago, but the most famous models where of the "girl next door" kind of girl because those reminded the men about their girls back at home (in the case of those in the frontlines)
and not really, i don't think that finding models attractive is cheating, to me doing so is wanting to punish someone for thinking something i don't like

[Asker]

Yeah it's so interesting and true how they would be "girl next door" type because it reminded them 1. Home and 2. It's like the forbidden fruit type of deal (innocent girl that the boys want but can never have). No to me it isn't cheating unless the guy is being a complete pig about it (if that makes some amount of sense). I do appreciate your opinion.

[Luis-158]

umm first time i heard that interpretation of pin ups, the forbidden fruit one, also i apologize if at any point i sounded rude, it wasn't my intention

[Asker]

No lol it's an opinion and to me personally I always saw Pin-Up models to be classy or even um burlesque dancers to be classy and tasteful since it was for entertainment but to me I look at that style with more respect then the "models" we see online that have zero agents, zero managements etc you know.

[Luis-158]

i get what you mean but i think that difference comes from the fact that now the standards of what is too much are different and maybe that's why for you classic pin-ups and burlesque dancers are classy

[Asker]

Yeah of course which is understandable. Like I see these girls and find it sad that they need validation from "likes" and "comments". Also it's sad and yes annoying that we see these girls more desirable as opposed to females that post about other things online (cooking, fitness routines without being half nude, DIY's etc).

[Luis-158]

well, here is the thing i don't really think that finding a girl sexy is the same has finding her more desirable, for example there is a girl from highschool two years my junior, she has more curves than a mountain side road and even worked has an amateur model, has a person she is a cinnamon bun but i personally have never found her really that desirable has a girlfriend.
and i'll admit, i follow a few instagram models, not all of them are erotic models and i find them atractive for different reasons, but desirables? nah, not really
but who knows, maybe that's just me, lol

[Asker]

Lol I totally get what you mean by that. I appreciate your replies and the fact you are honest about it too. Thank you for also understanding my view on this subject as well.

[Luis-158]

don't mention it, what would be the point of answering if i'm not going to be honest nor going to at least try to understand from where you are comming when making those questions?

[Asker]

Honestly just randomly off the top of my head. Just find this to be the normal now and was curious to know peoples opinions about this.

[Luis-158]

well, that's a good question to ask to be honest

[Asker]

Thank you. I just wanted to know peoples honest opinions for both males and females but also this isn’t just female models it’s also how a male would feel knowing his partner kept liking or checking out sexual male photos on Instagram as well (since there are plenty of those on Instagram). It’s just good to know, to ask and to see people’s views.

[Luis-158]

Umm I guess I never gave you my opinion in that specific point, lol.
In my case, I wouldn't be mad if my girlfriend is getting herself some eye candy in Instagram, after all, at the end of the day, she would end sleeping with me anyway, and the reverse applies to me too, lol.
But my position might be an exception.

[Asker]

I guess so. Everyone is different. Personally I wouldn't want my partner to post any of that online since to me it would make me feel uncomfortable. However it takes a very strong person to be comfortable seeing their partner post themselves explicitly online.

[Luis-158]

wow wow wow, when i meant "getting some eye candy" i meant looking at instagram models, lol.
about being the boyfriend of one and know that there are a LOT of people looking at her in lewd ways and stuff like that? geez i guess i could thrust them? after all if she would get anyone she wanted, she ended up choosing me for some reason, right? in an hipotetical case

[Asker]

I can see your point on that. I didn't think of it that way. However looking at it outside the box I see your point.

[Luis-158]

haha i guess the way i see things are weird, besides i don't really know how i am jealous, so maybe when feeling actual jealousy my mind would be different

[btbc92]

Who cares? Don't date men who like such women and give attention to it. They will only make you miserable while they continue wishing they could bang them. Do you REALLY want to be attracted to such men? There are better men out there!

[ashleyb93]

They're pretty and all but they all look the same and none of it is real so it's kinda like admiring a movie star.

[DublinRollerGirl]

Looks like she is squatting to take a dump, plus those buns still need some work.

[BeMuse]

I don't use Instagram. I don't follow or applaud any of those girls. It's pretty trashy behavior, but if some girls getting naked/half-naked guys are going to look even if they want nothing from it. There's always going to be attractive girls attention seeking. That doesn't mean guys want their girl to be like that. Finding out some girl's butt naked all over the internet is something that'd get her dumped by a lot of men.

[Clarke498]

The fuck is a "thot"?

She is hot no doubt, but it's also just weird that she is the type of girl that's fine with surviving thanks to people staring at her ass. Internet - strippers.

[Asker]

That Hoe Over There = THOT lol

[AlexD835]

That picture is not attractive to me. Based purely on stereotypes I've heard about instagram models, I wouldn't date one. Of course there could be exceptions but I'm not particularly attracted to instagram models as a category of women.

[BarbieSoFetch]

The thing about Insta is that people always post a better them. It's either heavily photoshopped or very planned or staged.

[Canadaman99]

She is gorgeous but the fact that she is posting online for attention (even if it's her job) means she likely isn't the personality I'm into. Either way, wouldn't date lol

[windknowsmyname]

i hate these with a passion. i rather be teased a different way with an over head shot of a girl in a low cut dress.

[danji101]

It’s an age thing cause I can’t stand those types of women in the pic

[Celtero]

Physically? Sure, I mean... it'd be weird not to.

But they're still whores, so...

[Redstang88]

They’re hit, but I have little interest in dating someone that posts every minute of their life online

[NerdInDenial]

These women look really good. They remind me of fast food advertisement. The burger, sandwich, or platter looks really delicious but when you actually get the food, it's not so appetizing.

[name_is_eric]

It would be a lie to say she's unnatractive, but I would not date her.

[Anonymous]

yes, I do find myself compete with those "insta thot " it made dating a lot harder because it kinda brainwashes guys into thinking that all girls should act like this. This making some guys"fuck boys".

[MackToday]

They're gross and disgusting. They know this and use it to get attention and make money.

[turnmypainintopower1]

There just looking for attention

[Anonymous]

Strictly for fucking purposes. Nothing outside of that.

[SketchForger]

I don't find it attractive, I'm not that desperate

[Sionnach]

looks a bit silly to me but then most things like that make me laugh

[Kemil_Zhoki]

Not my type but I might let her blow me.

[RyanAmaral]

No one wants to date these people.

[YeetMama]

Obviously, or else people wouldn't follow them.

[Bosnamam]

I'm not a gay prick who deserves to be raped.