Girls, how do you feel about competitively wrestling guys?

[ZackZ]

Would you wrestle a guy in a competitive way where both are trying their hardest to win? What kind of outcome would you prefer in the match? Would you want to be dominated or dominate? Or something in between? Would you prefer the match to end with a pin or a submission? Also would the match turn you on if you liked the guy? Have any of you ever done anything like this?

[gingerninja1771]

I wrestled from age 5 until my freshman year in high school it wasn't any different than any other match for me but it was frustrating because a lot of guys are super against it so I had quite a few that would forfeit as soon as they saw me

[ZackZ]

The ones that did face you, how did they react after a win/loss? Have you ever done this outside of school?

[Puppylover_129]

I have and do. I was on my highschools (mixed gendered, but i was one out of two girls on the whole team) and I was varsity. I also do Brazilian JiuJitsu, with all men, it's fun.

[ZackZ]

It's fun with men specifically for some reason? Or just in general?

[Puppylover_129]

Its just fun in general lol to me, it's more fun with women, because I get way more aggressive with them.

[Puppylover_129]

I mean wrestling is just fun in general, but if i had to pick, I'd say women were more fun

[ZackZ]

Wait you get more aggressive with women? How come? Wouldn't you need to exert more against against men as we are naturally more aggressive?

[ZackZ]

Also you you prefer pin matches or submission? I think in pins only matches we men have an advantage because of the raw strength involved whereas submission bouts are more about technique, skill and flexibility.

[Puppylover_129]

Nope. For me, its much different fighting a girl, because its a different type of mood. With men, its more battle, but with girls its a war. Its because because we are both girls, i want her to know that she can't beat me and that she is bacially my bitch. Its the same when a man wrestles a man. Its a dominance thing. I can lose to a boy, and be like, "Ok, I need to work on this or that" but, with a girl, I can't afford to lose, cause yo me, that's unacceptable in my eyes. And I never lost to a girl throughout high school. In bjj, there's hardly any girl in my area anyway, that do it. There was a family dpecisl thing, where you coukd bring your family members for free and they could participate, well, one of the guys my age brought his older sister by like a year or something. I'm 5'0, I've work my butt if trsining to be the best I can, and I'm a naturally aggressive player in any sport. I was one of the few good people in the place, well, anyway, he and I went st it plenty of times and I mostly won, but he pulled me yo the side and said his sister said I didn't look tough at all. I went cold. She didn't even know me, but this bitch already made assumptions. Being the only girls there, the sensei at the time had partnered us to spar and I choked the bitch out with in 30 seconds. Repeatedly and she never cane back. So yes, when it comes to women especially, I get WAY more into it. And I prefer submission. Anyone can out strength anyone, I want to make the person submit when they know they can't take it. Plus, with wrestling, a ref calls it, submission, YOU tap out.

[Puppylover_129]

in pin, its not all about strength at all. I think stamina has more to do with it than strength to be honest.

[ZackZ]

I see, that's interesting, never thought of it that way. With guys I think we'd feel even worse about losing to girls because we're supposed to be stronger but I suppose with girls wrestling guys it's different. It's almost "okay" to lose as you implied on your end so there's less pressure. And yeah I see in that sense getting them to tap out is a more dominant victory since it's on them, not a ref. But as a guy I still think pins can be dominant as well, keeping them down so they can't move or escape even if it's about strength (or maybe us guys prefer to win on strength than technique?). Have you ever pinned or been pinned yourself? Or do you only do submission bouts? You seem pretty small... out of curiosity how much can you bicep curl? What's the biggest/strongest guy/girl you've beaten? You must be pretty good to wrestle at your height.

[ZackZ]

Is having stamina really that important versus raw explosive power? After all it's not like you need to keep them down long for a pin. You just need to have that initial strength. Of course if you can't pin them in the first minute or so you might be screwed. Have you managed to pin far stronger/bigger guys/girls than yourself?

[Puppylover_129]

I bicep curls 45. I've been doing it for a while. And of course I e been pined and tapped out lmao! That's part of the game lol especially when I first started and had no clue what I was doing. But I got the hang of it. And that's the thing you can still pin in bun, but you choke too. And I like that part because you make it so you outsmart them, out strength then and you make it so they can't take it, anyone can pin a person really, its not particularly hard per'se, deep, ding on who you verse. And for bjj, I spared with frown men and won. I didn't ask their weight lol that's rude lol but with wrestling, id say 130 5"10 girl I've won against and for boy... id say...125 5"10, The thing with wrestling, you stay in a weight class. And I stayed between 120-125. And with me, because if my height, its hard to grab me and i have strong legs and in very flexible, so i dont end up on my back as easy and stamina is he'll important! Its very bad to explode at times, because its easy to out technique them and if you do that, and you DONT have the stamina, you are basically just putty in their hands. That's why normally, wrestling coaches make you run a lot because they want you to build stamina.

[Puppylover_129]

45 for each hand*

[Puppylover_129]

I don't really ask what people way in wrestling do I could have won against heavier people.

[Puppylover_129]

Weigh

[ZackZ]

45 each at 120? That's crazy strong! Most guys can't curl that much. My max would probably only be like 40 for one rep and with multiple reps I'd have to reduce it to like 35 (I'm 5'7 at 150). Granted I just started working out but still. According to strengthlevel. com you're in the Elite category for girls. With that kind of strength have you ever tried doing any kinds of slams/throws while wrestling? Or do you just go for more basic takedowns? And yeah I guess being short can be an advantage as you're hard to to keep control of and probably have better balance as well. At any rate boyfriends would probably be terrified of challenging you since you can probably destroy the average untrained guy.

[ZackZ]

If I were you I'd go for slams all the time while wrestling. You said getting them to tapout makes you feel more dominant but imagine lifting them up, then slamming them so the wind is knocked out of them and then going for the win. As a guy that sounds more dominant to me tbh. Shows you really owned them completely. But probably impractical vs a trained opponent.

[ZackZ]

*going for the pin

[Puppylover_129]

Lol I've just been doing sin e i was young. My dad brought me and my sisters to his gym that he's been going to as a kid lol and I've seen guys curl like 50s and higher lol. For wrestling, I like doing for the legs and I go this thing I call "the whip" like when we are arm locked, I put my arms under theirs and grab them by their shoulders. And using my weight i quickly throw them upwards and drop like onto the ground and land with my legs sprawled, thus making them unable to get my legs and I work from there. That's my go to in a standing position.

[Puppylover_129]

Oh i like those, but its rare for me, because I'm tiny and it tiny to much time to lift them. If the guy i much taller than me, i go for leg shots and i try to get then on the ground as fast as I can. And I like the whip move because it makes them eat the Matt and I love the groan they do when they hit the Matt. Makes me feel badass lol

[ZackZ]

Oh yeah I know a highly trained guy can do more than 45 but for a girl at your size and weight 45 is really, really good. You almost sound sadistic when you say you love them groaning when losing lol. Seems like you almost get turned on by the dominance. Whereas a lot of small girls prefer to be the submissive one. Fascinating to learn about a girl wrestler. Wish there were more girls like you lol. It's so much cooler than the girly stuff most girls are into. Anyway later.

[Puppylover_129]

Later!

[Puppylover_129]

And thank you lol

[MaxiMich]

@Puppylover_129 So how often do you wrestle these days?

[pageturner]

If I was gonna wrestle like this I wouldn't let emotions or dumb stuff ruin anything, and like I'd like to win.

[Anonymous]

I like it, but I prefer wrestling in bed, and I win all the time.