This girl rejected me... so why does she still keep me on her messenger, should I send her a Valentine’s Day text?

[Anonymous]

[cjennaa]

If you intend on asking her out for valentines day then text her. If not, I wouldn't bother.

[cjennaa]

Thank you! Did you decide to text?

[Asker]

I’m taking your advice.
I just want to be friends with her.
Just wanted to text something Incase , no one else did, and she feels depressed, but can do that another time I guess?

[cjennaa]

That's very sweet and very thoughtful of you. But if she likes you and you did that, it might lead her on which would hurt her.

And if she isn't into you then you getting out of it faster will hurt you less in the end.

[Anonymous]

Well first, how did she reject you?

[Asker]

By text, when I asked her out

[Opinion Owner]

If she’s genuinely not interested then I wouldn’t receommend it. I’d only recommend if if you think she likes you but is shy or has other reasons for rejecting like being too busy etc. Otherwise best to leave it.

[Opinion Owner]

I meant more why did she reject you, do you know?

[Asker]

She not shy, that’s for sure.
Just a friendly valentine?

[Opinion Owner]

Is a valentine ever just friendly though? You could, I mean it’s up to you, I think you just have to do what feels right as it’s impossible for us to say for sure since we don’t have any context of your circumstance.

[Asker]

Thanks, your right.

[boggboss]

If u want but she will just see it as creepy

[Asker]

I think she keeps me around for an ego boost.
Just a simple valentine thing?

[boggboss]

Then do it meh